The Daily Agenda for Wednesday, May 22
House of Commons officially passes marriage equality
British Commons Approves Marriage Equality Bill
Email address of Attorney General prosecuting 18 year old Florida lesbian
Gay Man's Murder Sparks Massive Rally
The Daily Agenda for Tuesday, May 21
Connecticut Scouts simply announce that they are accepting gay scout leaders
Church of Scotland allows ministers in relationship
Featured Reports
What Are Little Boys Made Of?
In this original BTB Investigation, we unveil the tragic story of Kirk Murphy, a four-year-old boy who was treated for “cross-gender disturbance” in 1970 by a young grad student by the name of George Rekers. This story is a stark reminder that there are severe and damaging consequences when therapists try to ensure that boys will be boys.
Slouching Towards Kampala: Uganda’s Deadly Embrace of Hate
When we first reported on three American anti-gay activists traveling to Kampala for a three-day conference, we had no idea that it would be the first report of a long string of events leading to a proposal to institute the death penalty for LGBT people. But that is exactly what happened. In this report, we review our collection of more than 500 posts to tell the story of one nation’s embrace of hatred toward gay people. This report will be updated continuously as events continue to unfold. Check here for the latest updates.
David Benkof: Behind the Mask
At first glance, David Benkof appears to be a young gay man who believes that same-sex marriage will damage the institution of marriage, that there are better options for gay couples than marriage, that the community should join him in prioritizing other more pressing issues, and that the marriage discussion is harming the efforts of gay couples in red states to get recognition for their unions. He also claims that he’s a gay columnist, that he speaks for an influential collection of gay thinkers, and that he is part of the gay and lesbian community and that he shares our goals and dreams. But none of that is true.
“Repeat After Me”: The Reparative Therapy Echo Chamber
The April 2008 edition of the pay-to-publish vanity journal Psychological Reports featured a new report from NARTH. Written by NARTH president A. Dean Byrd, past president Joseph Nicolosi, and Richard W. Potts, the report carries the unwieldy but self-descriptive title, “Clients perceptions of how reorientation therapy and self-help can promote changes in sexual orientation.” While the title describes what the authors meant to show — how clients describe the benefits of reparative therapy — the report itself actually illustrates something very different: the ex-gay movement’s remarkable ability to instill an almost robot-like parroting of ex-gay rhetoric among their clients.
Testing the Premise: Is MRSA The New Gay Plague?
The Toronto Star said that a new study “discover[ed] a new strain” of a super-bug “hitting gay men.” Headlines in Britain screamed, “Flesh-eating bug strikes San Francisco’s gay community,” and anti-gay extremists across America spread the alarm that gays were introducing another plague into “the general population.” But there was a small problem with all of this: None of it is true!
Paul Cameron’s World
In 2005, the Southern Poverty Law Center wrote that “[Paul] Cameron’s ‘science’ echoes Nazi Germany.” What the SPLC didn”t know was Cameron doesn’t just “echo” Nazi Germany. He quoted extensively from one of the Final Solution’s architects. This puts his fascination with quarantines, mandatory tattoos, and extermination being a “plausible idea” in a whole new and deeply disturbing light.
From the Inside: Focus on the Family’s “Love Won Out”
On February 10, I attended an all-day “Love Won Out” ex-gay conference in Phoenix, put on by Focus on the Family and Exodus International. In this series of reports, I talk about what I learned there: the people who go to these conferences, the things that they hear, and what this all means for them, their families and for the rest of us.
Prologue: Why I Went To “Love Won Out”
Part 1: What’s Love Got To Do With It?
Part 2: Parents Struggle With “No Exceptions”
Part 3: A Whole New Dialect
Part 4: It Depends On How The Meaning of the Word "Change" Changes
Part 5: A Candid Explanation For "Change"
The Heterosexual Agenda: Exposing The Myths
At last, the truth can now be told.
Using the same research methods employed by most anti-gay political pressure groups, we examine the statistics and the case studies that dispel many of the myths about heterosexuality. Download your copy today!
And don't miss our companion report, How To Write An Anti-Gay Tract In Fifteen Easy Steps.
Testing The Premise: Are Gays A Threat To Our Children?
Anti-gay activists often charge that gay men and women pose a threat to children. In this report, we explore the supposed connection between homosexuality and child sexual abuse, the conclusions reached by the most knowledgeable professionals in the field, and how anti-gay activists continue to ignore their findings. This has tremendous consequences, not just for gay men and women, but more importantly for the safety of all our children.
Straight From The Source: What the “Dutch Study” Really Says About Gay Couples
Anti-gay activists often cite the “Dutch Study” to claim that gay unions last only about 1½ years and that the these men have an average of eight additional partners per year outside of their steady relationship. In this report, we will take you step by step into the study to see whether the claims are true.
The FRC’s Briefs Are Showing
Tony Perkins’ Family Research Council submitted an Amicus Brief to the Maryland Court of Appeals as that court prepared to consider the issue of gay marriage. We examine just one small section of that brief to reveal the junk science and fraudulent claims of the Family “Research” Council.
Review: The Gay Report
When Karla Jay and Allan Young published The Gay Report in 1979, it quickly a favorite source of statistics for many anti-gay extremists. But before you accepts these statistic at face value, you should examine the inner workings of this survey very carefully. What you learn might surprise you.
Daniel Fetty Doesn’t Count
The FBI’s annual Hate Crime Statistics aren’t as complete as they ought to be, and their report for 2004 was no exception. In fact, their most recent report has quite a few glaring holes. Holes big enough for Daniel Fetty to fall through.
Regan DuCasse
August 15th, 2012 | LINK
Regardless how many gay people have been murdered, abused by a parent, teacher, police officer…or court system.
No matter how difficult justice has eluded the victims, or frustrated us in courts, legislatures and the White House…
The spirit of response, has essentially been non violent, and non reciprocal.
If our response is passionate, angry, pained, frustrated, we are looked on as if none of these are legitimate, or tolerant or needed.
As if it is wrong to shout AT injustice, or rage AT violence, or shed tears.
As if gay people are not human, and human emotions will give us away as such.
None of our detractors has ever really appreciated just how much patience, compassion, non violence and respect for the law we’ve employed.
Even when we couldn’t bury our dead in peace, nor grieve for gay children as if it was the gay community that killed them.
This shooting is literally a rare anomoly. No fatalities, no mass casualties. I have wondered so long, why this never happened sooner, nor how certain kinds of grief didn’t turn to reciprocal madness.
I can understand why it’s never happened, but Tony Perkins and his ilk won’t.
Because even a gay person crying out for reason, and justice, is looked on with condescension, and as if there is no anguish there. And protest on the part of gay people, is unreasonable.
We’ve NEVER tolerated violence. At worst, glitter bombs, shouting matches, stealing lawn signs. Perhaps even angry diatribes at fast food counter persons.
We will denounce this, and the ONE responsible, will be found and held accountable.
Despite this, the only tragedy is that it’s come to this. But no tragedy in the sense WE have endured tragedy, did not occur.
Blake
August 15th, 2012 | LINK
Jeeze-o-pete… the propagandists are going to have a field day with this. I’m glad to see the FBI investigate this as an act of terrorism (because that’s what it is if the news report holds up), but they really should be proactive about countering the propaganda that’s going to come out. Remember how the propagandists crowed a rock through a door?
Mark F.
August 15th, 2012 | LINK
Horrible, but I’m glad nobody was killed. A “get well soon” bouquet or card for the gentlemen would be a nice gesture for anyone so inclined.
TampaZeke
August 15th, 2012 | LINK
“Darkness cannot drive away darkness, only light. Hate multiplies hate…” was actually a quote of the Buddha 2600 years before MLK Jr. He also said most of the words attributed to Jesus but he said them 600 years earlier.
Timothy Kincaid
August 15th, 2012 | LINK
Zeke,
I doubt Jesus was familiar with the words of the Buddha or was plagiarizing. But I do believe that great spiritual leaders have, over the history of humanity, often called out the same message.
The sad sad truth is that they had to. Repeatedly. In diverse cultures and over centuries.
Blake
August 15th, 2012 | LINK
Ugh… WND’s headline is “Shooting Erupts at Family Research Council”
just wait until they get news of the motive… I hope hope hope the shooter was there for other reasons than our issues.
Priya Lynn
August 15th, 2012 | LINK
Jesus was a fabrication and the writers attributed words of philosophers from Buddha to Aesop to him.
jerry
August 15th, 2012 | LINK
I am sorry that the security guard was injured for any reason. The man was simply doing a job he was hired to do. My question is why an organization that claims to be one promoting family values needs a security guard. It doesn’t appear to me that they are any values decent people will accept.
jerry
August 15th, 2012 | LINK
Thank you, Priya Lynn.
Ryan
August 15th, 2012 | LINK
Thankfully, no one was killed. There’s been far too many shootings, lately. As for Fischer, Porno Pete, etc al making hay out of this; well of course, they will. It’s what they do. It’s all they have. We can really only pity them at this point.
Chuck
August 15th, 2012 | LINK
*shakes head*
We’re on a downward spiral.
Chuck
August 15th, 2012 | LINK
Someone should start a kick-starter to help pay for this guy’s hospital bills or something.
Joseph Singer
August 15th, 2012 | LINK
Or it could be a publicity stunt cooked up by FRC. I wouldn’t put it past them.
TampaZeke
August 15th, 2012 | LINK
Priya Lynn is right.
And actually Timothy, not to wander too off topic but the people of Palestine and Egypt were VERY aware of the Buddha’s words in the first centuries BCE and CE thanks to the Greeks who had largely converted to Buddhism by that time. It was the Greeks who were responsible for depicting the Buddha in statuary, complete with the top knot of Apollo. Christianity is very clearly a melding of Buddhist philosophy with the Horace myth of Egypt. “Jesus” was almost certainly metaphorical. Even his disciples names were taken directly from the names of the Buddha’s disciples.
Andrew
August 15th, 2012 | LINK
Man, it just feels like people all over are being pushed to the breaking point. The lack of decency in political discourse – and let’s be frank, it’s by vast majority coming from the right – has agitated anyone with a couple of loose screws… but all of us have to live in the wake of it.
Blake
August 15th, 2012 | LINK
Woah Zeke, you might want to double check history on that one.
Timothy Kincaid
August 15th, 2012 | LINK
Priya Lynn, Zeke, Blake,
Let’s get back on track, okay? Obviously there are a number of opinions about the historicity of Jesus (though I’d not heard that one before) and we could go on for ever on that, but let’s not do that here.
Truthspew
August 15th, 2012 | LINK
[Truthspew's comments were beyond the pale and in gross violation of our comments policy. He has been placed on moderation. - JB]
Ryan
August 15th, 2012 | LINK
Truthspew, you’re either a despicable troll or someone who needs psychiatric help. Either way, please go away. In other news, NOM has wasted no time lying about the FRC, claiming the shooting happened because the SPLC called them a hate group and the only reason it did that was because the FRC opposes “traditional marriage”. Even though NOM itself opposes gay marriage and is not labeled a hate group. There’s literally nothing they won’t lie about.
Ryan
August 15th, 2012 | LINK
Thanks for putting truthspew’s deleted comment back in as a blank space. Without it, I looked like s raving loon. :)
Timothy Kincaid
August 15th, 2012 | LINK
ooops… sorry, Ryan, I didn’t see your response when I deleted his message. There was no raving loonness about your response.
pax58
August 15th, 2012 | LINK
It is a reminder that we live in a very divided country right now and that some very unstable people, regardless of political views, are reacting with physcially harm to those with whom they disagree. Thanks for a well written response, we may not be able to control how those who oppose our very existence “use” this tragedy, but our community’s united condemnation of this action will be the most important thing in the long run.
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