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What Are Little Boys Made Of?
In this original BTB Investigation, we unveil the tragic story of Kirk Murphy, a four-year-old boy who was treated for “cross-gender disturbance” in 1970 by a young grad student by the name of George Rekers. This story is a stark reminder that there are severe and damaging consequences when therapists try to ensure that boys will be boys.
Slouching Towards Kampala: Uganda’s Deadly Embrace of Hate
When we first reported on three American anti-gay activists traveling to Kampala for a three-day conference, we had no idea that it would be the first report of a long string of events leading to a proposal to institute the death penalty for LGBT people. But that is exactly what happened. In this report, we review our collection of more than 500 posts to tell the story of one nation’s embrace of hatred toward gay people. This report will be updated continuously as events continue to unfold. Check here for the latest updates.
David Benkof: Behind the Mask
At first glance, David Benkof appears to be a young gay man who believes that same-sex marriage will damage the institution of marriage, that there are better options for gay couples than marriage, that the community should join him in prioritizing other more pressing issues, and that the marriage discussion is harming the efforts of gay couples in red states to get recognition for their unions. He also claims that he’s a gay columnist, that he speaks for an influential collection of gay thinkers, and that he is part of the gay and lesbian community and that he shares our goals and dreams. But none of that is true.
“Repeat After Me”: The Reparative Therapy Echo Chamber
The April 2008 edition of the pay-to-publish vanity journal Psychological Reports featured a new report from NARTH. Written by NARTH president A. Dean Byrd, past president Joseph Nicolosi, and Richard W. Potts, the report carries the unwieldy but self-descriptive title, “Clients perceptions of how reorientation therapy and self-help can promote changes in sexual orientation.” While the title describes what the authors meant to show — how clients describe the benefits of reparative therapy — the report itself actually illustrates something very different: the ex-gay movement’s remarkable ability to instill an almost robot-like parroting of ex-gay rhetoric among their clients.
Testing the Premise: Is MRSA The New Gay Plague?
The Toronto Star said that a new study “discover[ed] a new strain” of a super-bug “hitting gay men.” Headlines in Britain screamed, “Flesh-eating bug strikes San Francisco’s gay community,” and anti-gay extremists across America spread the alarm that gays were introducing another plague into “the general population.” But there was a small problem with all of this: None of it is true!
Paul Cameron’s World
In 2005, the Southern Poverty Law Center wrote that “[Paul] Cameron’s ‘science’ echoes Nazi Germany.” What the SPLC didn”t know was Cameron doesn’t just “echo” Nazi Germany. He quoted extensively from one of the Final Solution’s architects. This puts his fascination with quarantines, mandatory tattoos, and extermination being a “plausible idea” in a whole new and deeply disturbing light.
From the Inside: Focus on the Family’s “Love Won Out”
On February 10, I attended an all-day “Love Won Out” ex-gay conference in Phoenix, put on by Focus on the Family and Exodus International. In this series of reports, I talk about what I learned there: the people who go to these conferences, the things that they hear, and what this all means for them, their families and for the rest of us.
Prologue: Why I Went To “Love Won Out”
Part 1: What’s Love Got To Do With It?
Part 2: Parents Struggle With “No Exceptions”
Part 3: A Whole New Dialect
Part 4: It Depends On How The Meaning of the Word "Change" Changes
Part 5: A Candid Explanation For "Change"
The Heterosexual Agenda: Exposing The Myths
At last, the truth can now be told.
Using the same research methods employed by most anti-gay political pressure groups, we examine the statistics and the case studies that dispel many of the myths about heterosexuality. Download your copy today!
And don't miss our companion report, How To Write An Anti-Gay Tract In Fifteen Easy Steps.
Testing The Premise: Are Gays A Threat To Our Children?
Anti-gay activists often charge that gay men and women pose a threat to children. In this report, we explore the supposed connection between homosexuality and child sexual abuse, the conclusions reached by the most knowledgeable professionals in the field, and how anti-gay activists continue to ignore their findings. This has tremendous consequences, not just for gay men and women, but more importantly for the safety of all our children.
Straight From The Source: What the “Dutch Study” Really Says About Gay Couples
Anti-gay activists often cite the “Dutch Study” to claim that gay unions last only about 1½ years and that the these men have an average of eight additional partners per year outside of their steady relationship. In this report, we will take you step by step into the study to see whether the claims are true.
The FRC’s Briefs Are Showing
Tony Perkins’ Family Research Council submitted an Amicus Brief to the Maryland Court of Appeals as that court prepared to consider the issue of gay marriage. We examine just one small section of that brief to reveal the junk science and fraudulent claims of the Family “Research” Council.
Review: The Gay Report
When Karla Jay and Allan Young published The Gay Report in 1979, it quickly a favorite source of statistics for many anti-gay extremists. But before you accepts these statistic at face value, you should examine the inner workings of this survey very carefully. What you learn might surprise you.
Daniel Fetty Doesn’t Count
The FBI’s annual Hate Crime Statistics aren’t as complete as they ought to be, and their report for 2004 was no exception. In fact, their most recent report has quite a few glaring holes. Holes big enough for Daniel Fetty to fall through.
TampaZeke
August 22nd, 2011 | LINK
That is the most bizarre blog I have ever tried to read; and I’ve read some really bizarre stuff on blogs!
He actually talks about himself as a “superstar” and talks about others who have risen to dizzying heights (and some fallen) within the “ex-gay” industry.
It’s just bizarre what shame, guilt, self-hatred and fear will do to a person.
SteveInMI
August 22nd, 2011 | LINK
Gee, that’s a pity. Always a shame when a young eligible cutie wastes his life on churches and closets.
Actually, in fairness, this could easily have been me. I am a queer boy who was raised in a church in a small town. There, we were taught two orientations: straight (normal) and gay/fag (flaming, disturbed, and 100% homo). I “knew” I wasn’t gay because I was attracted to girls. My church and its small town made sure nobody spoke terms like Bisexual, and they made it very clear that Queer could not coexist with Normal, Happy, Respected, Healthy, or Accepted.
I was well in to my 30s before I came to understand myself as a queer, bi, normal person. Our hero in this video looks like he could use a dose of the same.
mike
August 22nd, 2011 | LINK
it’s amazing what people will do to themselves all in the name of getting a chunk of the religious communities money.
Ben In Oakland
August 22nd, 2011 | LINK
A legend in his own mind.
TampaZeke
August 22nd, 2011 | LINK
“There, we were taught two orientations: straight (normal) and gay/fag (flaming, disturbed, and 100% homo). I “knew” I wasn’t gay because I was attracted to girls.”
SteveInMI, I hope you’re just a sloppy writer and didn’t mean that to be as insulting offensive as it sounds. I hope that when you re-read that statement you will be able to see what the problems are within it without having to have them pointed out to you.
Maurice Lacunza
August 22nd, 2011 | LINK
I read the blog about Gentleman J. Wow. It isn’t surprising that he only has two readers. But how did he get 494 people to like him on Facebook? That has me stumped.
Otherwise, this guy is in complete denial. His gayness is seeping from every seam and sentence.
Too bad he believes the lies.
Priya Lynn
August 22nd, 2011 | LINK
The video is just a black rectangle for me, I can’t click on it. I just had my computer restored, is there something I need to download?
Richard Rush
August 22nd, 2011 | LINK
Priya, if you right-click in the video window area, there are some options. Does that help? Also, when I right-click I see two players listed: Adobe Flash Player and Moogalover Player. I never heard of Moogalover, so I don’t know what that is.
Richard Rush
August 22nd, 2011 | LINK
Confessions of an Ex-Gay Superstar. Seriously?
If Randy ever abandons his delusions and accepts his reality, the blog title could be easily updated:
Confessions of an Ex-Gay Superstarved for Man-Love.
William
August 22nd, 2011 | LINK
I see that he gives you the option of donating anything from $5 to $500 monthly, as well as the possibility of making a single donation of any amount. Has anyone on here been charitable enough to donate yet?
Blair Martin
August 22nd, 2011 | LINK
Why do most of the pictures of him in his opening video have him in close proximity, if not actual touching, with other men? And, don’t these “ex-gays” ever have speech therapy as part of their “cure curriculum”? (What’s that old “joke”? “Looks like Tarzan, talks like Jane”.)
mikeksf
August 22nd, 2011 | LINK
This dizzy ka-weenie closet case having his photo op with fat cat Republicans and assorted right wing crazies make him a superstar? I hardly think so. Where are the pics with Santorum and Bachman?
That could be fun.
Tampa Zeke, you’ll have to explain to me your critique of SteveinMI’s comments. I thought they were pretty clear. What did I miss?
Priya Lynn
August 22nd, 2011 | LINK
Richard, right clicking doesn’t list any players or any options that would appear to help, just “create short cut, print/ live blog,”, etc.
David Roberts
August 22nd, 2011 | LINK
Probably need to install Adobe Flash. Longtime no see, Randi.
Priya Lynn
August 22nd, 2011 | LINK
I’ve change my name David, please respect my choice.
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