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	<title>Comments on: Name me that child</title>
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		<title>By: Ben in Oakland</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ben in Oakland</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Sep 2012 15:08:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Regan, that was pretty much the point I was  going to make. It isn&#039;t about the best interests of the child, or any kind of rational objection. It is simply a way to slam gay people by use of a little misdirection.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Regan, that was pretty much the point I was  going to make. It isn&#8217;t about the best interests of the child, or any kind of rational objection. It is simply a way to slam gay people by use of a little misdirection.</p>
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		<title>By: Regan DuCasse</title>
		<link>http://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/2012/09/17/48853/comment-page-1#comment-145807</link>
		<dc:creator>Regan DuCasse</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Sep 2012 14:53:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What a circular deal this is. And none of these factors that the anti gay use to make their case, are legal in the first place.
Not singularly. Not collectively.

1. No intent or ability of children is required to be able to legally marry.

2. There is no morals, competence or ability test or requirement to marry OR parent.

3. There isn&#039;t even a ban on marriage for anyone with genetic disease who may pass them onto their progeny.

4. There isn&#039;t a ban on marriage for people with criminal records or the ability to avoid raising a child in poverty.

5. The children of widowed, divorced or never married parents aren&#039;t taken away from them, in favor of an op sex couple that will take them in.

  So how the hell does anyone expect that making all these reasons legal reason for discrimination against gay couples alone makes a good and rational legal argument? There is no discrimination for any of their reasons NOW.

  In other words: this is strictly about defaming gay people or gay couples as the worst thing that can happen to a child. That their orientation and status as a same sex couples automatically disqualifies their ability or competence in their relationships, let alone that with a child.

    This is outrageous just on it&#039;s face. For the simple reality and fact that gay people are not the worst thing that could happen to marriage or A marriage. And gay couples are not the worst thing that can happen to a child.
  
  That any law makers or members of the courts would agree, is ridiculous.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a circular deal this is. And none of these factors that the anti gay use to make their case, are legal in the first place.<br />
Not singularly. Not collectively.</p>
<p>1. No intent or ability of children is required to be able to legally marry.</p>
<p>2. There is no morals, competence or ability test or requirement to marry OR parent.</p>
<p>3. There isn&#8217;t even a ban on marriage for anyone with genetic disease who may pass them onto their progeny.</p>
<p>4. There isn&#8217;t a ban on marriage for people with criminal records or the ability to avoid raising a child in poverty.</p>
<p>5. The children of widowed, divorced or never married parents aren&#8217;t taken away from them, in favor of an op sex couple that will take them in.</p>
<p>  So how the hell does anyone expect that making all these reasons legal reason for discrimination against gay couples alone makes a good and rational legal argument? There is no discrimination for any of their reasons NOW.</p>
<p>  In other words: this is strictly about defaming gay people or gay couples as the worst thing that can happen to a child. That their orientation and status as a same sex couples automatically disqualifies their ability or competence in their relationships, let alone that with a child.</p>
<p>    This is outrageous just on it&#8217;s face. For the simple reality and fact that gay people are not the worst thing that could happen to marriage or A marriage. And gay couples are not the worst thing that can happen to a child.</p>
<p>  That any law makers or members of the courts would agree, is ridiculous.</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah</title>
		<link>http://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/2012/09/17/48853/comment-page-1#comment-145483</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Sep 2012 04:19:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Epic Glare:

The key word is &quot;couples&quot;. 

Very few same-sex couples raise children there. Most of them are married to heterosexuals and raising children with them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Epic Glare:</p>
<p>The key word is &#8220;couples&#8221;. </p>
<p>Very few same-sex couples raise children there. Most of them are married to heterosexuals and raising children with them.</p>
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		<title>By: Eric Glare</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eric Glare</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Sep 2012 01:21:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Whilst I agree that the &#039;think of the child&#039; argument against marriage equality lacks rational thought, I think your central premise is wrong -namely: &quot;In countries in which gay people are executed or imprisoned, very few same-sex couple raise children.&quot;

Why does Iran and many countries in the Middle East think they don&#039;t have homosexual and transgender people? Because they all feel forced to get married and have kids. Without family they have no standing in society. Sexual and gender liberation as we know it in Aus has led to much fewer of us  GLBT having children than the previous generation and many of those that did probably won&#039;t if they were born 30 years later.

Allowing SSM will expand the concept of family. I observe that the next generation of gay men have much stronger connections to their families, to their nieces and nephews than I have had. I doubt that leads them to be more likely to want kids of their own.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whilst I agree that the &#8216;think of the child&#8217; argument against marriage equality lacks rational thought, I think your central premise is wrong -namely: &#8220;In countries in which gay people are executed or imprisoned, very few same-sex couple raise children.&#8221;</p>
<p>Why does Iran and many countries in the Middle East think they don&#8217;t have homosexual and transgender people? Because they all feel forced to get married and have kids. Without family they have no standing in society. Sexual and gender liberation as we know it in Aus has led to much fewer of us  GLBT having children than the previous generation and many of those that did probably won&#8217;t if they were born 30 years later.</p>
<p>Allowing SSM will expand the concept of family. I observe that the next generation of gay men have much stronger connections to their families, to their nieces and nephews than I have had. I doubt that leads them to be more likely to want kids of their own.</p>
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		<title>By: Ben In Oakland</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ben In Oakland</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Sep 2012 23:51:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The idea that “All children have a right to both a mother and a father” is cited against gay families but never applied to society at large.

and that, my dear duck, points right at the heart of the REAL issue. I feel a rant coming on, and if i can do it tonight when the husband&#039;s asleep, i will.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The idea that “All children have a right to both a mother and a father” is cited against gay families but never applied to society at large.</p>
<p>and that, my dear duck, points right at the heart of the REAL issue. I feel a rant coming on, and if i can do it tonight when the husband&#8217;s asleep, i will.</p>
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		<title>By: mudduck</title>
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		<dc:creator>mudduck</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Sep 2012 22:59:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The idea that &quot;All children have a right to both a mother and a father&quot; is cited against gay families but never applied to society at large. Obviously, many many children are being raised by single parents, grandparents, adoptive parents, etc. Mothers and fathers are not equally doled out to children. If they&#039;re really a necessity, society has a much bigger problem than gays raising children.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The idea that &#8220;All children have a right to both a mother and a father&#8221; is cited against gay families but never applied to society at large. Obviously, many many children are being raised by single parents, grandparents, adoptive parents, etc. Mothers and fathers are not equally doled out to children. If they&#8217;re really a necessity, society has a much bigger problem than gays raising children.</p>
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		<title>By: Ben In Oakland</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ben In Oakland</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Sep 2012 22:30:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As I always like to put it, if you truly believe that evry child deserves a mother and a father, then maybe you need to start talking to the male and female humans that produced the child that doesn&#039;t have them.

Remember? Adam and eve, not adam and steve.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As I always like to put it, if you truly believe that evry child deserves a mother and a father, then maybe you need to start talking to the male and female humans that produced the child that doesn&#8217;t have them.</p>
<p>Remember? Adam and eve, not adam and steve.</p>
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		<title>By: Jim Hlavac</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jim Hlavac</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Sep 2012 21:59:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What they really miss is that 100% of gay folks come from heterosexual marriages, or hetero-parents at least. Indeed, according to FRC, NARTH, NOM, etc etc, and their Australian counterparts I&#039;m sure -- it was the horrid fathering of the gay guy&#039;s hetero dad which so psychologically stunned the boy, thus making him gay. And if it&#039;s the hetero father&#039;s fault for making the kid gay -- why harass the son? The father is guilty of the &quot;harm&quot; they perceive. 

But if this Boswell wants to help children he might well propose a law against bad fathering which makes a boy gay. And don&#039;t pass any laws against we the &quot;victims&quot; but our dads the perpetrators.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What they really miss is that 100% of gay folks come from heterosexual marriages, or hetero-parents at least. Indeed, according to FRC, NARTH, NOM, etc etc, and their Australian counterparts I&#8217;m sure &#8212; it was the horrid fathering of the gay guy&#8217;s hetero dad which so psychologically stunned the boy, thus making him gay. And if it&#8217;s the hetero father&#8217;s fault for making the kid gay &#8212; why harass the son? The father is guilty of the &#8220;harm&#8221; they perceive. </p>
<p>But if this Boswell wants to help children he might well propose a law against bad fathering which makes a boy gay. And don&#8217;t pass any laws against we the &#8220;victims&#8221; but our dads the perpetrators.</p>
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		<title>By: Steve</title>
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		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Sep 2012 21:11:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Those morons miss the simple fact that marriage isn&#039;t required to have children. Australia already has pretty robust relationship recognition without any official documents. Gay de facto couples already have most of the rights of marriage. Including rights for their children.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Those morons miss the simple fact that marriage isn&#8217;t required to have children. Australia already has pretty robust relationship recognition without any official documents. Gay de facto couples already have most of the rights of marriage. Including rights for their children.</p>
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