The Daily Agenda for Friday, May 24
Boy Scouts of America Votes To Allow Gay Members, Retains Ban On Gay Leaders
Nevada House votes to reverse marriage ban
The Daily Agenda for Thursday, May 23
It's Not the Principle, It's the Prejudice
Congratulations Mitch!
Gay Couples Excluded from Immigration Bill Markup
How To Spot A Swivel-Eyed Loon
Featured Reports
What Are Little Boys Made Of?
In this original BTB Investigation, we unveil the tragic story of Kirk Murphy, a four-year-old boy who was treated for “cross-gender disturbance” in 1970 by a young grad student by the name of George Rekers. This story is a stark reminder that there are severe and damaging consequences when therapists try to ensure that boys will be boys.
Slouching Towards Kampala: Uganda’s Deadly Embrace of Hate
When we first reported on three American anti-gay activists traveling to Kampala for a three-day conference, we had no idea that it would be the first report of a long string of events leading to a proposal to institute the death penalty for LGBT people. But that is exactly what happened. In this report, we review our collection of more than 500 posts to tell the story of one nation’s embrace of hatred toward gay people. This report will be updated continuously as events continue to unfold. Check here for the latest updates.
David Benkof: Behind the Mask
At first glance, David Benkof appears to be a young gay man who believes that same-sex marriage will damage the institution of marriage, that there are better options for gay couples than marriage, that the community should join him in prioritizing other more pressing issues, and that the marriage discussion is harming the efforts of gay couples in red states to get recognition for their unions. He also claims that he’s a gay columnist, that he speaks for an influential collection of gay thinkers, and that he is part of the gay and lesbian community and that he shares our goals and dreams. But none of that is true.
“Repeat After Me”: The Reparative Therapy Echo Chamber
The April 2008 edition of the pay-to-publish vanity journal Psychological Reports featured a new report from NARTH. Written by NARTH president A. Dean Byrd, past president Joseph Nicolosi, and Richard W. Potts, the report carries the unwieldy but self-descriptive title, “Clients perceptions of how reorientation therapy and self-help can promote changes in sexual orientation.” While the title describes what the authors meant to show — how clients describe the benefits of reparative therapy — the report itself actually illustrates something very different: the ex-gay movement’s remarkable ability to instill an almost robot-like parroting of ex-gay rhetoric among their clients.
Testing the Premise: Is MRSA The New Gay Plague?
The Toronto Star said that a new study “discover[ed] a new strain” of a super-bug “hitting gay men.” Headlines in Britain screamed, “Flesh-eating bug strikes San Francisco’s gay community,” and anti-gay extremists across America spread the alarm that gays were introducing another plague into “the general population.” But there was a small problem with all of this: None of it is true!
Paul Cameron’s World
In 2005, the Southern Poverty Law Center wrote that “[Paul] Cameron’s ‘science’ echoes Nazi Germany.” What the SPLC didn”t know was Cameron doesn’t just “echo” Nazi Germany. He quoted extensively from one of the Final Solution’s architects. This puts his fascination with quarantines, mandatory tattoos, and extermination being a “plausible idea” in a whole new and deeply disturbing light.
From the Inside: Focus on the Family’s “Love Won Out”
On February 10, I attended an all-day “Love Won Out” ex-gay conference in Phoenix, put on by Focus on the Family and Exodus International. In this series of reports, I talk about what I learned there: the people who go to these conferences, the things that they hear, and what this all means for them, their families and for the rest of us.
Prologue: Why I Went To “Love Won Out”
Part 1: What’s Love Got To Do With It?
Part 2: Parents Struggle With “No Exceptions”
Part 3: A Whole New Dialect
Part 4: It Depends On How The Meaning of the Word "Change" Changes
Part 5: A Candid Explanation For "Change"
The Heterosexual Agenda: Exposing The Myths
At last, the truth can now be told.
Using the same research methods employed by most anti-gay political pressure groups, we examine the statistics and the case studies that dispel many of the myths about heterosexuality. Download your copy today!
And don't miss our companion report, How To Write An Anti-Gay Tract In Fifteen Easy Steps.
Testing The Premise: Are Gays A Threat To Our Children?
Anti-gay activists often charge that gay men and women pose a threat to children. In this report, we explore the supposed connection between homosexuality and child sexual abuse, the conclusions reached by the most knowledgeable professionals in the field, and how anti-gay activists continue to ignore their findings. This has tremendous consequences, not just for gay men and women, but more importantly for the safety of all our children.
Straight From The Source: What the “Dutch Study” Really Says About Gay Couples
Anti-gay activists often cite the “Dutch Study” to claim that gay unions last only about 1½ years and that the these men have an average of eight additional partners per year outside of their steady relationship. In this report, we will take you step by step into the study to see whether the claims are true.
The FRC’s Briefs Are Showing
Tony Perkins’ Family Research Council submitted an Amicus Brief to the Maryland Court of Appeals as that court prepared to consider the issue of gay marriage. We examine just one small section of that brief to reveal the junk science and fraudulent claims of the Family “Research” Council.
Review: The Gay Report
When Karla Jay and Allan Young published The Gay Report in 1979, it quickly a favorite source of statistics for many anti-gay extremists. But before you accepts these statistic at face value, you should examine the inner workings of this survey very carefully. What you learn might surprise you.
Daniel Fetty Doesn’t Count
The FBI’s annual Hate Crime Statistics aren’t as complete as they ought to be, and their report for 2004 was no exception. In fact, their most recent report has quite a few glaring holes. Holes big enough for Daniel Fetty to fall through.
Rarian Rakista
October 2nd, 2010 | LINK
You know how many times this happened before their were child protection laws? My dad had his back broken after his dad threw him down a flight of stairs because he forgot to bring in my grand dad’s toolbox, punishment in 1950′s Indiana, nothing.
Ben in Oakland
October 2nd, 2010 | LINK
There’s more to the story?
Unless the good Reverend sir is stating that his son did not in fact beat his stepson to death, or contributre to his death in a major way, it is hard to imagine what more to the story could there be.
but hey. At least that poor little boy had a mother and a father.
Regan DuCasse
October 2nd, 2010 | LINK
Dear God…
Folks, I see this all the time. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve attended an incident of domestic violence and children CLINGING to me so hard. They want to go with me so bad to get them out of there. I had to start carrying lollipops in my bag to soothe them.
We’ve had child victims brought into our headquarters to have their injuries photographed.
Sometimes those injuries are in private areas. There is so little privacy after a crime.
I don’t wear a uniform, and no gun…so I guess I’m less intimidating. I try hard to respect the privacy and feelings of a child.
To think of a woman, turning up the volume on a television so her child’s screams can’t be heard is depraved beyond belief.
Beating deaths are terrible. And so many children who die from them, usually have old injuries that were never treated that make them irritable.
They are in terrible pain sometimes for months. Exacerbating a violent parent’s lack of patience with them.
Sometimes, don’t you wonder where God was when these children were suffering so?
Ryan
October 3rd, 2010 | LINK
Amazing. “More to the story”, says the good Reverend, who no doubt beat his own son as well.
Tone
October 3rd, 2010 | LINK
It’s heartbreaking, I was trying to type a reply to this when I became so overwrought that I just started bawling. My desire to see vengeance against this couple is strong, but that makes me scarcely any better than them. Beyond revulsion and feeling tremendous sorrow I just don’t know how to feel.
Richard Rush
October 3rd, 2010 | LINK
Regan said, “Sometimes, don’t you wonder where God was when these children were suffering so?”
I stopped wondering many years ago when I concluded that gods do not exist.
We all know there are some demented Christian fanatics who would believe the child somehow deserved to be beaten to death – for being demon-possessed, for example. Maybe that is part of what the reverend meant when he said, “. . . there is more to the story.”
customartist
October 3rd, 2010 | LINK
Here’s the news story:
http://www.dispatch.com/live/content/local_news/stories/2010/10/02/he-loved-stepson-man-says.html?sid=101
Here’s the Church link: (should anyone care to ask the dear reverend to continue with the rest of the story)
http://www.yournewscolumbus.com/love_of_church_no_act_for_corint.htm
lurker
October 3rd, 2010 | LINK
Regan – I really appreciate reading your comments on this blog, and thank you for your work in protecting kids. I have to put in a comment about this though:
“To think of a woman, turning up the volume on a television so her child’s screams can’t be heard is depraved beyond belief.”
Yes, that struck me as overwhelmingly depraved at first also, but what is even MORE depraved is a father bludgeoning his kid to death.
Our social mores say that women are cherubic protectors of children, while men are violent monsters who are prone to hurt children. I believe in recognizing and challenging these stereotypes, as they hurt us all.
Richard Rush
October 3rd, 2010 | LINK
Wait . . . The killer has already pleaded guilty and has been sentenced. So, if there really were “more to the story,” wouldn’t it be reasonable to expect that the reverend/father would have told that story in the courtroom?
Timothy (TRiG)
October 3rd, 2010 | LINK
After all these suicides, and the anti-gay people coming out in droves to oppose anti-bullying measures, and having recently reread most of Letter to a Christian Nation, I am not currently feeling well disposed toward religion in general or Christianity in particular.
This is sick, but not particularly surprising.
TRiG.
(Sorry. I’ll try to get out of cynic mode before posting again.)
Zattica
October 13th, 2010 | LINK
4 years old. What a triumph for a grown person. Lawrence won’t ever do that again! Hopefully neither will John Reeves or Lawrence’s “mother”.
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