The Daily Agenda for Thursday, May 23
It's Not the Principle, It's the Prejudice
Congratulations Mitch!
Gay Couples Excluded from Immigration Bill Markup
How To Spot A Swivel-Eyed Loon
The Daily Agenda for Wednesday, May 22
House of Commons officially passes marriage equality
British Commons Approves Marriage Equality Bill
Featured Reports
What Are Little Boys Made Of?
In this original BTB Investigation, we unveil the tragic story of Kirk Murphy, a four-year-old boy who was treated for “cross-gender disturbance” in 1970 by a young grad student by the name of George Rekers. This story is a stark reminder that there are severe and damaging consequences when therapists try to ensure that boys will be boys.
Slouching Towards Kampala: Uganda’s Deadly Embrace of Hate
When we first reported on three American anti-gay activists traveling to Kampala for a three-day conference, we had no idea that it would be the first report of a long string of events leading to a proposal to institute the death penalty for LGBT people. But that is exactly what happened. In this report, we review our collection of more than 500 posts to tell the story of one nation’s embrace of hatred toward gay people. This report will be updated continuously as events continue to unfold. Check here for the latest updates.
David Benkof: Behind the Mask
At first glance, David Benkof appears to be a young gay man who believes that same-sex marriage will damage the institution of marriage, that there are better options for gay couples than marriage, that the community should join him in prioritizing other more pressing issues, and that the marriage discussion is harming the efforts of gay couples in red states to get recognition for their unions. He also claims that he’s a gay columnist, that he speaks for an influential collection of gay thinkers, and that he is part of the gay and lesbian community and that he shares our goals and dreams. But none of that is true.
“Repeat After Me”: The Reparative Therapy Echo Chamber
The April 2008 edition of the pay-to-publish vanity journal Psychological Reports featured a new report from NARTH. Written by NARTH president A. Dean Byrd, past president Joseph Nicolosi, and Richard W. Potts, the report carries the unwieldy but self-descriptive title, “Clients perceptions of how reorientation therapy and self-help can promote changes in sexual orientation.” While the title describes what the authors meant to show — how clients describe the benefits of reparative therapy — the report itself actually illustrates something very different: the ex-gay movement’s remarkable ability to instill an almost robot-like parroting of ex-gay rhetoric among their clients.
Testing the Premise: Is MRSA The New Gay Plague?
The Toronto Star said that a new study “discover[ed] a new strain” of a super-bug “hitting gay men.” Headlines in Britain screamed, “Flesh-eating bug strikes San Francisco’s gay community,” and anti-gay extremists across America spread the alarm that gays were introducing another plague into “the general population.” But there was a small problem with all of this: None of it is true!
Paul Cameron’s World
In 2005, the Southern Poverty Law Center wrote that “[Paul] Cameron’s ‘science’ echoes Nazi Germany.” What the SPLC didn”t know was Cameron doesn’t just “echo” Nazi Germany. He quoted extensively from one of the Final Solution’s architects. This puts his fascination with quarantines, mandatory tattoos, and extermination being a “plausible idea” in a whole new and deeply disturbing light.
From the Inside: Focus on the Family’s “Love Won Out”
On February 10, I attended an all-day “Love Won Out” ex-gay conference in Phoenix, put on by Focus on the Family and Exodus International. In this series of reports, I talk about what I learned there: the people who go to these conferences, the things that they hear, and what this all means for them, their families and for the rest of us.
Prologue: Why I Went To “Love Won Out”
Part 1: What’s Love Got To Do With It?
Part 2: Parents Struggle With “No Exceptions”
Part 3: A Whole New Dialect
Part 4: It Depends On How The Meaning of the Word "Change" Changes
Part 5: A Candid Explanation For "Change"
The Heterosexual Agenda: Exposing The Myths
At last, the truth can now be told.
Using the same research methods employed by most anti-gay political pressure groups, we examine the statistics and the case studies that dispel many of the myths about heterosexuality. Download your copy today!
And don't miss our companion report, How To Write An Anti-Gay Tract In Fifteen Easy Steps.
Testing The Premise: Are Gays A Threat To Our Children?
Anti-gay activists often charge that gay men and women pose a threat to children. In this report, we explore the supposed connection between homosexuality and child sexual abuse, the conclusions reached by the most knowledgeable professionals in the field, and how anti-gay activists continue to ignore their findings. This has tremendous consequences, not just for gay men and women, but more importantly for the safety of all our children.
Straight From The Source: What the “Dutch Study” Really Says About Gay Couples
Anti-gay activists often cite the “Dutch Study” to claim that gay unions last only about 1½ years and that the these men have an average of eight additional partners per year outside of their steady relationship. In this report, we will take you step by step into the study to see whether the claims are true.
The FRC’s Briefs Are Showing
Tony Perkins’ Family Research Council submitted an Amicus Brief to the Maryland Court of Appeals as that court prepared to consider the issue of gay marriage. We examine just one small section of that brief to reveal the junk science and fraudulent claims of the Family “Research” Council.
Review: The Gay Report
When Karla Jay and Allan Young published The Gay Report in 1979, it quickly a favorite source of statistics for many anti-gay extremists. But before you accepts these statistic at face value, you should examine the inner workings of this survey very carefully. What you learn might surprise you.
Daniel Fetty Doesn’t Count
The FBI’s annual Hate Crime Statistics aren’t as complete as they ought to be, and their report for 2004 was no exception. In fact, their most recent report has quite a few glaring holes. Holes big enough for Daniel Fetty to fall through.
Titus
September 10th, 2010 | LINK
Congratulations!
Jim Burroway
September 10th, 2010 | LINK
Oh my God Jacob! Congratulations!
Timothy Kincaid
September 10th, 2010 | LINK
All the very best to Ben and Jacob
Jacob Wilson
September 10th, 2010 | LINK
Thanks for the shout out and warm wishes Dan! Jim, I am thinking of wearing white, but not sure if that will be as ‘believable’ as I would like for it to be.
Ray
September 10th, 2010 | LINK
I love a happy beginning. Hugs to you guys!!!
scioto
September 10th, 2010 | LINK
“The .. ceremony will likely be held in Ames the summer of 2010.”
That would mean within the next 2 weeks.
Congrats.
anteros
September 10th, 2010 | LINK
congratulations guys!
jacob, thanks for sharing your story… you and all the others who spoke out made a difference in my life. happier days ahead:-)
Douglas
September 10th, 2010 | LINK
“Jacob is currently a senior double majoring in political science and women’s and gender studies.”
That and $2…
But seriously, congrats!
Richard Rush
September 10th, 2010 | LINK
Congratulations, Jacob, on having the courage to walk away from the darkness. And double congratulations to you and Ben on your wedding plans!
Tone
September 10th, 2010 | LINK
I am very happy for this man finally finding his way to himself. Living an authentic life is much healthier than living a sham.
I was involved in an ex-gay religious group in the late 80′s. It didn’t work… quel dommage. Two of the guys from that group eventually hooked up with each other and they are still together 18 years later. They still look like they’re 25 too, the bitches.
Charles
September 11th, 2010 | LINK
fiancé, not fiancée, or it turns the whole point of your article on its head! ;-)
Nathaniel
September 11th, 2010 | LINK
Congratulations guys!
A story with a real winner, rock on guys!
Tony P
September 11th, 2010 | LINK
Just proves that ‘conversion’ therapy doesn’t work.
Congrats to both of you. I’m glad you’re doing well.
Carl
September 11th, 2010 | LINK
I think that Lady Bracknell said it best when she said that she wasn’t in favor of long engagements because they give people an opportunity of finding out each other’s characters before marriage. Which she thinks is never advisable
gordo
September 11th, 2010 | LINK
from Bull Durham:
Millie: Annie… do you think I deserve to wear white?
Annie Savoy: Honey, we all deserve to wear white.
Regan DuCasse
September 11th, 2010 | LINK
Yay! Yay! Yay!
Jacob, congratulations to you and Ben! I’m so happy for you.
You’ll be amazed at how different you’ll feel.
The ss weddings I’ve attended have some political sentiment to them because it feels great at the moment you can actually marry, but also a bit tense as there are so many factions out there willing to pull the rug out from under your marriage.
But I know of no couple that doesn’t think this is a very big deal. Because it IS a big deal. Hard fought for, and hard won where it’s been won.
Therefore, in that picture, I see a pair of handsome WINNERS!
Love kinda does that for ya and looks like it to me from here.
All the best guys!
XOXO
David
September 11th, 2010 | LINK
Their relationship and upcoming marriage is the real Love in Action.
Congrats to the happy couple.
Audrey the Liberal
September 14th, 2010 | LINK
“Jacob is currently a senior double majoring in political science and women’s and gender studies.” Is just lighting a pile of money on fire now considered gauche?
Rarian Rakista
September 16th, 2010 | LINK
Grats, I wonder how long till there will be less of a need for identity-based fraternities and more of a profession-based set?
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