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News and commentary about the anti-gay lobbyJune 29th, 2007
CitizenLink is just making things up. It’s like they’re not even trying to be credible anymore. I got a laugh out of this one, about the two competing ex-gay and ex-ex-gay conferences:
The [Exodus Freedom Conference], which began Tuesday and wraps up Sunday, has drawn close to 1,000 people — and no protesters so far. Across town, a counter-conference drew about 100 people. [Emphasis mine]
Drew? Past tense?
The Ex-gay Survivor’s conference doesn’t begin until this evening. The main events don’t start until tomorrow. Conference organizers haven’t released pre-registration figures, and of course we don’t know how many walk-ups will show.
But thanks, Focus, for the prediction. We’ll see how good it turns out to be.
And let’s bring a little perspective into this little bragging war. This is Exodus’s 32nd conference, but only the first Ex-Gay Survivor’s conference. When Exodus held their first conference in Anaheim in 1976, sixty-two people attended. They broke a hundred in 1977 at their second conference in Oakland.
So I figure if the Ex-gay Survivor’s Conference meets Focus’s past tense reporting of a future event, the Survivors will be off to a great start.
June 29th, 2007
During the Friday morning session of the Exodus Freedom Conference, Randy Thomas made several general announcements — please turn off the cell phones, a car is parked in a no parking zone, if you lost your room key please check with Lost and Found, general stuff like that.
And then he had another announcement. A group of “homosexual activists” invited several Exodus leaders to dinner for Friday evening for dialogue. He said that they didn’t know who all received the invitation, or whether activists might have “infiltrated” the hall to distribute more (As far as I know, they hadn’t). But if anyone had received an invitation, they were to meet with Alan Chambers.
Throughout the week of the Exodus Freedom Conference, several of the speakers spoke movingly of the need for dialogue, repentance and reconciliation because of how some Christian leaders have adversely interacted with gays and lesbians. They even denounced what they see as the false polarities of the culture war, recognizing that Americans are tired of the constant bickering. They appear to be acutely aware that many of those in that very hall who are struggling with their sexuality have been victims of the culture war along with the rest of us who aren’t struggling.
But when an opportunity comes along to engage in dialogue with those who were among their brothers and sisters, it seems Exodus is not ready to talk. At least one ex-gay ministry leader indicated that there is tremendous pressure being placed on them not to attend the dialogue. And anther Exodus leader defended that decision saying, “If we go, they win. And if we don’t go, they win.”
Win or lose. That is the calculus of a culture war. It’s unfortunate that Exodus choses to value dialogue according to who wins or loses. Such calculations merely perpetuate the culture wars. And when that happens everybody loses.
June 29th, 2007
All but one of the international allied forces that served or are serving in Iraq allow openly gay soldiers in their ranks. The Netherlands, who sent 1,100 troops, is one such example.
Some conservatives may find it tempting to think that those responsible for the military grudgingly accept gays and lesbians. However, this notion may be challenged by the announcement that Cees van der Knaap, the Netherlands Defense State Secretary, has decided to march in a gay pride event on Saturday.
A ministry spokesman said Friday that Van der Knaap wants to show moral support for homosexual and lesbian military. “He is stressing via his participation that they are welcome in the armed forces”.
Perhaps our military might wish to take note.
June 28th, 2007
Exodus president Alan Chambers announced a few changes to the Exodus board today during the Exodus Freedom Conference’s evening session. Melissa Coffey replaces Mike Haley as board chairman. Melissa Coffey is a Regent University graduate working at the Christian Counseling Center in Johnson City, NY. She is pursuing her license in New York as a mental health counselor.
Also, Roy Blankenship replaces Dan Puumala as Secretary. John Smid, director of Love In Action continues as vice chair, and Phil Burresss of Ohio-based Citizens for Community Values remains as treasurer.
June 28th, 2007
Jeremy Marks had been active in Exodus between 1988 and 2000, founding Courage UK along the way. Courage UK started as a classic ex-gay ministry before breaking with Exodus become a gay-affirming evangelical ministry. Jeremy was one of three former Exodus and Exodus-affiliated leaders who apologized for “the message of broken truth we spoke on behalf of Exodus and other organizations.”
Jeremy has posted a great article on the Huffington Post renewing last week’s invitation for Exodus leaders to begin a dialogue between the ex-gay movement and ex-gay survivors.
We invite Exodus leaders to sit down with us and discuss our experiences in a spirit of humility and prayer. The time is long overdue for Exodus ministry leaders to face these issues with an attitude of honesty and integrity. With a profound change of heart, they might find, as I have, that years of experience working with lesbian and gay people now equip them to minister to those who have been hurt by “ex-gay” ministries and the homophobia espoused by so many churches.
June 28th, 2007
This morning’s Los Angeles Times reports on yesterday’s apology, as did several local radio outlets in Southern California. The apology by three former Exodus and Exodus-affiliated leaders is getting a lot of attention, although it’s probably not the attention Exodus would like to see.
Meanwhile, the Exodus Freedom Conference continues on its third day. Tonight’s featured speaker will be Rev. Ken Hutcherson, the virulently anti-gay pastor from Redmond, Washington who has been stirring up anti-gay sentiment in Latvia.
June 28th, 2007
Yesterday this site reported on three former Exodus leaders who made a public apology to former clients of exgay programs. I attended that press conference (and helped accept the apology) but also shot video interviews with the three former leaders.
Strategically it has always been difficult to counter Exodus’ claims of change when they use the “I’ve changed and I’m living proof change is possible” argument. I believe these three interviews provide an answer to Exodus’ approach.
Michael Bussee:
Darlene Bogle:
Jeremy Marks:
I asked the same question of other ex-ex-gays at the press conference and those will be uploaded later
BTB Original Video Interview With Michael Bussee, Co-Founder Of Exodus
June 27th, 2007
The Exodus Freedom Conference is in its first full day at Concordia University in Irvine, California. This morning, Beyond Ex-Gay and Soulforce held a press conference at the Los Angeles Gay and Lesbian Center, at which three former ex-gay leaders apologized for their roles in Exodus-affiliated ex-gay ministries:
As former leaders of ex-gay ministries, we apologize to those individuals and families who believed our message that there is something inherently wrong withvbeing gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender. Some who heard our message were compelled to try to change an integral part of themselves, bringing harm to themselves and their families. Although we acted in good faith, we have since witnessed the isolation, shame, fear, and loss of faith that this message creates. We apologize for our part in the message of broken truth we spoke on behalf of Exodus and other organizations.
We call on other former ex-gay leaders to join the healing and reconciliation process by adding their names to this apology.
We encourage current leaders of ex-gay programs to have the courage to evaluate the fruit of their programs. We ask them to consider the long-term effects of their ministry.
Among those apologizing were:
You can find their full statements at Beyond Ex-Gay. Beyond Ex-Gay and Soulforce will be holding an Ex-Gay Survivor’s Conference June 29 to July 1 at the University of California at Irvine, literally just a few miles down University Blvd. from the Exodus conference.
June 27th, 2007
Paula Zahn NOW offers a chance to hear from people who matter, talking about the most pressing, most relevant and most essential topics of the day. – CNN
Tonight at 8:00 pm Eastern Time the people who matter will include Alan Chambers, President of Exodus International and Dr. Warren Throckmorton. Also interviewed were a board member of the Transyouth Family Advocates and her 7 year old affirmed female daughter. The subject matter will be
Boys who want to be girls, women who want to be men and gays who want to be straight. Uncovering changing attitudes and changing lifestyles.
Those who can, please tune in and report back. I, for one, am curious about the connection CNN is making between transexuality and religion-based reorientation efforts.
June 27th, 2007
Assumptions about Republicans and gay support generally hold that the two are mutually exclusive. However, a new poll by leading GOP pollster Tony Fabrizio shows a party membership that is not quite as hostile as it once might have been. The national survey (slightly skewed to the South) of 2000 self-identified Republican voters found the following:
77% of Republicans believe an employer should not have the right to fire an employee based solely on their sexual orientation. Even among social conservatives, 67% don’t believe an employer should be able to fire someone for being gay.
49% of Republicans believe gays and lesbians should be able to serve openly in the U.S. military, while 42% are opposed.
43% of Republicans support either marriage equality or civil unions. 51% oppose all relationship recognition.
53% of respondents agree that “the Republican Party has spent too much time focusing on moral issues such as abortion and gay marriage and should instead be spending time focusing on economic issues such as taxes and government spending.”
While these numbers show much room for improvement, they also indicate that the days may be waning when an anti-gay position wins you elections.
Update: Here’s the source: The Elephant Looks In The Mirror. Ten Years Later. (PDF: 260 KB/87 pages)
June 27th, 2007
A CNN/Opinion Research Corp poll released today revealed the following attitudes Americans have about homosexuality:
Can gay people reorient: 56% say no; 45% say yes
What “causes” homosexuality: 42% say upbringing; 39% birth; 10% both; 3% neither
Let gay people serve openly in the military: 79% say yes; 18% say no
Recognize gay couples: 24% marriage; 27% civil unions; 43% neither
Allow gay couples to adopt: 57% say yes; 40% say no
June 27th, 2007
Last September hundreds of gays and lesbians from around So Cal gathered in Palm Springs to speak out against Love Won Out. Included in those who came to Palm Springs was Michael Bussee one of the co-founders of Exodus who later left the ministry realizing it didn’t work. USC film student Esteban Rael pulled Bussee aside and shot a video interview with Michael for his upcoming masters thesis film me & god. Esteban and I have collaborated frequently on our respective projects/interests and he and Michael were both kind enough to let me publish nine clips from that interview here.
The first two videos below tell the story of what led to the founding of Exodus and Michael’s eventual shift to speaking out against exgay therapy. The remainder of the clips are on a variety of exgay issues.
The Creation of Exodus International
Two Of Exodus’ Founders Come Out As ‘Ex-Ex-Gay’
Gay Therapist On His Religious Clients’ Inner Conflict
“Exgay” Conversion Therapy For Gay Youth?
Am I Gay? Will God Change Me?
Growing Up – What The Culture Taught Me About Being Gay
Are ‘Gay’ and ‘Christian’ Incompatible?
A 12 Year Old Boy Struggles To Find Out What ‘Gay’ Means
“Exgay” Organizations Oppose Hate Crime Protections
June 26th, 2007
The Servicemembers Legal Defense Network (SLDN) reports that the Department of the Defense has a new message (dated May 16, 2007) for gay service men and women discharged under the Don’t Ask – Don’t Tell policy: “Come back to work for us as civilians.”
Lesbian and gay personnel dismissed under the ban “have the opportunity to continue to serve their nation and national security by putting their abilities to use by way of civilian employment with other Federal agencies, the Department of Defense, or in the private sector, such as with a government contractor,” Cynthia O. Smith of the Defense Press Office, said in the statement.
Actually, she underlined that part. The rest of the statement shifted the blame for DADT to Congress and reiterated that harassment was not tolerated against gay servicemembers. Which makes me ask: If the military isn’t gung-ho about DADT, is there anyone left out there who thinks this policy is a good idea?
June 26th, 2007
This weekend in Irvine, CA there will be two seminars which address ex-gay ministries. One, Exodus International’s Freedom Conference which started today, will be those who struggle with same-sex attractions but have “walked away from the homosexual lifesyle”. The other will be the Ex-Gay Survivor’s Conference where our own Jim Burroway will be a presenter.
The Christian Post reports the beliefs of the executive VP of Exodus, Randy Thomas, this way:
There are many people, however, at the conference who have “been there, done that” and can share what God has done in their life and in bringing about freedom, according to Thomas.
Ummmm… which conference is that, Randy?
June 26th, 2007
The Anglican Church of Canada, the country’s third largest, by a vote on Sunday determined that it is not inconsistent with its core doctrine to bless same-sex relationships. However, they stopped just short of allowing its priests to do so. Authorizing such blessings requires approval of three bodies or representatives, the laity, the clergy, and the bishops. The resolution to allow blessing passed the laity and the clergy with healthy margins, but lost in the bishop vote by 21 to 19.
It is reasonable to assume that the objections amongst the Bishops had less to do with principal than it has with the threats coming out of the African and Asian churches. These “Global South” Anglicans are already at war with the Episcopal Church, the Anglican Church’s American branch, actively seeking to force it from the Anglican fellowship over its acceptance of gay Christians.
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