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		<title>By: Priya Lynn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Priya Lynn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jun 2010 15:25:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Robert said &quot;I hold a different opinion than you, and therefore oppose you. You have harmed no one with your opinions. Does that mean I hate you? Does that mean that you hate Neil and Bob? Of course not. Who are you to question someone’s motives?&quot;.

Robert when you oppose a core feature of a person you hate the essence of that person.  Yes I hate Neil/Bob just as I hate anyone who harms innocent people.  I am a rational person and that qualifies me to question your motives.

Robert said &quot;Furthermore, who determines what is a harmless perversion worthy of mandatory acceptance? NAMBLA members think their actions are harmless, but the vast majority of people disagree. Is it what the majority of people think is harmless? Minority groups decry the “tyranny of the majority” so I doubt that this would be the accepted standard.&quot;.

We rely on mental health experts and the medical profession to determine what is a harmless &quot;perversion&quot;.  All major mental and physical health organizations agree that gayness is harmless and that pedophelia is harmful.  What qualifications do you have to require that your opinion supercede their&#039;s?

Robert said &quot;We’re supposed to love mass murderers.&quot;.

Christians like you have bastardized the meaning of love.  To love means to get deep pleasure out of someone&#039;s pressence, to feel joy from their personality.  Christians don&#039;t in any true sense of the word love mass murderers, that&#039;s just Christianist BS.  What you refer to as &quot;love&quot; is not love, it is a desire to command and control.

Robert said &quot;If a child steals a piece of candy, the mother does not condone it. The mother will even punish the child. But this does not mean that the mother does not love the child.&quot;.

This idea that our actions are divorced from who we are as people is more christianist BS.  Our actions reflect a part of who we are.  If a mother does not condone a child&#039;s action then she does not condone part of who that child is.   There may be other aspects of the child that the mother love but make no mistake about it, she hates that aspect of the child that gave rise to the theft.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Robert said &#8220;I hold a different opinion than you, and therefore oppose you. You have harmed no one with your opinions. Does that mean I hate you? Does that mean that you hate Neil and Bob? Of course not. Who are you to question someone’s motives?&#8221;.</p>
<p>Robert when you oppose a core feature of a person you hate the essence of that person.  Yes I hate Neil/Bob just as I hate anyone who harms innocent people.  I am a rational person and that qualifies me to question your motives.</p>
<p>Robert said &#8220;Furthermore, who determines what is a harmless perversion worthy of mandatory acceptance? NAMBLA members think their actions are harmless, but the vast majority of people disagree. Is it what the majority of people think is harmless? Minority groups decry the “tyranny of the majority” so I doubt that this would be the accepted standard.&#8221;.</p>
<p>We rely on mental health experts and the medical profession to determine what is a harmless &#8220;perversion&#8221;.  All major mental and physical health organizations agree that gayness is harmless and that pedophelia is harmful.  What qualifications do you have to require that your opinion supercede their&#8217;s?</p>
<p>Robert said &#8220;We’re supposed to love mass murderers.&#8221;.</p>
<p>Christians like you have bastardized the meaning of love.  To love means to get deep pleasure out of someone&#8217;s pressence, to feel joy from their personality.  Christians don&#8217;t in any true sense of the word love mass murderers, that&#8217;s just Christianist BS.  What you refer to as &#8220;love&#8221; is not love, it is a desire to command and control.</p>
<p>Robert said &#8220;If a child steals a piece of candy, the mother does not condone it. The mother will even punish the child. But this does not mean that the mother does not love the child.&#8221;.</p>
<p>This idea that our actions are divorced from who we are as people is more christianist BS.  Our actions reflect a part of who we are.  If a mother does not condone a child&#8217;s action then she does not condone part of who that child is.   There may be other aspects of the child that the mother love but make no mistake about it, she hates that aspect of the child that gave rise to the theft.</p>
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		<title>By: Timothy Kincaid</title>
		<link>http://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/2008/04/14/1805/comment-page-1#comment-70571</link>
		<dc:creator>Timothy Kincaid</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jun 2010 15:14:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Robert,

Some advice:  Arguments in favor of freedom have merit. But the moment you dredge up NAMBLA you lose all credibility and are just written off as a hater.  It&#039;s pretty much the same as a gay person bringing up Fred Phelps.

You may want to keep that in mind for further consideration.  Because once I got to your NAMBLA mention, I realized that you were not here to discuss issues of merit but just to declare your contempt for others.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Robert,</p>
<p>Some advice:  Arguments in favor of freedom have merit. But the moment you dredge up NAMBLA you lose all credibility and are just written off as a hater.  It&#8217;s pretty much the same as a gay person bringing up Fred Phelps.</p>
<p>You may want to keep that in mind for further consideration.  Because once I got to your NAMBLA mention, I realized that you were not here to discuss issues of merit but just to declare your contempt for others.</p>
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		<title>By: Robert (not Bob)</title>
		<link>http://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/2008/04/14/1805/comment-page-1#comment-70564</link>
		<dc:creator>Robert (not Bob)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jun 2010 13:37:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jen said: &quot;I thought “Christians” were supposed to love everyone...&quot; This is not exactly true. The commandments state that we&#039;re supposed to &quot;love one another&quot; (brethren in Christ) and to &quot;love [our] enemies.&quot; But love of a person and condoning/acceptance of actions are two completely different things. We&#039;re supposed to love mass murderers. We&#039;re supposed to love drunkards, prostitutes, slanderers, etc... But nowhere in the Bible does Jesus, or anyone else, say that we are supposed to accept everyone&#039;s behavior. We&#039;re supposed to love one another as Christ loves us. If a child steals a piece of candy, the mother does not condone it. The mother will even punish the child. But this does not mean that the mother does not love the child. Quite the opposite! It shows that she really does love the child and has the best interests for the child in mind.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jen said: &#8220;I thought “Christians” were supposed to love everyone&#8230;&#8221; This is not exactly true. The commandments state that we&#8217;re supposed to &#8220;love one another&#8221; (brethren in Christ) and to &#8220;love [our] enemies.&#8221; But love of a person and condoning/acceptance of actions are two completely different things. We&#8217;re supposed to love mass murderers. We&#8217;re supposed to love drunkards, prostitutes, slanderers, etc&#8230; But nowhere in the Bible does Jesus, or anyone else, say that we are supposed to accept everyone&#8217;s behavior. We&#8217;re supposed to love one another as Christ loves us. If a child steals a piece of candy, the mother does not condone it. The mother will even punish the child. But this does not mean that the mother does not love the child. Quite the opposite! It shows that she really does love the child and has the best interests for the child in mind.</p>
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		<title>By: Robert (not Bob)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robert (not Bob)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jun 2010 13:30:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Priya: &quot;when you oppose those who harm no one hatred is the only possible reason why.&quot; I hold a different opinion than you, and therefore oppose you. You have harmed no one with your opinions. Does that mean I hate you? Does that mean that you hate Neil and Bob? Of course not. Who are you to question someone&#039;s motives? 

Furthermore, who determines what is a harmless perversion worthy of mandatory acceptance? NAMBLA members think their actions are harmless, but the vast majority of people disagree. Is it what the majority of people think is harmless? Minority groups decry the &quot;tyranny of the majority&quot; so I doubt that this would be the accepted standard. 

I agree that justice requires acceptance, but only from the governmental standpoint. It does not mandate it upon a free people who would otherwise disagree. That&#039;s tyranny.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Priya: &#8220;when you oppose those who harm no one hatred is the only possible reason why.&#8221; I hold a different opinion than you, and therefore oppose you. You have harmed no one with your opinions. Does that mean I hate you? Does that mean that you hate Neil and Bob? Of course not. Who are you to question someone&#8217;s motives? </p>
<p>Furthermore, who determines what is a harmless perversion worthy of mandatory acceptance? NAMBLA members think their actions are harmless, but the vast majority of people disagree. Is it what the majority of people think is harmless? Minority groups decry the &#8220;tyranny of the majority&#8221; so I doubt that this would be the accepted standard. </p>
<p>I agree that justice requires acceptance, but only from the governmental standpoint. It does not mandate it upon a free people who would otherwise disagree. That&#8217;s tyranny.</p>
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		<title>By: Robert (not Bob)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robert (not Bob)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jun 2010 13:18:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I disagree that there was actionable discrimination. By that I mean that private companies (should) have the right to serve, and the right to refuse service. If that is because of your sexual orientation or because you don&#039;t support the local sports team, that is up to the company. If the policies are too crazy, that person is not going to be in business much longer. 

Consider the opposite: I don&#039;t want to photograph your commitment ceremony because you&#039;re a same sex couple (regardless of my religious views). The government says I have to work because my basis for my discrimination is not a valid reason. Thus the government would be forcing me to work in a situation that I don&#039;t want to. Isn&#039;t that a violation of the 13th amendment? Isn&#039;t that involuntary servitude?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I disagree that there was actionable discrimination. By that I mean that private companies (should) have the right to serve, and the right to refuse service. If that is because of your sexual orientation or because you don&#8217;t support the local sports team, that is up to the company. If the policies are too crazy, that person is not going to be in business much longer. </p>
<p>Consider the opposite: I don&#8217;t want to photograph your commitment ceremony because you&#8217;re a same sex couple (regardless of my religious views). The government says I have to work because my basis for my discrimination is not a valid reason. Thus the government would be forcing me to work in a situation that I don&#8217;t want to. Isn&#8217;t that a violation of the 13th amendment? Isn&#8217;t that involuntary servitude?</p>
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		<title>By: Priya Lynn</title>
		<link>http://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/2008/04/14/1805/comment-page-1#comment-67111</link>
		<dc:creator>Priya Lynn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Apr 2010 21:51:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Neil/Bob, when you oppose those who harm no one hatred is the only possible reason why.  Justice demands that you accept every harmless &quot;perversion&quot; otherwise people can arbitrarily define your life as a perversion and deny you equal rights.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Neil/Bob, when you oppose those who harm no one hatred is the only possible reason why.  Justice demands that you accept every harmless &#8220;perversion&#8221; otherwise people can arbitrarily define your life as a perversion and deny you equal rights.</p>
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		<title>By: Timothy Kincaid</title>
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		<dc:creator>Timothy Kincaid</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Apr 2010 19:30:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Neil/Bob,

The use of two different names in an effort to appear as though you are two persons with the same viewpoint does not lend credibility to your argument.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Neil/Bob,</p>
<p>The use of two different names in an effort to appear as though you are two persons with the same viewpoint does not lend credibility to your argument.</p>
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		<title>By: Bob</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bob</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Apr 2010 19:04:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Shari is right on.
A wedding is a union of a man and woman, NOT a man and his daughter or a man and his pet or a man and another man.
What amazes me is that these people redefine what marriage is (and has been since the beginning of time) and then accuse those that say &quot;no, you&#039;re wrong&quot; of &#039;hatred&#039;.
Jen; are &#039;Christians&#039; to accept every perversion that comes along? What about a man who is in love with his sister? If he shouts loud enough will you fight for his &#039;right&#039; to marry her???</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Shari is right on.<br />
A wedding is a union of a man and woman, NOT a man and his daughter or a man and his pet or a man and another man.<br />
What amazes me is that these people redefine what marriage is (and has been since the beginning of time) and then accuse those that say &#8220;no, you&#8217;re wrong&#8221; of &#8216;hatred&#8217;.<br />
Jen; are &#8216;Christians&#8217; to accept every perversion that comes along? What about a man who is in love with his sister? If he shouts loud enough will you fight for his &#8216;right&#8217; to marry her???</p>
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		<title>By: Neil</title>
		<link>http://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/2008/04/14/1805/comment-page-1#comment-64073</link>
		<dc:creator>Neil</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2010 00:02:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Reading the comments of &#039;Jen Ryder&#039; above just makes me sad.
Do you realize what you just said?
Read it again. You HOPE they go under?? I thought you were &#039;tolerant&#039; of everybody&#039;s convictions?
Oh, that&#039;s right. You&#039;re tolerant of everyone EXCEPT people who have convictions.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Reading the comments of &#8216;Jen Ryder&#8217; above just makes me sad.<br />
Do you realize what you just said?<br />
Read it again. You HOPE they go under?? I thought you were &#8216;tolerant&#8217; of everybody&#8217;s convictions?<br />
Oh, that&#8217;s right. You&#8217;re tolerant of everyone EXCEPT people who have convictions.</p>
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		<title>By: Jen Ryder</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jen Ryder</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jan 2010 15:19:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It is amazing how much discrimination there is in the world.  I hope this business goes under.  I thought &quot;Christians&quot; were supposed to love everyone yet once again I see them turning it around and using their &quot;god&quot; as a pawn.  IN my opinion they are just a bunch of hypocrits.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is amazing how much discrimination there is in the world.  I hope this business goes under.  I thought &#8220;Christians&#8221; were supposed to love everyone yet once again I see them turning it around and using their &#8220;god&#8221; as a pawn.  IN my opinion they are just a bunch of hypocrits.</p>
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