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	<title>Comments on: The Torah Declaration: Orthodox Judaism&#8217;s impossible position</title>
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		<title>By: Jean-Pierre Katz</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jean-Pierre Katz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 May 2012 00:01:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Both this rabbi from Amsterdam and all the rabbis in the original &quot;Declaration&quot; are seriously mistaken.

They are steering teenagers and others to Jonah, as is evidenced by the signature of Arthur Goldberg. This executive and founder of the organization , Jonah, was disbarred and spent 18 months in jail for defrauding investors out of millions of dollars. He dropped his middle name Abba to disguise himself.It was one month after he got out of jail that he started Jonah to help himself to the money all these desperate families would give him. Aside from all the psychological harm this junk science therapy does to its clients, Jonah is using Christian evangelicals who specifically want to &quot;shmad&quot; Jews. Let everyone in this matter be clear when saying that &quot;change&quot; is possible. Yes you can become celibate but you can&#039;t change your attractions and desires!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Both this rabbi from Amsterdam and all the rabbis in the original &#8220;Declaration&#8221; are seriously mistaken.</p>
<p>They are steering teenagers and others to Jonah, as is evidenced by the signature of Arthur Goldberg. This executive and founder of the organization , Jonah, was disbarred and spent 18 months in jail for defrauding investors out of millions of dollars. He dropped his middle name Abba to disguise himself.It was one month after he got out of jail that he started Jonah to help himself to the money all these desperate families would give him. Aside from all the psychological harm this junk science therapy does to its clients, Jonah is using Christian evangelicals who specifically want to &#8220;shmad&#8221; Jews. Let everyone in this matter be clear when saying that &#8220;change&#8221; is possible. Yes you can become celibate but you can&#8217;t change your attractions and desires!</p>
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		<title>By: Erin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Erin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 18:08:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t need a study to tell me what I already know is logically impossible. If a man possesses the ability to find other men attractive, he&#039;s never going to erase that simple fact. Even if he only ever finds one man attractive, and all his other feelings/attractions are for women, well then that man is bisexual. Bisexuality is an easy answer for some of those respondents who said they &quot;changed&quot; and became genuinely happy with a woman. It&#039;s because they had the ability to fall for both men and women all along. That is an innate orientation, just like gay and straight are. So many people have gross misconceptions about bisexuality, though. They really don&#039;t understand that those people don&#039;t have the ability to choose either. Attraction is not a choice. You wouldn&#039;t experience a type of attraction if your brain did not have the capacity for it. Ex-gay therapy would have to physically alter the wiring of the brain to change orientation, and since the neurosciences still can&#039;t access, measure, and fully understand every single area of the brain, there&#039;ll never be 100% proof that changing orientation is possible. So no, self-reported &quot;change&quot; in the very type of therapy people seek because they desperately don&#039;t want to be who they are, isn&#039;t going to convince a whole lot of sane, intelligent people.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t need a study to tell me what I already know is logically impossible. If a man possesses the ability to find other men attractive, he&#8217;s never going to erase that simple fact. Even if he only ever finds one man attractive, and all his other feelings/attractions are for women, well then that man is bisexual. Bisexuality is an easy answer for some of those respondents who said they &#8220;changed&#8221; and became genuinely happy with a woman. It&#8217;s because they had the ability to fall for both men and women all along. That is an innate orientation, just like gay and straight are. So many people have gross misconceptions about bisexuality, though. They really don&#8217;t understand that those people don&#8217;t have the ability to choose either. Attraction is not a choice. You wouldn&#8217;t experience a type of attraction if your brain did not have the capacity for it. Ex-gay therapy would have to physically alter the wiring of the brain to change orientation, and since the neurosciences still can&#8217;t access, measure, and fully understand every single area of the brain, there&#8217;ll never be 100% proof that changing orientation is possible. So no, self-reported &#8220;change&#8221; in the very type of therapy people seek because they desperately don&#8217;t want to be who they are, isn&#8217;t going to convince a whole lot of sane, intelligent people.</p>
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		<title>By: mrmstur</title>
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		<dc:creator>mrmstur</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 08:24:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Why do ex-gay proponents rely on those useless &quot;studies&quot; that don&#039;t go beyond asking questions and publishing testimonies?

If you want objective results, there are machines that measure sexual arousal.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why do ex-gay proponents rely on those useless &#8220;studies&#8221; that don&#8217;t go beyond asking questions and publishing testimonies?</p>
<p>If you want objective results, there are machines that measure sexual arousal.</p>
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		<title>By: Ezam</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ezam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 07:46:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The problem with the Karten &amp; Wade study is that it relies on self-report data. What assures us that the respondents are being completely truthful?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The problem with the Karten &amp; Wade study is that it relies on self-report data. What assures us that the respondents are being completely truthful?</p>
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		<title>By: chars</title>
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		<dc:creator>chars</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 07:21:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Has anyone besides Yosef read the 2010 study? Who were behind it and what methods were used?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Has anyone besides Yosef read the 2010 study? Who were behind it and what methods were used?</p>
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		<title>By: Richard Rush</title>
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		<dc:creator>Richard Rush</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 00:18:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yosef,

Since you are so desperate to believe that homosexuals can transform themselves into heterosexuals, I assume you believe we should seek to do so. But, why should we? Please tell us. If you can present a compelling reason to do so, along with reasonable assurance that I would be successful, I will seek change.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yosef,</p>
<p>Since you are so desperate to believe that homosexuals can transform themselves into heterosexuals, I assume you believe we should seek to do so. But, why should we? Please tell us. If you can present a compelling reason to do so, along with reasonable assurance that I would be successful, I will seek change.</p>
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		<title>By: Timothy Kincaid</title>
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		<dc:creator>Timothy Kincaid</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2012 20:41:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yosef,

He &quot;doesn&#039;t know&quot; because his &quot;study&quot; wasn&#039;t a study.  Literally, all he did was have people tell him over the telephone &quot;I&#039;ve changed.&quot;

Have you ever seen those infomercials with people in the mall announcing how changed they are after wearing the magical bracelet with magnets or batteries or made of copper or doused in snake oil?  Yep, that would the the equivalent of Spitzer&#039;s study.

Spitzer is a good man.  He was just trying to validate what some people were telling him.  And his study proves that yes, some people really do &lt;i&gt;tell researchers&lt;/i&gt; that they have changed.  That&#039;s all.  Not proof they&#039;ve changed, just proof that they were at one point willing to claim so.

Yosef, it comes down to this:  reorientation doesn&#039;t work.  I used to think that while it wasn&#039;t for me, maybe some people might actually experience some change in orientation.  But, they just simply don&#039;t.  You can really, really, really want it to - and believe me many Exodus people really really really want it to - but it reorientation doesn&#039;t work.

You can even cling to &quot;well it might be true cuz Spitzer didn&#039;t study that it wasn&#039;t so, ummm, I choose to believe that if he had studied it he would have found 30% success.&quot;  It doesn&#039;t work.  He wouldn&#039;t have.

Yes, he verified that after looking for three years he was able to find 200 people to say that they had some change.  Some of them were pressured to do so by their therapist (one of our writers was pressured this way).  Some later retracted what they told him.

But Yosef, I don&#039;t think you are trying to convince us here.  I think you are desperately trying to convince yourself.  And I don&#039;t think that you believe it nearly as much as you want to believe it&#039;s true.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yosef,</p>
<p>He &#8220;doesn&#8217;t know&#8221; because his &#8220;study&#8221; wasn&#8217;t a study.  Literally, all he did was have people tell him over the telephone &#8220;I&#8217;ve changed.&#8221;</p>
<p>Have you ever seen those infomercials with people in the mall announcing how changed they are after wearing the magical bracelet with magnets or batteries or made of copper or doused in snake oil?  Yep, that would the the equivalent of Spitzer&#8217;s study.</p>
<p>Spitzer is a good man.  He was just trying to validate what some people were telling him.  And his study proves that yes, some people really do <i>tell researchers</i> that they have changed.  That&#8217;s all.  Not proof they&#8217;ve changed, just proof that they were at one point willing to claim so.</p>
<p>Yosef, it comes down to this:  reorientation doesn&#8217;t work.  I used to think that while it wasn&#8217;t for me, maybe some people might actually experience some change in orientation.  But, they just simply don&#8217;t.  You can really, really, really want it to &#8211; and believe me many Exodus people really really really want it to &#8211; but it reorientation doesn&#8217;t work.</p>
<p>You can even cling to &#8220;well it might be true cuz Spitzer didn&#8217;t study that it wasn&#8217;t so, ummm, I choose to believe that if he had studied it he would have found 30% success.&#8221;  It doesn&#8217;t work.  He wouldn&#8217;t have.</p>
<p>Yes, he verified that after looking for three years he was able to find 200 people to say that they had some change.  Some of them were pressured to do so by their therapist (one of our writers was pressured this way).  Some later retracted what they told him.</p>
<p>But Yosef, I don&#8217;t think you are trying to convince us here.  I think you are desperately trying to convince yourself.  And I don&#8217;t think that you believe it nearly as much as you want to believe it&#8217;s true.</p>
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		<title>By: Yosef</title>
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		<dc:creator>Yosef</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jan 2012 06:04:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jim,

His point is that he really doesn’t know since his study did not focus on that. His study started off with people who were helped by therapy. That was the given. 

In this interview: http://www.drthrockmorton.com/interviewdrspitzer.pdf 

he says: “But I’ve asked two of the more well known practitioners of this kind of therapy how often are they successful, and they say, well it depends on the way you define success, but if you define success in terms of a change in behavior, and in feelings, there’s about 30 percent or something like that. Now I suspect it’s much lower, but I could be wrong. So whether it’s 2 %, 10%, or 15%, but what I am sure is that it’s not 0%. And that’s what this study was about, whether it’s actually 0 percent.”

You can easily see that he himself said that maybe the practitioners who claim 30% are right – and maybe they are wrong. He is not making any claims about that point.

He simply didn’t study it and wants to make sure he is quoted accurately.

He began with people who claimed that they changed and he wanted to verify it. That’s all.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jim,</p>
<p>His point is that he really doesn’t know since his study did not focus on that. His study started off with people who were helped by therapy. That was the given. </p>
<p>In this interview: <a href="http://www.drthrockmorton.com/interviewdrspitzer.pdf" rel="nofollow">http://www.drthrockmorton.com/interviewdrspitzer.pdf</a> </p>
<p>he says: “But I’ve asked two of the more well known practitioners of this kind of therapy how often are they successful, and they say, well it depends on the way you define success, but if you define success in terms of a change in behavior, and in feelings, there’s about 30 percent or something like that. Now I suspect it’s much lower, but I could be wrong. So whether it’s 2 %, 10%, or 15%, but what I am sure is that it’s not 0%. And that’s what this study was about, whether it’s actually 0 percent.”</p>
<p>You can easily see that he himself said that maybe the practitioners who claim 30% are right – and maybe they are wrong. He is not making any claims about that point.</p>
<p>He simply didn’t study it and wants to make sure he is quoted accurately.</p>
<p>He began with people who claimed that they changed and he wanted to verify it. That’s all.</p>
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		<title>By: Jim Burroway</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jim Burroway</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jan 2012 04:51:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yosef, 

We are very familiar with Spitzer&#039;s 2003 study, in particular his speaking out against those who have misrepresented his study:

http://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/tag/robert-spitzer

He told the New York Times that he thought change was exceedingly rare: &quot;Although I suspect change occurs, I suspect it’s very rare,” he said. “Is it 1 percent, 2 percent? I don’t think it’s 10 percent.”

http://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/2007/02/14/223</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yosef, </p>
<p>We are very familiar with Spitzer&#8217;s 2003 study, in particular his speaking out against those who have misrepresented his study:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/tag/robert-spitzer" rel="nofollow" class="articleLink">http://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/tag/robert-spitzer</a></p>
<p>He told the New York Times that he thought change was exceedingly rare: &#8220;Although I suspect change occurs, I suspect it’s very rare,” he said. “Is it 1 percent, 2 percent? I don’t think it’s 10 percent.”</p>
<p><a href="http://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/2007/02/14/223" rel="nofollow" class="articleLink">http://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/2007/02/14/223</a></p>
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		<title>By: Yosef,</title>
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		<dc:creator>Yosef,</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jan 2012 04:23:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Here is a another study:

Can Some Gay Men and Lesbians Change Their Sexual Orientation? 200 Participants Reporting a Change from Homosexual to Heterosexual Orientation

Archives of Sexual Behavior, Vol. 32, No. 5, October 2003, pp. 403-417 (2003)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here is a another study:</p>
<p>Can Some Gay Men and Lesbians Change Their Sexual Orientation? 200 Participants Reporting a Change from Homosexual to Heterosexual Orientation</p>
<p>Archives of Sexual Behavior, Vol. 32, No. 5, October 2003, pp. 403-417 (2003)</p>
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