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News and commentary about the anti-gay lobbyFebruary 20th, 2010
Real man Rob Tisinai saw a photo of this bumper sticker making the rounds at the Conservative Political Action Conference (CPAC) this weekend. He also is a man with photoshop and is not afraid to use it. More here.
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Burr
February 20th, 2010
Real men aren’t threatened by other men, no matter what they do that they disagree with.
Alex
February 20th, 2010
Real men don’t need a bumper sticker to affirm their masculinity.
anteros
February 20th, 2010
lol!
funny:-)
That ‘real men’ crap is just adopted from stories where kids describe what they were taught being a ‘real man’ was all about – by their imperfect father figures…
Real men drink beer to get drunk. Real men use tobacco (dip or cigarettes or cigars). Real men smack their spouses and kids.
I wish people would realise what kind of twisted mentality lies behind the urge to attempt to define a ‘real man’ or a ‘real woman’. It’s just wrong, outdated, tacky, backward, sexist, and uncool.
Much as it irritates me, it’s their car bumper… if only they knew what such statements really say about them.
Donnchadh
February 21st, 2010
Real cars don’t let their drivers debase their bumpers with crass political messages.
Eric in Oakland
February 21st, 2010
On the subject of “real men”, what does everyone think of the jokes made by Canadian sports commentators regarding Olympic Skater, Jonny Weir’s masculinity (or lack of it)?
http://sports.yahoo.com/olympics/vancouver/blog/fourth_place_medal/post/Canadian-commentators-fail-to-cool-it-with-Johnn?urn=oly,221050
Richard W. Fitch
February 21st, 2010
@Eric – I haven’t seen any of the comments, but my personal opinion: If that observer can execute the moves that Johnny does then maybe he can question JW ‘manliness’. Otherwise, keep your snide comments to yourself. Many years ago some of the pro football players trained under a ballet master during off season. The objective was to gain flexibility and agility. Most of them decided they would best stick with football.
Burr
February 21st, 2010
The only point they had was that it may have cost him. I don’t think Johnny was good enough to medal but he was definitely better than 6th and I don’t understand why he didn’t place better.
Other than that.. it’s figure skating, what do they expect? Who’s to say the other male skaters aren’t the phony ones? ;)
Eric in Oakland
February 21st, 2010
@Richard & Burr – the commentators I referenced stated that JW should have been competing in the women’s competition and joked that he should undergo tests to determine his sex.
It seems to me that this topic is important because it cuts to the heart of why many people are prejudiced against gays and lesbians. Their image of their own masculinity or femininity is called into question when these gender roles are ignored.
Christopher Waldrop
February 22nd, 2010
I don’t know if it’s so much a matter of gender roles being “ignored” as it is the gender roles certain people have established for themselves being challenged. And it’s not hard to challenge those roles when people create “masculine” and “feminine” roles that are so removed from reality.
Here’s my idea for a bumper sticker: “Real men are comfortable with who they are.”
Ben
February 22nd, 2010
I read someplace that homophobia is very common in figure skating. I belive the theory is that they are threatened by anything that drags them even further from mainstream ideas of what a ‘real’ man is.
Its sad really.
Jason D
February 22nd, 2010
the original picture has some woman from CWA holding it.
Which I find rather hilarious. Women tend to vehemently frown upon men telling them how they should be, so it’s funny to see a woman doing the same thing.
Also, I doubt very seriously that these women would know what a real man is. So many heterosexual women I’ve seen treat men as projects for them to mold and fix.
Frijondi
February 22nd, 2010
How’s this for a bumper sticker —
All adult male humans are men.
All men are real.
Rob in San diego
February 22nd, 2010
Would these be the same real men who cheat on their wives with other women or prostitutes?
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