The Daily Agenda for Friday, May 24
Boy Scouts of America Votes To Allow Gay Members, Retains Ban On Gay Leaders
Nevada House votes to reverse marriage ban
The Daily Agenda for Thursday, May 23
It's Not the Principle, It's the Prejudice
Congratulations Mitch!
Gay Couples Excluded from Immigration Bill Markup
How To Spot A Swivel-Eyed Loon
Featured Reports
What Are Little Boys Made Of?
In this original BTB Investigation, we unveil the tragic story of Kirk Murphy, a four-year-old boy who was treated for “cross-gender disturbance” in 1970 by a young grad student by the name of George Rekers. This story is a stark reminder that there are severe and damaging consequences when therapists try to ensure that boys will be boys.
Slouching Towards Kampala: Uganda’s Deadly Embrace of Hate
When we first reported on three American anti-gay activists traveling to Kampala for a three-day conference, we had no idea that it would be the first report of a long string of events leading to a proposal to institute the death penalty for LGBT people. But that is exactly what happened. In this report, we review our collection of more than 500 posts to tell the story of one nation’s embrace of hatred toward gay people. This report will be updated continuously as events continue to unfold. Check here for the latest updates.
David Benkof: Behind the Mask
At first glance, David Benkof appears to be a young gay man who believes that same-sex marriage will damage the institution of marriage, that there are better options for gay couples than marriage, that the community should join him in prioritizing other more pressing issues, and that the marriage discussion is harming the efforts of gay couples in red states to get recognition for their unions. He also claims that he’s a gay columnist, that he speaks for an influential collection of gay thinkers, and that he is part of the gay and lesbian community and that he shares our goals and dreams. But none of that is true.
“Repeat After Me”: The Reparative Therapy Echo Chamber
The April 2008 edition of the pay-to-publish vanity journal Psychological Reports featured a new report from NARTH. Written by NARTH president A. Dean Byrd, past president Joseph Nicolosi, and Richard W. Potts, the report carries the unwieldy but self-descriptive title, “Clients perceptions of how reorientation therapy and self-help can promote changes in sexual orientation.” While the title describes what the authors meant to show — how clients describe the benefits of reparative therapy — the report itself actually illustrates something very different: the ex-gay movement’s remarkable ability to instill an almost robot-like parroting of ex-gay rhetoric among their clients.
Testing the Premise: Is MRSA The New Gay Plague?
The Toronto Star said that a new study “discover[ed] a new strain” of a super-bug “hitting gay men.” Headlines in Britain screamed, “Flesh-eating bug strikes San Francisco’s gay community,” and anti-gay extremists across America spread the alarm that gays were introducing another plague into “the general population.” But there was a small problem with all of this: None of it is true!
Paul Cameron’s World
In 2005, the Southern Poverty Law Center wrote that “[Paul] Cameron’s ‘science’ echoes Nazi Germany.” What the SPLC didn”t know was Cameron doesn’t just “echo” Nazi Germany. He quoted extensively from one of the Final Solution’s architects. This puts his fascination with quarantines, mandatory tattoos, and extermination being a “plausible idea” in a whole new and deeply disturbing light.
From the Inside: Focus on the Family’s “Love Won Out”
On February 10, I attended an all-day “Love Won Out” ex-gay conference in Phoenix, put on by Focus on the Family and Exodus International. In this series of reports, I talk about what I learned there: the people who go to these conferences, the things that they hear, and what this all means for them, their families and for the rest of us.
Prologue: Why I Went To “Love Won Out”
Part 1: What’s Love Got To Do With It?
Part 2: Parents Struggle With “No Exceptions”
Part 3: A Whole New Dialect
Part 4: It Depends On How The Meaning of the Word "Change" Changes
Part 5: A Candid Explanation For "Change"
The Heterosexual Agenda: Exposing The Myths
At last, the truth can now be told.
Using the same research methods employed by most anti-gay political pressure groups, we examine the statistics and the case studies that dispel many of the myths about heterosexuality. Download your copy today!
And don't miss our companion report, How To Write An Anti-Gay Tract In Fifteen Easy Steps.
Testing The Premise: Are Gays A Threat To Our Children?
Anti-gay activists often charge that gay men and women pose a threat to children. In this report, we explore the supposed connection between homosexuality and child sexual abuse, the conclusions reached by the most knowledgeable professionals in the field, and how anti-gay activists continue to ignore their findings. This has tremendous consequences, not just for gay men and women, but more importantly for the safety of all our children.
Straight From The Source: What the “Dutch Study” Really Says About Gay Couples
Anti-gay activists often cite the “Dutch Study” to claim that gay unions last only about 1½ years and that the these men have an average of eight additional partners per year outside of their steady relationship. In this report, we will take you step by step into the study to see whether the claims are true.
The FRC’s Briefs Are Showing
Tony Perkins’ Family Research Council submitted an Amicus Brief to the Maryland Court of Appeals as that court prepared to consider the issue of gay marriage. We examine just one small section of that brief to reveal the junk science and fraudulent claims of the Family “Research” Council.
Review: The Gay Report
When Karla Jay and Allan Young published The Gay Report in 1979, it quickly a favorite source of statistics for many anti-gay extremists. But before you accepts these statistic at face value, you should examine the inner workings of this survey very carefully. What you learn might surprise you.
Daniel Fetty Doesn’t Count
The FBI’s annual Hate Crime Statistics aren’t as complete as they ought to be, and their report for 2004 was no exception. In fact, their most recent report has quite a few glaring holes. Holes big enough for Daniel Fetty to fall through.
Carlo
November 3rd, 2011 | LINK
Link to the story?
Pete
November 3rd, 2011 | LINK
Story can be found here: http://www.windycitymediagroup.com/gay/lesbian/news/ARTICLE.php?AID=34523
Nathan
November 3rd, 2011 | LINK
Sounds typical
Timothy Kincaid
November 3rd, 2011 | LINK
Ooops. Sorry. Link added.
Regan DuCasse
November 3rd, 2011 | LINK
Thanks for the links, guys. What a cute couple!
Ridiculous. Forget BACK of the bus, can’t be on the bus at all!
WTF?!
Two young men are doing something that young people SHOULD be doing. Showing their happiness and love for somebody.
Considering all the violence, and meanness out in these streets, someone can take the time out of their busy day to show how much they disapprove of love.
I remember an uncaptioned photo that was shown on a lot of blogs with an unidentified pair of young black men just like this.
But their pose was as a couple, with one leaning in on the lap of the other, and his companion with his arm affectionately around him.
I thought it sweet. One of those pictures that said a thousand words.
And folks, as I work in the crime scene photo lab, sorting through all kinds of pictures that tell me how unbelievably cruel, violent, stupid and disrespectful people can be, I LOVE pictures of young people being loving and good to each other.
What’s the harm in these young men? I bet if they’d been a pair of gang members that driver wouldn’t have even left his seat.
PFFFT!
WMDKitty
November 4th, 2011 | LINK
Umm… wait. What.
Seriously?
Since when is it a crime to show love and affection for your partner (of any sex/gender/orientation)? I’d rather see people happy, loving, and affectionate than see them angry, hurting, and violent.
With all the negativity and violence in the world, some of it displayed on that very bus, people… object to loving affection?
I don’t “get” it.
Joe In California
November 4th, 2011 | LINK
There are too many bus drivers out of work. I suggest the bus company get a new driver right quick! Of course an apology is in order.
Regan DuCasse
November 4th, 2011 | LINK
Actually, those two young men have beautiful smiles. I can imagine those smiles lighting up a room.
We surely need more people around who can smile like that, and spread the joy.
What IS the harm in that?!
Tone
November 5th, 2011 | LINK
It depends on the context and the degree of affection being demonstrated. I don’t care for any couple being overly demonstrative in public. A greeting kiss is fine, and hold hands as much and as tightly as you want, but beyond that please take your affection behind closed doors.
Regan DuCasse
November 5th, 2011 | LINK
Hi Tone: I agree with you. But I think it’s fair to say that young gay people know and are sensible enough not to do anything beyond what you described. Men have gotten killed for showing casual affection for each other.
I think it’s fair to say that the affection between these two was at the level of tenderly casual.
In fact, I’ve seen social experiments done on television where casual affection between same sex couples had people calling 911.
What any NORMAL person would consider casual affection, displaying a tiny rainbow pin, or simply saying you’re gay, shouldn’t garner ANY kind of response.
But to a committed anti gay person, NORMAL behavior is construed as anything from terrorism, to a rape.
And these people express their complaints about gay folks without a hint of irony, hypocrisy, contradiction or just plain insanity.
Jerry
November 7th, 2011 | LINK
I hope they got the name of the str8 couple kissing on the bus and the name of the bus driver or his badge number.
If our only option is to sue, we will keep suing and if it eventually bankrupts a few jurisdictions, maybe people will finally wake up.
Coxhere
November 11th, 2011 | LINK
The two young men with the beautiful smiles and love for each other THREATEN traditionally bullying families. America cannot afford these kinds of abominable men on American public conveyances. This is a very religious country! What if an impressionable, little child saw this???? Why, the little, vulnerable baby might get the wrong idea and start accepting such perversion of our Wholly Buy Bull.
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