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Out on a Saturday night

Timothy Kincaid

April 29th, 2012

My friend admonished me “write your life. Write what you live. Not just what you believe”.

So here I stand in The Abbey. Forty-eight in a sea of twenty somethings wondering what brings me here. Well I know that in theory it’s to see if an ex is working tonight. (and yeah, the bartenders are what all the magazines say they are). So far I haven’t seen Frankie. Maybe he’s off tonight – he’s hard to miss

But it’s also to see what happens if I dare. If i dare show up and act like i belong. So far it’s exciting. I’ve had boys I would never stop and speak to come up. “you shouldn’t smile… It’s too cute”. Okay. I can live with cute.

But when did the abbey get so straight? That Adonis in the alcove with six girls on him thinks he’s king of the night. And he is. Tonight. Tomorrow he’ll wonder how two decades passed so quickly.

Strippers smile and grind and I wonder if I have a single. Once I would have given a phone number. But I’m not maudlin; I have nothing I need to prove. I don’t have to relive anything.

The boys making out in front of me are adorable. I want to kiss them. Both of them. I won’t, of course – even if I could (I can’t). But the idea is thrill enough.

I wonder, will I regret writing this tomorrow? Almost certainly. Fueled by three Ketel-soda, it seems like a good idea right now though.

In any case it’s an experiment. And that, in and of itself, is reason enough.

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At the bar, Luga and his girlfriend introduced themselves. “I’m very fucked up” he says. I’m sure he is. I laugh and toast them and excuse myself.
. . .
It seems the king of the alcove is here with several balconies of girls. It’s birthday thing. One of the girls. I know this because I was introduced. Right before one of the girls grabbed me and kissed me. I say girl, she’s probably 30. But to me,

. . .
After hanging in the corner (where I met Dawn and DeVin) I wandered back in time to see what I’m sure are a troup of actor/dancers (after a while you can identify). The casual ease of the racial diversity gives me hope.

. . .

It’s 1:30 and it’s time for me to make my exit. Alone. At one time that would have been depressing and I would have shopped the Sidewalk Sale with increasing desperation.

Tonight I’ll just head home with a smile.

Best Exotic

Timothy Kincaid

April 27th, 2012

If you thinks that British actors get better with age – and who doesn’t? – you simply must see Best Exotic Marigold Hotel. I’ll simply say Judi Dench, Maggie Smith, Tom Wilkinson, Bill Nighy, and the Slumdog Millionaire cutie Dev Patel. What more could you possibly need to know about it?

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