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Teddy Partridge
October 17th, 2008 | LINK
Forget it, Jake. It’s Chinatown.
John
October 17th, 2008 | LINK
It really calls into question the whole legitimacy of all the other diplomas that BYU grants.
Richard W. Fitch
October 17th, 2008 | LINK
It will be interesting to see how this plays out over the coming weeks. If BYU actually denies a diploma to a student who has already fulfilled the academic requirements for a degree program, I wonder how the regional accreditation association will rule when a challenge is presented? BYU may find that their standing is suddenly stripped away.
Pomo
October 17th, 2008 | LINK
This issue really ticks me off.
My boyfriend was writing his thesis at a seminary. He had completed all his coursework and was mostly done with his thesis. When they found out he was gay they wouldn’t let him finish. And to this day he still cant go back without letters from a (conservative) pastor saying his gayness is all better.
I don’t see how they can get away with it. And I think something needs to be done. I support freedom of religion but again, if they want government accreditation, they’ve gotta play by the rules…
right?
Lynn David
October 18th, 2008 | LINK
Well, BYU has an “honor code [ http://honorcode.byu.edu/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=3585&Itemid=4643 ].”
But only “in student housing?” And more under “clarifications of the honor code [ http://honorcode.byu.edu/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=3578&Itemid=4634 ].”
As with anyone who butts heads with the Mormons, one usually loses. He might have been denied his diploma because he is coming out with a 2009 calendar and a second one featuring Mormon mothers (see: http://www.modbee.com/life/faithvalues/story/444370.html ).
John
October 18th, 2008 | LINK
So, BYU does not accept anyone who is not Mormon? I guess I did not realize that.
I attended Georgetown University (Catholic) with plenty of Protestants, Jews and even a few Muslims. We were never asked about our religion prior to acceptance.
Mirele
October 18th, 2008 | LINK
BYU accepts non-Mormons. They just have to promise to uphold the honor code. (I’ve always tried to figure out how Catholics, Episcopalians and Lutherans can do that, since the honor code forbids alcohol and the central rite of these three churches involves…you got it…communion wine.) But don’t get excommunicated from the Mormon church while you’re at BYU, because that means your schooling is a waste.
Additionally, the honor code applies to ALL students, not just students in student housing. For example, honor code applies to any “BYU approved” private housing. This impacts non-BYU students (e.g., students who go to UVSC down the hill). To live in these PRIVATE COMPLEXES, they have to agree to live by BYU honor code standards, which to me is insane, but is apparently legal under an exemption to the Fair Housing Act.
Anyway, apparently they’ve got Chad over a barrel. He can’t even transfer his credits to another university because of this honor code thing. His credits are frozen. This is fundamentally debatable, since he was apparently done with school and had walked in graduation before the diploma was yanked. (If I were still a practicing attorney, I’d sure as heck make that argument.) If I were Chad, I’d also ask the accrediting agencies to yank their accreditation or at least couple it with a severe warning that going to BYU could cause you to lose all of your credits if you cross the wrong line.
I’m a profoundly inactive Mormon and I have toyed with the idea of resigning my membership, but this is really getting close to the thin edge of my wedge. You don’t take someone’s degree away from him/her in this way. It’s profoundly vindictive, and for a church that says it follows Jesus, well, yeah…right. NOT.
Maybe I’ll just write a letter to the First Presidency and ask them to cut the crap. Not that it will do anything for Chad (but PUBLICITY will, I think), but it will let them know that some members are irritated at this stupidity masking itself as morality.
Utah Resident
October 18th, 2008 | LINK
The LDS Church is incredibly vindictive and will go out of their way to “get” a member, current or former, who goes against their agenda. Californians, they are flexing their political muscle in the Golden State. I hope you’re listening.
Dave
October 18th, 2008 | LINK
“apparently they’ve got Chad over a barrel.”
I disagree with Mirele. Denying admission or suspending a student for excommunication from the Mormon church is one thing, denying a diploma to someone who has already completed all degree requirements is another.
Chad should sue the school and raise hell with whatever body accredited it.
Dave
October 18th, 2008 | LINK
I should add that I agree with Mirele that publicity should help Chad’s cause.
Writing BYU may or may not be helpful, but I think it a good thing for the University to learn just how nasty such actions make them appear in the public’s eye.
Active Mormon
October 20th, 2008 | LINK
Okay, here’s where all the flaming starts. But, you can’t have a debate with only one side present, right? :-)
I am a Mormon. A devout, active Mormon. I also have gay friends, never went to BYU, and was raised outside of Utah (though I live there now). So I have a unique perspective.
First, BYU is not the Mormon church. Let me repeat that–BYU is NOT, nor has it ever been, the Mormon church. You are bound to run into some extremist views of any religion if you go where they are. For the Mormons, that is BYU and Utah Valley.
BYU’s decisions rarely conform to logic in my opinion. While in high school, I travelled there for a language fair. Not being a Utahn, I had no idea that shorts were not allowed (a policy that has been instated and rescinded so many times I’m not even sure of the current status). I wore shorts, and I was kicked off campus for the duration of the day. So there I was, a 14 year old kid, wandering the streets of Provo for hours, alone.
I’m still a member of the church. Why? Because the church authorities did not kick me off the campus, the narrow-minded, holier-than-thou school administration did.
So, now that the boundary between the Mormon church and BYU is clear…I think what BYU did was wrong. But it doesn’t suprise me. Nor should it surprise Mr. Chad Hardy. If he survived the climate at BYU long enough to almost graduate and then figuratively “spit in their eye”, he had to see it coming. It doesn’t make BYU right, but BYU’s views are spelled out in the Code of Conduct and in their past history of intolerance.
As for the excommunication, well, he had it coming. The Mormon church teaches tolerance and love. But they also teach personal responsibility. If you do something wrong, you don’t get a free pass. You make it right first. We believe faith and works are both essential to salvation. If your works stray far enough from the church’s teachings, you need to step away to think about what you really believe in. It’s as simple as that.
Dave
October 20th, 2008 | LINK
“there I was, a 14 year old kid, wandering the streets of Provo for hours, alone … [because] I had no idea that shorts were not allowed”
Yes, BYU has always impressed me as a nutty place. Why anyone would want to attend it is beyond me.
“If he survived the climate at BYU long enough to almost graduate… he had to see it coming. It doesn’t make BYU right, but BYU’s views are spelled out in the Code of Conduct and in their past history of intolerance.”
A very good point, Active Mormon. Chad should have known whom he was dealing with. But the operative words here are “it doesn’t make BYU right.”
Allowing a student to complete degree requirements and then refusing to give him said degree is something that just isn’t done. Nor is it even contemplated as a course of action by truly decent people.
cowboy
October 20th, 2008 | LINK
It should be noted, we are not privy to the EXACT reason Mr. Hardy was excommunicated. That is where a lot of conjecturing can get us into trouble. It may not have been exclusively the calendar…it could be (speculating again) he wasn’t active but there had to be a reason for inactivity (you don’t get excommunicated for inactivity). It could be (key word here: speculation): he had an immoral encounter. That usually means either disfellowshipment or excommunication depending on his contriteness and/or humbleness…(which is why they hold a court). There are a limited number of ways to get excommunicated and I don’t think it was the calendar business.
But, it seems, like everyone else here said, this was a bit too vitriolic for someone to do all the work and then, poof, it’s gone. That seems a bit too harsh of a punishment. I’m sure you have to acknowledge that?
And Utah (Happy) Valley is not really THAT bad. Hmmmm… Okay…maybe it is.
I’ve worn shorts on campus (even outside the housing and the lower athletic campus) and never had a problem. They just had to be LONG shorts to cover the knees so you can discreetly hide the Temple Garments. (And fortunately, A&F has made that their style in shorts.)
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