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What Are Little Boys Made Of?
In this original BTB Investigation, we unveil the tragic story of Kirk Murphy, a four-year-old boy who was treated for “cross-gender disturbance” in 1970 by a young grad student by the name of George Rekers. This story is a stark reminder that there are severe and damaging consequences when therapists try to ensure that boys will be boys.
Slouching Towards Kampala: Uganda’s Deadly Embrace of Hate
When we first reported on three American anti-gay activists traveling to Kampala for a three-day conference, we had no idea that it would be the first report of a long string of events leading to a proposal to institute the death penalty for LGBT people. But that is exactly what happened. In this report, we review our collection of more than 500 posts to tell the story of one nation’s embrace of hatred toward gay people. This report will be updated continuously as events continue to unfold. Check here for the latest updates.
David Benkof: Behind the Mask
At first glance, David Benkof appears to be a young gay man who believes that same-sex marriage will damage the institution of marriage, that there are better options for gay couples than marriage, that the community should join him in prioritizing other more pressing issues, and that the marriage discussion is harming the efforts of gay couples in red states to get recognition for their unions. He also claims that he’s a gay columnist, that he speaks for an influential collection of gay thinkers, and that he is part of the gay and lesbian community and that he shares our goals and dreams. But none of that is true.
“Repeat After Me”: The Reparative Therapy Echo Chamber
The April 2008 edition of the pay-to-publish vanity journal Psychological Reports featured a new report from NARTH. Written by NARTH president A. Dean Byrd, past president Joseph Nicolosi, and Richard W. Potts, the report carries the unwieldy but self-descriptive title, “Clients perceptions of how reorientation therapy and self-help can promote changes in sexual orientation.” While the title describes what the authors meant to show — how clients describe the benefits of reparative therapy — the report itself actually illustrates something very different: the ex-gay movement’s remarkable ability to instill an almost robot-like parroting of ex-gay rhetoric among their clients.
Testing the Premise: Is MRSA The New Gay Plague?
The Toronto Star said that a new study “discover[ed] a new strain” of a super-bug “hitting gay men.” Headlines in Britain screamed, “Flesh-eating bug strikes San Francisco’s gay community,” and anti-gay extremists across America spread the alarm that gays were introducing another plague into “the general population.” But there was a small problem with all of this: None of it is true!
Paul Cameron’s World
In 2005, the Southern Poverty Law Center wrote that “[Paul] Cameron’s ‘science’ echoes Nazi Germany.” What the SPLC didn”t know was Cameron doesn’t just “echo” Nazi Germany. He quoted extensively from one of the Final Solution’s architects. This puts his fascination with quarantines, mandatory tattoos, and extermination being a “plausible idea” in a whole new and deeply disturbing light.
From the Inside: Focus on the Family’s “Love Won Out”
On February 10, I attended an all-day “Love Won Out” ex-gay conference in Phoenix, put on by Focus on the Family and Exodus International. In this series of reports, I talk about what I learned there: the people who go to these conferences, the things that they hear, and what this all means for them, their families and for the rest of us.
Prologue: Why I Went To “Love Won Out”
Part 1: What’s Love Got To Do With It?
Part 2: Parents Struggle With “No Exceptions”
Part 3: A Whole New Dialect
Part 4: It Depends On How The Meaning of the Word "Change" Changes
Part 5: A Candid Explanation For "Change"
The Heterosexual Agenda: Exposing The Myths
At last, the truth can now be told.
Using the same research methods employed by most anti-gay political pressure groups, we examine the statistics and the case studies that dispel many of the myths about heterosexuality. Download your copy today!
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Testing The Premise: Are Gays A Threat To Our Children?
Anti-gay activists often charge that gay men and women pose a threat to children. In this report, we explore the supposed connection between homosexuality and child sexual abuse, the conclusions reached by the most knowledgeable professionals in the field, and how anti-gay activists continue to ignore their findings. This has tremendous consequences, not just for gay men and women, but more importantly for the safety of all our children.
Straight From The Source: What the “Dutch Study” Really Says About Gay Couples
Anti-gay activists often cite the “Dutch Study” to claim that gay unions last only about 1½ years and that the these men have an average of eight additional partners per year outside of their steady relationship. In this report, we will take you step by step into the study to see whether the claims are true.
The FRC’s Briefs Are Showing
Tony Perkins’ Family Research Council submitted an Amicus Brief to the Maryland Court of Appeals as that court prepared to consider the issue of gay marriage. We examine just one small section of that brief to reveal the junk science and fraudulent claims of the Family “Research” Council.
Review: The Gay Report
When Karla Jay and Allan Young published The Gay Report in 1979, it quickly a favorite source of statistics for many anti-gay extremists. But before you accepts these statistic at face value, you should examine the inner workings of this survey very carefully. What you learn might surprise you.
Daniel Fetty Doesn’t Count
The FBI’s annual Hate Crime Statistics aren’t as complete as they ought to be, and their report for 2004 was no exception. In fact, their most recent report has quite a few glaring holes. Holes big enough for Daniel Fetty to fall through.
daftpunkydavid
September 10th, 2010 | LINK
i’m curious to know what your thoughts are on the fear some express that the ruling may set the situation back to the pre-dadt era, meaning homosexuals cannot serve period. is this a valid caveat?
Pender
September 10th, 2010 | LINK
LCR’s status as a right-leaning group also gives them the ability to litigate whole-heartedly: they used Obama’s own anti-DADT statements against him (which are in fact quoted in the decision!) and didn’t hold anything back to maintain relations the way a HRC or Lambda Legal might. They don’t care that Obama prefers his anemic, uncertain, interminable legislative approach and consider it a feature if they can beat him to repeal. The result is more effective litigation with no punches pulled.
It should also frighten the Democrats that Republicans can plausibly claim to have achieved more progress for gay people than Democrats have, and this may push Democrats to be somewhat more assertive in pursuit of gay equality — another advantage that would not have accrued were LCR a left-leaning group.
LCR is invaluable to us. I wish more people understood these aspects of their worth.
Pender
September 10th, 2010 | LINK
daftpunkydavid, I think a “no gays allowed” rule would be nearly indistinguishable in practice from the DADT regime, so I doubt that’s a compelling concern.
Timothy Kincaid
September 10th, 2010 | LINK
DPD,
No, this ruling not only found that DADT is unconstitutional via 1st Amendment (which could indeed do as you indicate) but also because of the 5th. It is the Fifth Amendment issue that makes a ban on gay servicemembers to be unconstitutional.
Timothy Kincaid
September 10th, 2010 | LINK
One other comment.
For the past two years, the anti-gays have been dancing in the aisles about California voting for Prop 8. Nary an anti-gay marriage moment passed without some comment about “even voters in California…”
But considering the past few months, I bet they wish they’d never heard of this state.
scioto
September 10th, 2010 | LINK
“LCR is invaluable to us.”
Yes, they are so influential that their party’s 2008 platform included:
“Esprit and cohesion are necessary for military effectiveness and success on the battlefield. To protect our servicemen and women and ensure that America’s Armed Forces remain the best in the world, we affirm the timelessness of those values, the benefits of traditional military culture, and the incompatibility of homosexuality with military service.”
And:
“Republicans have been at the forefront of protecting traditional marriage laws, both in the states and in Congress. A Republican Congress enacted the Defense of Marriage Act, affirming the right of states not to recognize same-sex ‘marriages’ licensed in other states.”
Ryan
September 11th, 2010 | LINK
I don’t think Republicans could ever say they’ve done more for gay rights than Democrats, come on now. There’s still an upcoming DADT repeal vote. How do you think the numbers are gonna shake out on that?
customartist
September 11th, 2010 | LINK
Pender,
It is crystal clear that you wish to attribute advancement to Republicans.
It is also crystal clear that Republicans have historically opressed Gays in a much greater proportion than Democrats.
Whatever progress is or is not made by either side, and especially during a time when there is measureable change in public opinion, hasn’t affected this fact, nor my overall opinion of the Republican Party. They do not act in the best interest of the American People overall, but rather in the interest of a Wealthy Minority categorically.
Any Gay person voting for the Republican Party is in error, IMHGO.
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