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Writer, Gay Activist Paul Varnell Died

Jim Burroway

December 11th, 2011

Paul Varnell (Photo by Rex Wockner)

I learned of his death Friday evening, but wanted to wait until there was a more complete obituary available, appropriately at Windy City Times where he was a columnist in the 1990s. He left WCT in 1999 to start Chicago Free Press, and remained there until 2009, just before the paper folded.

Journalist Rex Wockner remembers trying to marry Paul at one point:

“He and I, as a journalistic exercise, tried to get a marriage license in Cook County in 1989. And when rebuffed, we filed human-rights complaints with the city and the state. We lost. We claimed sex discrimination but they told us it was sexual-orientation discrimination and that that wasn’t illegal at that time in Illinois. The Sun-Times made a big story of our little effort. We turned down an invite to appear on Oprah. I suppose everyone is unique, but Paul was unlike anyone I’ve ever known. I think it was the degree of his independence and the degree of his self-sufficiency that stood out. He had very specific ideas about how he wanted to live his life—and that is exactly how he lived it, each day and without compromise.”

Paul’s interests were many:

“Paul was a man of many and varied interests. He could discourse with equal facility about the philosophy of Friedrich Hayek or the latest superhero comic books. He could review a book of art photography, describe an opera recording or analyze the latest public-opinion data about issues of concern to the gay community.

“I always appreciated his annual articles about the survey of entering freshmen into U.S. colleges and universities. Nobody but Paul was able to discern sometimes subtle trends in those polls, often portending monumental changes in attitudes toward gay men and lesbians. Today’s greater acceptance of ideas about equal marriage rights and the end of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell were visible to Paul years ago in those freshmen surveys, but other researchers and journalists, looking at other questions and concerned about other issues, didn’t see the trends.”

I never met Paul, having only gotten to know him via a listserve. He was, as described in the obituary, a curmudgeon, but he also had a quiet generosity about him. When I was just getting this web site off the ground, he mentioned that he enjoyed this satire I had written and contributed one of his own for me to publish, “Origins of Heterosexuality”.

Paul had been ill for the past three years following a stroke and pneumonia. There are no plans for a memorial, but donations can be made in his name to the Howard Brown Health Center.

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Ray Harwick
December 12th, 2011 | LINK

The Heterosexual Agenda was a masterpiece but so was How To Write An Anti-Gay Tract in 15 Easy Steps. With the Tract, I actually had to send it to the Palm Springs local newspaper so they’d understand that one of their bloggers was using the *exact* technique the tract describes to produce his truthy anti-gay blogs. They jettisoned him once they got the secret key.

In fact, I always thought that blogger got his idea for how to produce his seemingly fire-proof blogs from the 15 Steps satire you wrote, Jim.

He had properly formatted footnotes and everything, but when you clicked a linked footnote, it always resolved to an “error” page.

Varnell’s satire is really excellent, too. I read many satires of this type over the years these at BTB are amazingly well done; top of the heap, I think.

Theo
December 12th, 2011 | LINK

“I have no quarrel with various sorts of ‘trans’ people and I wish them well. But I cannot see any justifiable grounds for their inclusion in the gay movement or in the acronym LGBT. Transpeople have different issues from gays and it is important to keep those distinctions in mind.”

Varnell was a smart man.

Donny D.
December 14th, 2011 | LINK

Clearly, Varnell was a (very) smart man with a stupid prejudice.

Priya Lynn
December 14th, 2011 | LINK

“I have no quarrel with various sorts of ‘trans’ people and I wish them well. But I cannot see any justifiable grounds for their inclusion in the gay movement or in the acronym LGBT. Transpeople have different issues from gays and it is important to keep those distinctions in mind.”

He was well aware of the justifiable grounds for inclusion, he just didn’t want to acknowledge them.

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