How the Marriage Map Now Stands
Timothy Kincaid
May 15th, 2008
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At first glance, David Benkof appears to be a young gay man who believes that same-sex marriage will damage the institution of marriage, that there are better options for gay couples than marriage, that the community should join him in prioritizing other more pressing issues, and that the marriage discussion is harming the efforts of gay couples in red states to get recognition for their unions. He also claims that he’s a gay columnist, that he speaks for an influential collection of gay thinkers, and that he is part of the gay and lesbian community and that he shares our goals and dreams. But none of that is true.
The April 2008 edition of the pay-to-publish vanity journal Psychological Reports featured a new report from NARTH. Written by NARTH president A. Dean Byrd, past president Joseph Nicolosi, and Richard W. Potts, the report carries the unwieldy but self-descriptive title, “Clients perceptions of how reorientation therapy and self-help can promote changes in sexual orientation.” While the title describes what the authors meant to show — how clients describe the benefits of reparative therapy — the report itself actually illustrates something very different: the ex-gay movement’s remarkable ability to instill an almost robot-like parroting of ex-gay rhetoric among their clients.
The Toronto Star said that a new study “discover[ed] a new strain” of a super-bug “hitting gay men.” Headlines in Britain screamed, “Flesh-eating bug strikes San Francisco’s gay community,” and anti-gay extremists across America spread the alarm that gays were introducing another plague into “the general population.” But there was a small problem with all of this: None of it is true!
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On February 10, I attended an all-day “Love Won Out” ex-gay conference in Phoenix, put on by Focus on the Family and Exodus International. In this series of reports, I talk about what I learned there: the people who go to these conferences, the things that they hear, and what this all means for them, their families and for the rest of us.
Prologue: Why I Went To “Love Won Out”
Part 1: What’s Love Got To Do With It?
Part 2: Parents Struggle With “No Exceptions”
Part 3: A Whole New Dialect
Part 4: It Depends On How The Meaning of the Word "Change" Changes
Part 5: A Candid Explanation For "Change"
Part 6: The Science Of "Love Won Out"
Part 7: The Politics Of "Love Won Out"
Part 8: Hope For Parents Who Struggle
At last, the truth can now be told.
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And don't miss our companion report, How To Write An Anti-Gay Tract In Fifteen Easy Steps.
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Zeke
May 15th, 2008 | LINK
I have no idea what that map shows. I can’t get it to display large enough to read the designations.
Jim Burroway
May 15th, 2008 | LINK
We got the glitch straightened out. Sorry.
cowboy
May 15th, 2008 | LINK
Purple (?!) is the color we want to spread over the whole country. Well, at least it ain’t fuchsia.
Bene Diction
May 15th, 2008 | LINK
Man, the issue is all over the map!
(sorry)
I fail to realize how hard fought the battles are, that was eye-opening, thanks.
A world map would be interesting, some of the legal parameters would change, but the idea would be similar and just as starkly pointed out.
Rob
May 15th, 2008 | LINK
Hey, all of Canada would be purple. Usually we are only purple in the coldest of winters. ;-)
Ephilei
May 15th, 2008 | LINK
The Wikipedia page (of course) has excessive details and a map that slightly varies: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Same-sex_marriage_legislation_in_the_United_States_by_state
Timothy Kincaid
May 15th, 2008 | LINK
Thanks Ephilei.
I think my map is based off an old version of the Wikipedia map. However, I disagree that New Mexico recognizes out-of-state gay marriage. As I understand it, their law does not bar the recognition but to date no court or governmental body has done so.
I may be wrong.
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