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	<title>Comments on: A Friendly Reminder</title>
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		<title>By: a. mcewen</title>
		<link>http://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/2009/06/26/12526/comment-page-1#comment-43561</link>
		<dc:creator>a. mcewen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Jun 2009 22:14:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The article in the American Prospect reads like one that SHOULD be run in The Advocate magazine as a cover story.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The article in the American Prospect reads like one that SHOULD be run in The Advocate magazine as a cover story.</p>
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		<title>By: Trey</title>
		<link>http://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/2009/06/26/12526/comment-page-1#comment-43517</link>
		<dc:creator>Trey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 23:08:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>:) i was wondering if you all would post on sewrer&#039;s article...glad to see you did.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>:) i was wondering if you all would post on sewrer&#8217;s article&#8230;glad to see you did.</p>
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		<title>By: a. mcewen</title>
		<link>http://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/2009/06/26/12526/comment-page-1#comment-43512</link>
		<dc:creator>a. mcewen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 22:23:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you Jim for that on point posting</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you Jim for that on point posting</p>
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		<title>By: Christopher Waldrop</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christopher Waldrop</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 22:11:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s ironic that I&#039;d read this on the same day that I picked up a copy of the local free weekly Inside Out Nashville. (The URL is below, and please excuse my ignorance with HTML.)

The weekly has a regular column by a black man named Anthony Rucker. This week, under the heading, &quot;Nobody Wins In The Oppression Olympics&quot;, he writes about Dov Hikind, who says a Holocaust memorial in Brooklyn should not recognize non-Jewish victims. Rucker&#039;s analysis, and how this story relates to discrimination in other areas, is very interesting.

Issues of Inside Out can only be viewed as PDFs. Here&#039;s the link to the most recent issue:
http://insideoutnashville.com/assets/issues/iOut6-22.pdf</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s ironic that I&#8217;d read this on the same day that I picked up a copy of the local free weekly Inside Out Nashville. (The URL is below, and please excuse my ignorance with HTML.)</p>
<p>The weekly has a regular column by a black man named Anthony Rucker. This week, under the heading, &#8220;Nobody Wins In The Oppression Olympics&#8221;, he writes about Dov Hikind, who says a Holocaust memorial in Brooklyn should not recognize non-Jewish victims. Rucker&#8217;s analysis, and how this story relates to discrimination in other areas, is very interesting.</p>
<p>Issues of Inside Out can only be viewed as PDFs. Here&#8217;s the link to the most recent issue:<br />
<a href="http://insideoutnashville.com/assets/issues/iOut6-22.pdf" rel="nofollow">http://insideoutnashville.com/assets/issues/iOut6-22.pdf</a></p>
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		<title>By: GreenEyedLilo</title>
		<link>http://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/2009/06/26/12526/comment-page-1#comment-43507</link>
		<dc:creator>GreenEyedLilo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 21:47:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As a white Southern woman with ancestors who were in the Ku Klux Klan, I struggled with how to respond to black homophobes.  My Russian wife (girlfriend at the time, who never even saw a black person before she was 14) gave me what I consider the perfect response almost accidentally.  &quot;You say that black people are as good as white people,&quot; she noted.  &quot;Can they not also be as *bad*?&quot;  Well, yeah!  I felt my eyes open just a little more.

I have LGBT friends who are white Southern, black Northern, white Northern, Jamaican, Russian, and Hispanic.  It&#039;s amazing how in all our different cultures, we&#039;ve all been treated like crap at one point or another in the name of &quot;cultural authenticity.&quot;  (Okay, it&#039;s more often stated as &quot;you&#039;re shaming your family&quot; or &quot;we don&#039;t *do* that.&quot;)  Queerness spans the cultures, and so does homophobia.

Rita Mae Brown had a wonderful bit in her wonderful book &quot;Rubyfruit Jungle&quot; where her white lesbian protagonist, Molly Bolt, temporarily sleeps in a car along with a black gay man.  They are both throwaways in their late teens.  Molly&#039;s friend observes, &quot;White people don&#039;t want their queers, black people don&#039;t want their queers, I don&#039;t even think the Chinese want their queers.&quot;  

I think that some of us may be better equipped to reach certain groups than others.   I think it is *very* important for white LGBTs to avoid racism or xenophobia when we have an issue with homophobic acts by people who are black or foreign.  But mostly, I think everyone has good and bad in them, in different places and amounts.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a white Southern woman with ancestors who were in the Ku Klux Klan, I struggled with how to respond to black homophobes.  My Russian wife (girlfriend at the time, who never even saw a black person before she was 14) gave me what I consider the perfect response almost accidentally.  &#8220;You say that black people are as good as white people,&#8221; she noted.  &#8220;Can they not also be as *bad*?&#8221;  Well, yeah!  I felt my eyes open just a little more.</p>
<p>I have LGBT friends who are white Southern, black Northern, white Northern, Jamaican, Russian, and Hispanic.  It&#8217;s amazing how in all our different cultures, we&#8217;ve all been treated like crap at one point or another in the name of &#8220;cultural authenticity.&#8221;  (Okay, it&#8217;s more often stated as &#8220;you&#8217;re shaming your family&#8221; or &#8220;we don&#8217;t *do* that.&#8221;)  Queerness spans the cultures, and so does homophobia.</p>
<p>Rita Mae Brown had a wonderful bit in her wonderful book &#8220;Rubyfruit Jungle&#8221; where her white lesbian protagonist, Molly Bolt, temporarily sleeps in a car along with a black gay man.  They are both throwaways in their late teens.  Molly&#8217;s friend observes, &#8220;White people don&#8217;t want their queers, black people don&#8217;t want their queers, I don&#8217;t even think the Chinese want their queers.&#8221;  </p>
<p>I think that some of us may be better equipped to reach certain groups than others.   I think it is *very* important for white LGBTs to avoid racism or xenophobia when we have an issue with homophobic acts by people who are black or foreign.  But mostly, I think everyone has good and bad in them, in different places and amounts.</p>
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		<title>By: Regan DuCasse</title>
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		<dc:creator>Regan DuCasse</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 20:52:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No argument here Jim! :0P</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No argument here Jim! :0P</p>
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		<title>By: gar</title>
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		<dc:creator>gar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 19:46:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yep.  DC has a large and strong African American LGBT community.  Has for many years.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yep.  DC has a large and strong African American LGBT community.  Has for many years.</p>
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