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In this original BTB Investigation, we unveil the tragic story of Kirk Murphy, a four-year-old boy who was treated for “cross-gender disturbance” in 1970 by a young grad student by the name of George Rekers. This story is a stark reminder that there are severe and damaging consequences when therapists try to ensure that boys will be boys.
Slouching Towards Kampala: Uganda’s Deadly Embrace of Hate
When we first reported on three American anti-gay activists traveling to Kampala for a three-day conference, we had no idea that it would be the first report of a long string of events leading to a proposal to institute the death penalty for LGBT people. But that is exactly what happened. In this report, we review our collection of more than 500 posts to tell the story of one nation’s embrace of hatred toward gay people. This report will be updated continuously as events continue to unfold. Check here for the latest updates.
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At first glance, David Benkof appears to be a young gay man who believes that same-sex marriage will damage the institution of marriage, that there are better options for gay couples than marriage, that the community should join him in prioritizing other more pressing issues, and that the marriage discussion is harming the efforts of gay couples in red states to get recognition for their unions. He also claims that he’s a gay columnist, that he speaks for an influential collection of gay thinkers, and that he is part of the gay and lesbian community and that he shares our goals and dreams. But none of that is true.
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The April 2008 edition of the pay-to-publish vanity journal Psychological Reports featured a new report from NARTH. Written by NARTH president A. Dean Byrd, past president Joseph Nicolosi, and Richard W. Potts, the report carries the unwieldy but self-descriptive title, “Clients perceptions of how reorientation therapy and self-help can promote changes in sexual orientation.” While the title describes what the authors meant to show — how clients describe the benefits of reparative therapy — the report itself actually illustrates something very different: the ex-gay movement’s remarkable ability to instill an almost robot-like parroting of ex-gay rhetoric among their clients.
Testing the Premise: Is MRSA The New Gay Plague?
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From the Inside: Focus on the Family’s “Love Won Out”
On February 10, I attended an all-day “Love Won Out” ex-gay conference in Phoenix, put on by Focus on the Family and Exodus International. In this series of reports, I talk about what I learned there: the people who go to these conferences, the things that they hear, and what this all means for them, their families and for the rest of us.
Prologue: Why I Went To “Love Won Out”
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Review: The Gay Report
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Daniel Fetty Doesn’t Count
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Kelly
April 7th, 2011 | LINK
Don’t Arizona and other states have laws requiring that if two people co-adopt, they must be of different genders? In other words, one gay person can adopt, but not two jointly, or a person cannot adopt his or her partner’s biological children as a second part if they’re of the same gender?
And how would this affect laws like the one working its way through the AZ legislature that gives preference to married couples (which excludes same-sex couples, since they can’t legally marry here)?
Kelly
April 7th, 2011 | LINK
*second parent, not second part.
Regan DuCasse
April 7th, 2011 | LINK
I think the state, rightly, should put a op sex couple’s marital status under scrutiny when considering adoption of a child.
A gay couple committed for years and stable for that long, cannot marry and never has the choice to, nor the federal protections that would benefit their relationship with that child.
Straight couples, however DO have that choice and it bears examination of why they don’t take that option when it’s open to them.
The most likely reason would be they aren’t divorced from previous spouses, they are hedging other state benefits, their relationship ISN’T stable enough or provable as committed enough to ensure that child’s optimum welfare.
These are potential complications. These are indications of less stability than needed.
There are family members who might be in this situation who can adopt the child of a blood relative.
Marital status scrutiny is very different for gay couples.
Single parents might fall into the category of a partner entering the situation the state has no knowledge of later on.
I see why privacy clauses would come into play, but some marital status situations read better as not optimal than others.
Unfortunately, the very children who have been need of foster care, come from situations where their biological father isn’t present, and the mother’s boyfriend endangers the child.
There have been incidents very recently, in CA and in NY where very young children, placed in the home of unmarried foster couples of op sex, hetero orientation, the boyfriends ended up murdering the children.
In all the last two and a half decades of scrutiny of CPS in CA, there was only ONE incident of a lesbian couple abusing the biological son of one of the women.
Just one.
Conversely, there have over two hundred incidents of children abused in foster care by their caregivers in op sex/or hetero homes. And of those, one hundred and seventy eight culminated in the murder of the child.
Straight folks have really bad track records when it comes to child care. Even in foster care.
Which means that discrimination against gay people, strains the system in finding competent care and does nothing to prevent abuse of children by straight people.
Timothy Kincaid
April 7th, 2011 | LINK
I can see a certain logic in requiring that any two persons who adopt be married (or in some other legal entanglement). It does imply a level of commitment to the relationship that goes beyond the casualness of cohabitation.
However, that presumes that the two persons are allowed to marry. Otherwise it is but another of the artificial barriers that pretend to be in the best interest of children but are designed to be discriminatory.
And, yet again, those who seek to disadvantage gay people have done themselves and the children a disservice.
By denying gay people the ability to form a legal relationship, they deny themselves the right to require a legal relationship before adoption and deny the children a measure of stability that such a requirement might add.
Timothy Kincaid
April 7th, 2011 | LINK
Regan…thank you for bringing the facts. As hard as it may be for me to read them without becoming sad, then horrified, then angry.
Regan DuCasse
April 7th, 2011 | LINK
Exactly, Timothy, that’s why I mentioned which op sex condition might exist where the couple cannot marry, or aren’t allowed to.
They would have to be still married to previous spouses, most likely.
But an unmarried straight couple who remain that way for no reason, because obviously they legally COULD marry, begs the question, why don’t they?
This of course does not apply to gay couples who don’t have the option in the majority of states and NO federal benefits whatsoever in marriage.
And yes, this information regarding the foster care system just in CA is appalling.
There was a famous case of a lesbian couple who had taken in an infant girl whose mother had been a drug addict and who’d been imprisoned often. I think the mother finally died of a drug OD.
An aunt (a sister of the mother) petitioned to take the child in her custody along with her husband. The baby by then, had been with her lesbian foster mothers for over a year, was thriving and come through drug withdrawal and other issues very well in their care. She was 18 mos old went she went to live with her aunt and her aunt’s husband.
Within six months, the baby was dead from a beating.
She’d been starved and there was physical evidence of fractures that hadn’t been treated.
The case was part of a series in the LATimes on the willing and competence of gay foster and adoptive parents, and how they are given hyper scrutiny compared to straight couples. Who should have the same requirement.
Family are given priority over non kin foster care. However, sometimes churches are guilty of being advocates for foster care if they object to gay couples having the children.
Just as they are guilty of petitioning for the parole of sex offenders (and other kinds of violent criminals) if it appears they have effectively embraced Christianity.
Either way, it’s always horrible to see child bearing and care privileges bestowed on people who ultimately destroy a child’s life.
Erin
April 8th, 2011 | LINK
So, in Mississippi, a single adult male can adopt, but not s same-sex couple. Kinda reminds me of the girl from Russia adopted by an American man, who then filmed himself raping her over a period of several years. Then said videos were put on the internet. He specifically requested a child with blonde hair and blue eyes. But, a gay couple, no! That would be an ‘unhealthy’ environment for the child.
David Weintraub
April 8th, 2011 | LINK
The situation in Virginia is the same – single parents can adopt or foster regardless of orientation, but not unmarried couples.
There is a current “controversy” over a section in the Virginia Department of Social Services regulations that prohibits discrimination against prospective parents on the basis of who they are, essentially affirming the “best interests of the child” standard, but nothing has been done to address the discrimination against couples. Thanks, Regan, for your insights.
http://www.equalityloudoun.org/?p=919
Christine
April 9th, 2011 | LINK
Wikipedia has a very interesting paragraph on disgraced former Board member of NARTH George Rekers’s testimony in an Arkansas adoption case:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/George_Alan_Rekers#Arkansas_gay_adoption_case.2C_2004
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