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Slouching Towards Kampala: Uganda’s Deadly Embrace of Hate
When we first reported on three American anti-gay activists traveling to Kampala for a three-day conference, we had no idea that it would be the first report of a long string of events leading to a proposal to institute the death penalty for LGBT people. But that is exactly what happened. In this report, we review our collection of more than two hundred posts to tell the story of one nation’s embrace of hatred toward gay people. This report will be updated continuously as events continue to unfold. Check here for the latest updates.
David Benkof: Behind the Mask
At first glance, David Benkof appears to be a young gay man who believes that same-sex marriage will damage the institution of marriage, that there are better options for gay couples than marriage, that the community should join him in prioritizing other more pressing issues, and that the marriage discussion is harming the efforts of gay couples in red states to get recognition for their unions. He also claims that he’s a gay columnist, that he speaks for an influential collection of gay thinkers, and that he is part of the gay and lesbian community and that he shares our goals and dreams. But none of that is true.
“Repeat After Me”: The Reparative Therapy Echo Chamber
The April 2008 edition of the pay-to-publish vanity journal Psychological Reports featured a new report from NARTH. Written by NARTH president A. Dean Byrd, past president Joseph Nicolosi, and Richard W. Potts, the report carries the unwieldy but self-descriptive title, “Clients perceptions of how reorientation therapy and self-help can promote changes in sexual orientation.” While the title describes what the authors meant to show — how clients describe the benefits of reparative therapy — the report itself actually illustrates something very different: the ex-gay movement’s remarkable ability to instill an almost robot-like parroting of ex-gay rhetoric among their clients.
Testing the Premise: Is MRSA The New Gay Plague?
The Toronto Star said that a new study “discover[ed] a new strain” of a super-bug “hitting gay men.” Headlines in Britain screamed, “Flesh-eating bug strikes San Francisco’s gay community,” and anti-gay extremists across America spread the alarm that gays were introducing another plague into “the general population.” But there was a small problem with all of this: None of it is true!
Paul Cameron’s World
In 2005, the Southern Poverty Law Center wrote that “[Paul] Cameron’s ‘science’ echoes Nazi Germany.” What the SPLC didn”t know was Cameron doesn’t just “echo” Nazi Germany. He quoted extensively from one of the Final Solution’s architects. This puts his fascination with quarantines, mandatory tattoos, and extermination being a “plausible idea” in a whole new and deeply disturbing light.
From the Inside: Focus on the Family’s “Love Won Out”
On February 10, I attended an all-day “Love Won Out” ex-gay conference in Phoenix, put on by Focus on the Family and Exodus International. In this series of reports, I talk about what I learned there: the people who go to these conferences, the things that they hear, and what this all means for them, their families and for the rest of us.
Prologue: Why I Went To “Love Won Out”
Part 1: What’s Love Got To Do With It?
Part 2: Parents Struggle With “No Exceptions”
Part 3: A Whole New Dialect
Part 4: It Depends On How The Meaning of the Word "Change" Changes
Part 5: A Candid Explanation For "Change"
The Heterosexual Agenda: Exposing The Myths
At last, the truth can now be told.
Using the same research methods employed by most anti-gay political pressure groups, we examine the statistics and the case studies that dispel many of the myths about heterosexuality. Download your copy today!
And don't miss our companion report, How To Write An Anti-Gay Tract In Fifteen Easy Steps.
Testing The Premise: Are Gays A Threat To Our Children?
Anti-gay activists often charge that gay men and women pose a threat to children. In this report, we explore the supposed connection between homosexuality and child sexual abuse, the conclusions reached by the most knowledgeable professionals in the field, and how anti-gay activists continue to ignore their findings. This has tremendous consequences, not just for gay men and women, but more importantly for the safety of all our children.
Straight From The Source: What the “Dutch Study” Really Says About Gay Couples
Anti-gay activists often cite the “Dutch Study” to claim that gay unions last only about 1½ years and that the these men have an average of eight additional partners per year outside of their steady relationship. In this report, we will take you step by step into the study to see whether the claims are true.
The FRC’s Briefs Are Showing
Tony Perkins’ Family Research Council submitted an Amicus Brief to the Maryland Court of Appeals as that court prepared to consider the issue of gay marriage. We examine just one small section of that brief to reveal the junk science and fraudulent claims of the Family “Research” Council.
Review: The Gay Report
When Karla Jay and Allan Young published The Gay Report in 1979, it quickly a favorite source of statistics for many anti-gay extremists. But before you accepts these statistic at face value, you should examine the inner workings of this survey very carefully. What you learn might surprise you.
Daniel Fetty Doesn’t Count
The FBI’s annual Hate Crime Statistics aren’t as complete as they ought to be, and their report for 2004 was no exception. In fact, their most recent report has quite a few glaring holes. Holes big enough for Daniel Fetty to fall through.
G-A-Y
June 11th, 2008 | LINK
A correction: The web page that was pulled was not promoting the contest itself, only the affiliation between Tivo and FOF in terms of the “Kidzone” service. I don’t think Tivo ever actively promoted the contest.
John
June 11th, 2008 | LINK
FYI – At 8:28AM EST the TiVo webpage you linked is up. I guess they’re not sure what they want to do about this…
G-A-Y
June 11th, 2008 | LINK
John, Joe: It’s not that it’s going up and down. It’s that for some people, te site loads, while for others, it does not. Not sure what’s going on.
I’ve tried it on three diff. computers and three different browsers, and the site will not load for me. Some of my readers report the same results, but others say the site loads for them without incident. Weird.
Jim Burroway
June 11th, 2008 | LINK
Several people are reporting that the page is up. But when I try to load the page, I get a “page not found” error.
Have you tried clearing your browser’s cache before trying to load the page?
G-A-Y
June 11th, 2008 | LINK
Yea, I did.
AlexM
June 11th, 2008 | LINK
I followed your link, page there. I cleared my cache, hit reload, still there. It is possible to set up a web server to selectively block or allow access to certain pages depending on ip/location. I just got up, so let me wake up before I hunt down public web proxies to test my theory out.
werdna
June 11th, 2008 | LINK
The linked page loads for me using both Firefox and Safari on my iMac. But it’s not a promo for the contest, it’s just an ad for TiVo that says “Welcome Focus on the Family” and touts the KidZone feature.
Jim Burroway
June 11th, 2008 | LINK
Some people are reporting that the site is up, while others say its down. A mystery. Here are some questions we’d like you to answer in the comments:
1. Does TiVo’s page load for you?
2. Is this the first time you tried accessing the web page at TiVo?
3. Did you clear your browsers’ cache and/or deleted cookies? Do you get a different result if you do?
4. Please specify which browser, operating system, and internet provider is giving you your results.
AlexM
June 11th, 2008 | LINK
As I said before, I’m still waking up. Yes, the page that comes up is all about Kidzone, and says that TiVo is working with FotF for Kidzone. I haven’t tested my ‘location’ theory yet. Let me finish my coffee.
G-A-Y
June 11th, 2008 | LINK
Jim: I’ve written you about this, but I wanted to post it here as well:
It seems that we are being redirected on the basis of our IP address. I figured this out because when I try and load the Tivo/FOF site via my iPhone connected to our Wi-FI network, the site will not load. However, when I go off the network and connect to the collective Edge net (therefore no longer associated with our homebase IP), I can load the site just fine.
http://www.goodasyou.org/good_as_you/2008/06/is-tivo-being-s.html
AlexM
June 11th, 2008 | LINK
You posted when I was typing, Jim. Windows, both Firefox and IE shows it, and Midconet in North Dakota.
GDad
June 11th, 2008 | LINK
I can’t find anything on the TiVo web site about it at all. The site map and any links turn up nothing.
Firefox, WinXP, not sure of ISP.
AlexM
June 11th, 2008 | LINK
Ok, while testing the few anonymous proxy servers that I could get to work, I found one that didn’t go through. But when I went back to surfing normally (not through proxy), I found that it didn’t work for me again (I had turned my cache off while testing). What it did for me was redirect from http://www.tivo.com/promo/kidzone/fotf.html to http://www.tivo.com/promo/kidzone/kzoffer.html.
Also, when it was still coming through normally, it got redirected that way when I checked through a FreeBSD (a type of Unix operating system) server I have access to, on a different ISP (QWest, also in ND).
I’m still scratching my head on this one.
Ephilei
June 17th, 2008 | LINK
No wonder there’s a bias against gay dads: every gay dad is silenced.
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