Only 55. A dying breed. You all do realize that in a very short time there will no longer be that peculiarity we call “ex-gay”. It’s season was brief, from about the late 70′s and perhaps for another decade.

So many are no longer in that category. Others may still so identify, but have changed how they see themselves. There are but a few left.

Oh puhleeze, Mary.

I am an expert on homosexuality, having been homosexual for 55 of my 55 years. Ask me first.

Sorry… just so tired of always being asked to be ‘better’. At a certain point, I’m not obligated to feel guilty that I’m relieved when someone who went out of his way to put a bullseye on my back is dead and gone, and I’m certainly not required to sympathize, empathize or any other “-ize”… because for all those years of his life, those grieving family members couldn’t find it within their hearts to return the favor, and they aren’t about to start anytime soon. They’re free to go to hell right along with Falzarano.

“Julius Ceasar”, by William Shakespeare

We can be compassionate and take the higher road in offering condolences, but the legacies of the anti gay are tethered to other forms of human rights abuses within public policy.

Those legacies of abusing the rights and freedoms of others, while claiming victimhood, is even more perverse and contradictory.
These supposed vanguards of morality, have a deep and abiding form of cowardice. One of THE most profound moral failures a person can have.

With the likes of Falzarano, Michael Bennett, and other supposed ex gays who have engaged politics and demand deference with civil law and policy, have made gay people pay for it.
And it’s been a very steep price indeed.

They never asked for forgiveness while they were living, a condition of giving it, so there is no reason to give it to them.
Falzarano left a lot of damage in his wake, and he’s finally and irreversibly in no position to change it.

Although Falzarano’s caustic tongue and surface level hostility must have been burdensome to those closest to him, I am certain that they are grieving and I with them solace.