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Gay Man Shot To Death In NYC Hate Crime
The Daily Agenda for Sunday, May 19
French President Hollande Signs Marriage Bill
The Daily Agenda for Saturday, May 18
Fox News Ignores Marriage Equality Wins
The Era of Civil Unions Is Coming To An End
Orthodox Priests Lead Violent Attack On LGBT Rights Rally in Tbilisi, Georgia
Featured Reports
What Are Little Boys Made Of?
In this original BTB Investigation, we unveil the tragic story of Kirk Murphy, a four-year-old boy who was treated for “cross-gender disturbance” in 1970 by a young grad student by the name of George Rekers. This story is a stark reminder that there are severe and damaging consequences when therapists try to ensure that boys will be boys.
Slouching Towards Kampala: Uganda’s Deadly Embrace of Hate
When we first reported on three American anti-gay activists traveling to Kampala for a three-day conference, we had no idea that it would be the first report of a long string of events leading to a proposal to institute the death penalty for LGBT people. But that is exactly what happened. In this report, we review our collection of more than 500 posts to tell the story of one nation’s embrace of hatred toward gay people. This report will be updated continuously as events continue to unfold. Check here for the latest updates.
David Benkof: Behind the Mask
At first glance, David Benkof appears to be a young gay man who believes that same-sex marriage will damage the institution of marriage, that there are better options for gay couples than marriage, that the community should join him in prioritizing other more pressing issues, and that the marriage discussion is harming the efforts of gay couples in red states to get recognition for their unions. He also claims that he’s a gay columnist, that he speaks for an influential collection of gay thinkers, and that he is part of the gay and lesbian community and that he shares our goals and dreams. But none of that is true.
“Repeat After Me”: The Reparative Therapy Echo Chamber
The April 2008 edition of the pay-to-publish vanity journal Psychological Reports featured a new report from NARTH. Written by NARTH president A. Dean Byrd, past president Joseph Nicolosi, and Richard W. Potts, the report carries the unwieldy but self-descriptive title, “Clients perceptions of how reorientation therapy and self-help can promote changes in sexual orientation.” While the title describes what the authors meant to show — how clients describe the benefits of reparative therapy — the report itself actually illustrates something very different: the ex-gay movement’s remarkable ability to instill an almost robot-like parroting of ex-gay rhetoric among their clients.
Testing the Premise: Is MRSA The New Gay Plague?
The Toronto Star said that a new study “discover[ed] a new strain” of a super-bug “hitting gay men.” Headlines in Britain screamed, “Flesh-eating bug strikes San Francisco’s gay community,” and anti-gay extremists across America spread the alarm that gays were introducing another plague into “the general population.” But there was a small problem with all of this: None of it is true!
Paul Cameron’s World
In 2005, the Southern Poverty Law Center wrote that “[Paul] Cameron’s ‘science’ echoes Nazi Germany.” What the SPLC didn”t know was Cameron doesn’t just “echo” Nazi Germany. He quoted extensively from one of the Final Solution’s architects. This puts his fascination with quarantines, mandatory tattoos, and extermination being a “plausible idea” in a whole new and deeply disturbing light.
From the Inside: Focus on the Family’s “Love Won Out”
On February 10, I attended an all-day “Love Won Out” ex-gay conference in Phoenix, put on by Focus on the Family and Exodus International. In this series of reports, I talk about what I learned there: the people who go to these conferences, the things that they hear, and what this all means for them, their families and for the rest of us.
Prologue: Why I Went To “Love Won Out”
Part 1: What’s Love Got To Do With It?
Part 2: Parents Struggle With “No Exceptions”
Part 3: A Whole New Dialect
Part 4: It Depends On How The Meaning of the Word "Change" Changes
Part 5: A Candid Explanation For "Change"
The Heterosexual Agenda: Exposing The Myths
At last, the truth can now be told.
Using the same research methods employed by most anti-gay political pressure groups, we examine the statistics and the case studies that dispel many of the myths about heterosexuality. Download your copy today!
And don't miss our companion report, How To Write An Anti-Gay Tract In Fifteen Easy Steps.
Testing The Premise: Are Gays A Threat To Our Children?
Anti-gay activists often charge that gay men and women pose a threat to children. In this report, we explore the supposed connection between homosexuality and child sexual abuse, the conclusions reached by the most knowledgeable professionals in the field, and how anti-gay activists continue to ignore their findings. This has tremendous consequences, not just for gay men and women, but more importantly for the safety of all our children.
Straight From The Source: What the “Dutch Study” Really Says About Gay Couples
Anti-gay activists often cite the “Dutch Study” to claim that gay unions last only about 1½ years and that the these men have an average of eight additional partners per year outside of their steady relationship. In this report, we will take you step by step into the study to see whether the claims are true.
The FRC’s Briefs Are Showing
Tony Perkins’ Family Research Council submitted an Amicus Brief to the Maryland Court of Appeals as that court prepared to consider the issue of gay marriage. We examine just one small section of that brief to reveal the junk science and fraudulent claims of the Family “Research” Council.
Review: The Gay Report
When Karla Jay and Allan Young published The Gay Report in 1979, it quickly a favorite source of statistics for many anti-gay extremists. But before you accepts these statistic at face value, you should examine the inner workings of this survey very carefully. What you learn might surprise you.
Daniel Fetty Doesn’t Count
The FBI’s annual Hate Crime Statistics aren’t as complete as they ought to be, and their report for 2004 was no exception. In fact, their most recent report has quite a few glaring holes. Holes big enough for Daniel Fetty to fall through.
Mary Hayes
September 11th, 2009 | LINK
“ ‘I think it is very important for people to realize we are talking about a civil marriage, not a religious marriage,’ Catania said.”
I hope this doesn’t mean that a same-sex wedding conducted in a church won’t be recognized legally. That would be just another separate-but-equal charade.
Richard W. Fitch
September 11th, 2009 | LINK
I’m confident that the DC Bill will consider marriage in a similar way most states do now. The church ceremony is not itself a legal ceremony. The officiating clergy must be authorized by the state to make the marriage valid for record.
Christopher Waldrop
September 11th, 2009 | LINK
Mary, that’s an excellent point when you say, “I hope this doesn’t mean that a same-sex wedding conducted in a church won’t be recognized legally.”
Something that seems to come up repeatedly in the debate is that there are churches and even some denominations that are willing to recognize and perform same-sex marriages. If this is an issue of religious liberty then those churches that wish to perform same-sex marriages should be allowed to do so. And, as a matter of religious equality, same-sex marriages performed in one church should be just as legal and grant the same rights given to heterosexual marriages performed in another church.
javier
September 11th, 2009 | LINK
Congress is most likely not the problem with passing gay marriage. A referendum vote that would overturn gay marriage a la Prop 8 is a more daunting and realistic possibility. NOM and other anti-gay groups have already galvanized to undo gay marriage at the ballot box.
Duncan
September 12th, 2009 | LINK
The best would be to do as in France: only a marriage done in a notary’s office, on the law’s terms, is recognized as a civil marriage. The couple may then conduct any sort of ceremony in a church afterwards (or before), but it has no bearing on state recognition.
Burr
September 12th, 2009 | LINK
Javier they already tried to do that to recognizing outside marriage, only to be denied as D.C. does not allow referendums on civil rights issues. So nope, the anti-gays are screwed on this one! :D
Penguinsaur
September 12th, 2009 | LINK
“I think it is very important for people to realize we are talking about a civil marriage, not a religious marriage,” Catania said.
And now we wait for the people ‘following their religion’ by hating gays happily ignore this and the 9th commandment in their speeches.
The Lauderdale
September 12th, 2009 | LINK
@Mary and Christopher:
I could be wrong, but I don’t think weddings conducted in churches *are* recognized legally unless/until they have a notarized marriage license to back it up. When church officials act as notaries they are using civil powers that have been licensed by the state.
Please correct me if I misstating this, but that’s my understanding.
Richard W. Fitch
September 12th, 2009 | LINK
@The Lauderdale,Mary,Christopher: That was exactly my point. Some one can get a mail-order ordination and perform religious marriage ceremonies. Only those officiants that are authorized by the state can perform legal marriages.
I’m not quite sure what your meaning is here; but I must point out that something as central to the Christian churches as the Mass/Eucharist/Communion is not recognized as valid from one sect to another. As an Episcopalian in good standing I am still not allowed to partake of the elements in a RC mass, nor is a RC allowed to receive the elements in the Eastern Orthodox mass. And, really, most of the marriage issues are related to the 1000+ civil issues than to anything in church doctrine.
Timothy Kincaid
September 14th, 2009 | LINK
Duncan,
I think you may be overstating the status of French couple recognition. France does not allow same sex couples to marry nor does it provide full marriage equality. Rather, France recognizes a limited and less status called PACS.
Timothy Kincaid
September 14th, 2009 | LINK
Christopher, Richard, Mary, etc.
One of the arguments for marriage equality that I believe has been unrecognized is the freedom of religion. I look forward to the day when a recognized non-fringe church like, say, the United Church of Christ or the Episcopal Church or even a diocese of the Evangelical Lutheran Church sues the state for giving preference to some other church’s sacraments over their own.
It would take little effort to show that the bases behind all gay bans are tied to a specific religious belief and in this country not even “the voters” can give preference to one religion over another.
But even before the lawsuits (which I pray for), I think that this argument should be made in campaigns.
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