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	<title>Comments on: &#8220;He Completely Lacks Empathy&#8221;: Massachusetts Gay Advocates Recall Meeting Gov. Romney</title>
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		<title>By: Robert</title>
		<link>http://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/2012/09/12/48624/comment-page-1#comment-142528</link>
		<dc:creator>Robert</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Sep 2012 19:19:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tim, people wouldn&#039;t call you out if you actually were ethical and followed the things you promote in YOUR own articles.  Remember just a few weeks ago, you talked about what type of language you should use against those you disagree with?  Yeah, I thought you might have forgotten that piece, because the article you posted in regards to Frank was entirely devoid of any of the ideas presented in the article I mention.

One can NOT make a valid point when one out &quot;Uncle&#039;s&quot; the person one is trying to deeride for Uncleing in the first place.

The issues were in regards to your fact free rant, not your dislike of Frank.  Had YOU been civil, as you call others to be, you wouldn&#039;t have been called out.

Stop blaming others and take personal responsibility for the words you wrote that earned you the responses by your readers.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tim, people wouldn&#8217;t call you out if you actually were ethical and followed the things you promote in YOUR own articles.  Remember just a few weeks ago, you talked about what type of language you should use against those you disagree with?  Yeah, I thought you might have forgotten that piece, because the article you posted in regards to Frank was entirely devoid of any of the ideas presented in the article I mention.</p>
<p>One can NOT make a valid point when one out &#8220;Uncle&#8217;s&#8221; the person one is trying to deeride for Uncleing in the first place.</p>
<p>The issues were in regards to your fact free rant, not your dislike of Frank.  Had YOU been civil, as you call others to be, you wouldn&#8217;t have been called out.</p>
<p>Stop blaming others and take personal responsibility for the words you wrote that earned you the responses by your readers.</p>
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		<title>By: jerry</title>
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		<dc:creator>jerry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Sep 2012 19:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It seems pretty clear to me that none of the people commenting here have plans to vote for Mittens.  Now can someone come up with some suggestions for us to find ways for us to confront him in a public sphere to get him to display his asshatery.  

He&#039;s done a marvelous job on his own with his response to the murder of the ambassador to Libya  but I would like to see a lot more nails in his political coffin.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It seems pretty clear to me that none of the people commenting here have plans to vote for Mittens.  Now can someone come up with some suggestions for us to find ways for us to confront him in a public sphere to get him to display his asshatery.  </p>
<p>He&#8217;s done a marvelous job on his own with his response to the murder of the ambassador to Libya  but I would like to see a lot more nails in his political coffin.</p>
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		<title>By: MattNYC</title>
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		<dc:creator>MattNYC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Sep 2012 18:33:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Snowman, I think that just about says it all.  ;)

Or else, he&#039;s just a replicant...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Snowman, I think that just about says it all.  ;)</p>
<p>Or else, he&#8217;s just a replicant&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Priya Lynn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Priya Lynn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Sep 2012 15:16:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for differentiating that for me Steve, that clears it up fairly well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for differentiating that for me Steve, that clears it up fairly well.</p>
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		<title>By: Steve</title>
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		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Sep 2012 14:28:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Priya Lynn
One common characteristic to distinguish sociopathy from psychopathy is that the latter are based far more on a lack of impulse control. Their behavior is erratic and disorganized, whereas sociopaths are very controlled and planning. Sociopaths may be unable to maintain social relationships in the long term, but psychopaths have difficulty in establishing them in the first place. That&#039;s one reason why they tend to live on the fringes of society (e.g. be criminals), rather than being well integrated.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Priya Lynn<br />
One common characteristic to distinguish sociopathy from psychopathy is that the latter are based far more on a lack of impulse control. Their behavior is erratic and disorganized, whereas sociopaths are very controlled and planning. Sociopaths may be unable to maintain social relationships in the long term, but psychopaths have difficulty in establishing them in the first place. That&#8217;s one reason why they tend to live on the fringes of society (e.g. be criminals), rather than being well integrated.</p>
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		<title>By: Snowman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Snowman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Sep 2012 13:15:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rather than attempting to psychoanalyze Mitt Romney (and knowing, as I do, a former co-worker who actually was a diagnosed sociopath) I prefer not to insult the mentally ill by comparing them to Mr. Romney.

The dude&#039;s an asshole, pure and simple.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rather than attempting to psychoanalyze Mitt Romney (and knowing, as I do, a former co-worker who actually was a diagnosed sociopath) I prefer not to insult the mentally ill by comparing them to Mr. Romney.</p>
<p>The dude&#8217;s an asshole, pure and simple.</p>
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		<title>By: Another Jonathan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Another Jonathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Sep 2012 12:48:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There&#039;s a good reason that most bloggers avoid the comments section of their own sites.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There&#8217;s a good reason that most bloggers avoid the comments section of their own sites.</p>
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		<title>By: David Waite</title>
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		<dc:creator>David Waite</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Sep 2012 09:29:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Timothy Kincaid: &quot;There you go again..&quot;

&lt;strong&gt;&quot;A sociopath?
 Oh good lord. And I have a thread full of people screaming at me for calling Barney Frank “Uncle Calumny”.
It must be election season.&quot;&lt;/strong&gt;

Is it indeed all about you? Inquiring minds would like to know. About that thread on your commentary which was ostensibly about Representative Franks&#039; intemperate call-out of the LCR for enabling homophobes: The full thread didn&#039;t &quot;scream&quot; at you for calling him the kind of names a schoolyard bully employs, though some of us did mention that as well.

The full thread was on your case for outdoing Rep. Franks&#039; intemperate language in a juvenile, selectively prejudicial, and largely fact-free rant that made the retiring congressman look statesmanlike by comparison. As you have done before when faced with a 98% disapproval response in a comment thread, you&#039;re blaming the receivers of your message&#039;s undeniable defects for those defects in &lt;strong&gt;your&lt;/strong&gt; message, by way of a gratituous blanket insult to our collective sanity based on the political time of year.

You began with a self-confessed inability to remember anything good, or accomplished or attempted in Rep. Franks&#039; career. You went downhill from there. The only &quot;screaming&quot; on that thread was done by you in your commentary, where you howled like a banshee throughout the thing. Now you&#039;re doubling down here by insulting us meanies for failing to recognize your utter brilliance in applied adjectival asshattery.

Your writing that column can at least be explained (though not excused) as the passion induced by your self-admitted animus toward Barney Frank. Your insult here to all of us on that thread, for objecting to an embarrassingly juvenile &lt;em&gt;election season&lt;/em&gt; rant from you about a &lt;strong&gt;retiring&lt;/strong&gt; congressman, is neither excusable nor explainable.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Timothy Kincaid: &#8220;There you go again..&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>&#8220;A sociopath?<br />
 Oh good lord. And I have a thread full of people screaming at me for calling Barney Frank “Uncle Calumny”.<br />
It must be election season.&#8221;</strong></p>
<p>Is it indeed all about you? Inquiring minds would like to know. About that thread on your commentary which was ostensibly about Representative Franks&#8217; intemperate call-out of the LCR for enabling homophobes: The full thread didn&#8217;t &#8220;scream&#8221; at you for calling him the kind of names a schoolyard bully employs, though some of us did mention that as well.</p>
<p>The full thread was on your case for outdoing Rep. Franks&#8217; intemperate language in a juvenile, selectively prejudicial, and largely fact-free rant that made the retiring congressman look statesmanlike by comparison. As you have done before when faced with a 98% disapproval response in a comment thread, you&#8217;re blaming the receivers of your message&#8217;s undeniable defects for those defects in <strong>your</strong> message, by way of a gratituous blanket insult to our collective sanity based on the political time of year.</p>
<p>You began with a self-confessed inability to remember anything good, or accomplished or attempted in Rep. Franks&#8217; career. You went downhill from there. The only &#8220;screaming&#8221; on that thread was done by you in your commentary, where you howled like a banshee throughout the thing. Now you&#8217;re doubling down here by insulting us meanies for failing to recognize your utter brilliance in applied adjectival asshattery.</p>
<p>Your writing that column can at least be explained (though not excused) as the passion induced by your self-admitted animus toward Barney Frank. Your insult here to all of us on that thread, for objecting to an embarrassingly juvenile <em>election season</em> rant from you about a <strong>retiring</strong> congressman, is neither excusable nor explainable.</p>
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		<title>By: David Waite</title>
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		<dc:creator>David Waite</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Sep 2012 08:36:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Jim Burroway: Since you asked, and to avoid charges of posting a single link to justify my earlier &quot;may have exhibited&quot; comment, here is an entire list of sources with definitions. Some of them are scholarly. I like wikipedia for many things but you should ignore them in this list, though one of your comments to Steve suggests that advice comes too late.

Still, I&#039;ll leave judging the list to you. I also want to point out that I never called Romney a sociopath. The only kind of retired health care professional who does that to unexamined persons is one who probably practiced Fristing while gainfully employed. I have no reason to suppose your crack was aimed at anything I wrote, though, since your comment&#039;s positioning immediately following mine is probably an artifact of the timing of our comment postings.

http://search.yahoo.com/search;_ylt=AjLUu4focwAJ5suy4hZxw9RG2vAI?p=sociopathy&amp;fr=my-myy&amp;toggle=1&amp;cop=&amp;ei=UTF-8

Note to label assigners: There is a difference between exhibiting some of the charactistics of a recognized-definition pathology and actually being diagnosable, after clinical examination and evaluation, as having a personality that falls within that defined pathology.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Jim Burroway: Since you asked, and to avoid charges of posting a single link to justify my earlier &#8220;may have exhibited&#8221; comment, here is an entire list of sources with definitions. Some of them are scholarly. I like wikipedia for many things but you should ignore them in this list, though one of your comments to Steve suggests that advice comes too late.</p>
<p>Still, I&#8217;ll leave judging the list to you. I also want to point out that I never called Romney a sociopath. The only kind of retired health care professional who does that to unexamined persons is one who probably practiced Fristing while gainfully employed. I have no reason to suppose your crack was aimed at anything I wrote, though, since your comment&#8217;s positioning immediately following mine is probably an artifact of the timing of our comment postings.</p>
<p><a href="http://search.yahoo.com/search;_ylt=AjLUu4focwAJ5suy4hZxw9RG2vAI?p=sociopathy&#038;fr=my-myy&#038;toggle=1&#038;cop=&#038;ei=UTF-8" rel="nofollow">http://search.yahoo.com/search;_ylt=AjLUu4focwAJ5suy4hZxw9RG2vAI?p=sociopathy&#038;fr=my-myy&#038;toggle=1&#038;cop=&#038;ei=UTF-8</a></p>
<p>Note to label assigners: There is a difference between exhibiting some of the charactistics of a recognized-definition pathology and actually being diagnosable, after clinical examination and evaluation, as having a personality that falls within that defined pathology.</p>
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		<title>By: Ed Walker</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ed Walker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Sep 2012 03:25:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yay Julie Goodridge.  She and her ex-spouse fell into the spotlight in 2003 as the de-facto spokespeople in MA for marriage equality.  She did a great job.

I feel that Mitt Romney is completely unprincipled.  His agenda is all about the pursuit of power and position.

When I was active in the fight to keep marriage legal in MA, I was with a group including the Goodridges on a subsequent visit to Romney.  Romney was a no-show that day, unfortunately (fortunately?).  We were protesting belittling public remarks Mitt had made about families headed by same-sex parents when addressing a conservative audience in the South.  This is the same man who insisted he was a gay rights supporter when he was running against Ted Kennedy.  Mitt Romney makes my skin crawl.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yay Julie Goodridge.  She and her ex-spouse fell into the spotlight in 2003 as the de-facto spokespeople in MA for marriage equality.  She did a great job.</p>
<p>I feel that Mitt Romney is completely unprincipled.  His agenda is all about the pursuit of power and position.</p>
<p>When I was active in the fight to keep marriage legal in MA, I was with a group including the Goodridges on a subsequent visit to Romney.  Romney was a no-show that day, unfortunately (fortunately?).  We were protesting belittling public remarks Mitt had made about families headed by same-sex parents when addressing a conservative audience in the South.  This is the same man who insisted he was a gay rights supporter when he was running against Ted Kennedy.  Mitt Romney makes my skin crawl.</p>
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