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	<title>Comments on: The new Exodus message</title>
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		<title>By: Mark F.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mark F.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2012 20:23:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Celibacy does suit some people, I have no problem with that. I have at least 3 friends who are celibate by choice. I think it is a weird choice, but it&#039;s their choice.


I just ask that these groups stop lying about gay people and stop supporting discrimination.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Celibacy does suit some people, I have no problem with that. I have at least 3 friends who are celibate by choice. I think it is a weird choice, but it&#8217;s their choice.</p>
<p>I just ask that these groups stop lying about gay people and stop supporting discrimination.</p>
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		<title>By: Shofixti</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shofixti</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 May 2012 23:44:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am a little confused about how the average pastor of the average pentecostal church will read this.

I was &lt;i&gt;managed&lt;/i&gt; out of a congregation due to their insistence that I re-undergo a reparative style therapy. Will the average church that relied on the change message from Exodus pause to re-think?

The collapse of the reparative hegemony is evident, but the culture likely moves slowly.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a little confused about how the average pastor of the average pentecostal church will read this.</p>
<p>I was <i>managed</i> out of a congregation due to their insistence that I re-undergo a reparative style therapy. Will the average church that relied on the change message from Exodus pause to re-think?</p>
<p>The collapse of the reparative hegemony is evident, but the culture likely moves slowly.</p>
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		<title>By: Reed</title>
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		<dc:creator>Reed</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 May 2012 20:05:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Ready to end the war&quot; is a good thing.
  
The rest seems in line with Chambers&#039;s recent statements, with additional semantic padding. 
 
That said, Aaron&#039;s point is well-taken -(queer kids could wind up being farmed out to &quot;religious counselors&quot;).
Regan&#039;s point (the constant lies, evasions, and compounded guilt) really struck close to the bone.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Ready to end the war&#8221; is a good thing.</p>
<p>The rest seems in line with Chambers&#8217;s recent statements, with additional semantic padding. </p>
<p>That said, Aaron&#8217;s point is well-taken -(queer kids could wind up being farmed out to &#8220;religious counselors&#8221;).<br />
Regan&#8217;s point (the constant lies, evasions, and compounded guilt) really struck close to the bone.</p>
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		<title>By: TampaZeke</title>
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		<dc:creator>TampaZeke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 May 2012 20:03:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Regan NAILED it!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Regan NAILED it!</p>
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		<title>By: Priya Lynn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Priya Lynn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 May 2012 15:33:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Regan said &quot;The irony of ironies, using the word ‘struggle’ with homosexuality, while denying the struggle to carry the burden of deceit.&quot;.

That...was....profound.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Regan said &#8220;The irony of ironies, using the word ‘struggle’ with homosexuality, while denying the struggle to carry the burden of deceit.&#8221;.</p>
<p>That&#8230;was&#8230;.profound.</p>
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		<title>By: Regan DuCasse</title>
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		<dc:creator>Regan DuCasse</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 May 2012 15:23:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was reading Andrew Sullivan&#039;s blog and there were several readers who posted their experiences from being married to a gay person.
Their marriages ended in divorce, each party bewildered and betrayed and in pain.
  Each had tried to fulfill what Exodus or most other Christian communities say is their natural or God given duty to do.
Which selfishly sounds more like what the church community wants, instead of the individuals who have to be in the relationship.
  It&#039;s the denial of what kind of pressure and coercion that entails for a gay person and the costs to trust and endurance of their own commitment. Let alone to the family they created.

    The irony of ironies, using the word &#039;struggle&#039; with homosexuality, while denying the struggle to carry the burden of deceit.

    What I want to see, is some real honesty about a ROUTINELY accepting society, and what that would do about truth.
   A straight person not held accountable or deceived into believing they can change a gay person, and a gay person who can be free of the same burden WOULD be damn refreshing.

     The veil that Exodus has been using, is growing thinner and a bit more diaphanous, but I was impatient a LONG time ago, with them using a veil at all.
   I absolutely, cannot stand the indifference of religious communities, to when they become a LIABILITY to a community. Whether it&#039;s someone who chose to be religious or not.
That is quite unforgivable, and what&#039;s so sociopathic about some religious people.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was reading Andrew Sullivan&#8217;s blog and there were several readers who posted their experiences from being married to a gay person.<br />
Their marriages ended in divorce, each party bewildered and betrayed and in pain.<br />
  Each had tried to fulfill what Exodus or most other Christian communities say is their natural or God given duty to do.<br />
Which selfishly sounds more like what the church community wants, instead of the individuals who have to be in the relationship.<br />
  It&#8217;s the denial of what kind of pressure and coercion that entails for a gay person and the costs to trust and endurance of their own commitment. Let alone to the family they created.</p>
<p>    The irony of ironies, using the word &#8216;struggle&#8217; with homosexuality, while denying the struggle to carry the burden of deceit.</p>
<p>    What I want to see, is some real honesty about a ROUTINELY accepting society, and what that would do about truth.<br />
   A straight person not held accountable or deceived into believing they can change a gay person, and a gay person who can be free of the same burden WOULD be damn refreshing.</p>
<p>     The veil that Exodus has been using, is growing thinner and a bit more diaphanous, but I was impatient a LONG time ago, with them using a veil at all.<br />
   I absolutely, cannot stand the indifference of religious communities, to when they become a LIABILITY to a community. Whether it&#8217;s someone who chose to be religious or not.<br />
That is quite unforgivable, and what&#8217;s so sociopathic about some religious people.</p>
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		<title>By: Aaron</title>
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		<dc:creator>Aaron</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 May 2012 14:44:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you Timothy, but here&#039;s my problem. YES, Exodus is repackaging themselves, BUT, it ISN&#039;T Exodus who does the &quot;therapy&quot;, it&#039;s the member ministries, and Exodus&#039; job is to refer people seeking help to one of thos ministries, and most of those ministries are, of course, the reparative therapy touting snake-oil salespeople that we know them to be, and THEY aren&#039;t changing. 

Any real analysis of whether Exodus is changing from an ex-gay model to a celibacy model will have to be done at the member ministry level, NOT at the umbrella level.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you Timothy, but here&#8217;s my problem. YES, Exodus is repackaging themselves, BUT, it ISN&#8217;T Exodus who does the &#8220;therapy&#8221;, it&#8217;s the member ministries, and Exodus&#8217; job is to refer people seeking help to one of thos ministries, and most of those ministries are, of course, the reparative therapy touting snake-oil salespeople that we know them to be, and THEY aren&#8217;t changing. </p>
<p>Any real analysis of whether Exodus is changing from an ex-gay model to a celibacy model will have to be done at the member ministry level, NOT at the umbrella level.</p>
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		<title>By: iDavid</title>
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		<dc:creator>iDavid</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 May 2012 09:17:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nothing has changed, absolutely nothing. 

Exodus has no concept of &quot;change is possible&quot; as they prove once again when they open their manipulative lying mouths amplified through their warped and ill bred flock-shock business. 

The only change we will ever see with Exodus is when outside sources I.e. financial failure shut them down. They do not have the courage nor the dignity to tell the truth nor stop the persecution. They falsely live under a Judaic god of manipulation and negative mind control. They are a cult trading dollars on guilt.

They are a disgrace to Christ and what he stood for and a disgrace to humanity which Christ serves. They only live to make Christ&#039;s job more difficult.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nothing has changed, absolutely nothing. </p>
<p>Exodus has no concept of &#8220;change is possible&#8221; as they prove once again when they open their manipulative lying mouths amplified through their warped and ill bred flock-shock business. </p>
<p>The only change we will ever see with Exodus is when outside sources I.e. financial failure shut them down. They do not have the courage nor the dignity to tell the truth nor stop the persecution. They falsely live under a Judaic god of manipulation and negative mind control. They are a cult trading dollars on guilt.</p>
<p>They are a disgrace to Christ and what he stood for and a disgrace to humanity which Christ serves. They only live to make Christ&#8217;s job more difficult.</p>
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		<title>By: Richard Rush</title>
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		<dc:creator>Richard Rush</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 May 2012 02:14:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Maybe Alan Chambers was just responding out of fear after reading this article on BTB: &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/2012/05/25/44895&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt; Researcher Predicts Rising Unemployment Among Ex-Gay Therapists.&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Maybe Alan Chambers was just responding out of fear after reading this article on BTB: <a href="http://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/2012/05/25/44895" rel="nofollow" class="articleLink"> Researcher Predicts Rising Unemployment Among Ex-Gay Therapists.</a></p>
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		<title>By: David Roberts</title>
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		<dc:creator>David Roberts</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 May 2012 01:31:12 +0000</pubDate>
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