The Daily Agenda for Friday, May 24
Boy Scouts of America Votes To Allow Gay Members, Retains Ban On Gay Leaders
Nevada House votes to reverse marriage ban
The Daily Agenda for Thursday, May 23
It's Not the Principle, It's the Prejudice
Congratulations Mitch!
Gay Couples Excluded from Immigration Bill Markup
How To Spot A Swivel-Eyed Loon
Featured Reports
What Are Little Boys Made Of?
In this original BTB Investigation, we unveil the tragic story of Kirk Murphy, a four-year-old boy who was treated for “cross-gender disturbance” in 1970 by a young grad student by the name of George Rekers. This story is a stark reminder that there are severe and damaging consequences when therapists try to ensure that boys will be boys.
Slouching Towards Kampala: Uganda’s Deadly Embrace of Hate
When we first reported on three American anti-gay activists traveling to Kampala for a three-day conference, we had no idea that it would be the first report of a long string of events leading to a proposal to institute the death penalty for LGBT people. But that is exactly what happened. In this report, we review our collection of more than 500 posts to tell the story of one nation’s embrace of hatred toward gay people. This report will be updated continuously as events continue to unfold. Check here for the latest updates.
David Benkof: Behind the Mask
At first glance, David Benkof appears to be a young gay man who believes that same-sex marriage will damage the institution of marriage, that there are better options for gay couples than marriage, that the community should join him in prioritizing other more pressing issues, and that the marriage discussion is harming the efforts of gay couples in red states to get recognition for their unions. He also claims that he’s a gay columnist, that he speaks for an influential collection of gay thinkers, and that he is part of the gay and lesbian community and that he shares our goals and dreams. But none of that is true.
“Repeat After Me”: The Reparative Therapy Echo Chamber
The April 2008 edition of the pay-to-publish vanity journal Psychological Reports featured a new report from NARTH. Written by NARTH president A. Dean Byrd, past president Joseph Nicolosi, and Richard W. Potts, the report carries the unwieldy but self-descriptive title, “Clients perceptions of how reorientation therapy and self-help can promote changes in sexual orientation.” While the title describes what the authors meant to show — how clients describe the benefits of reparative therapy — the report itself actually illustrates something very different: the ex-gay movement’s remarkable ability to instill an almost robot-like parroting of ex-gay rhetoric among their clients.
Testing the Premise: Is MRSA The New Gay Plague?
The Toronto Star said that a new study “discover[ed] a new strain” of a super-bug “hitting gay men.” Headlines in Britain screamed, “Flesh-eating bug strikes San Francisco’s gay community,” and anti-gay extremists across America spread the alarm that gays were introducing another plague into “the general population.” But there was a small problem with all of this: None of it is true!
Paul Cameron’s World
In 2005, the Southern Poverty Law Center wrote that “[Paul] Cameron’s ‘science’ echoes Nazi Germany.” What the SPLC didn”t know was Cameron doesn’t just “echo” Nazi Germany. He quoted extensively from one of the Final Solution’s architects. This puts his fascination with quarantines, mandatory tattoos, and extermination being a “plausible idea” in a whole new and deeply disturbing light.
From the Inside: Focus on the Family’s “Love Won Out”
On February 10, I attended an all-day “Love Won Out” ex-gay conference in Phoenix, put on by Focus on the Family and Exodus International. In this series of reports, I talk about what I learned there: the people who go to these conferences, the things that they hear, and what this all means for them, their families and for the rest of us.
Prologue: Why I Went To “Love Won Out”
Part 1: What’s Love Got To Do With It?
Part 2: Parents Struggle With “No Exceptions”
Part 3: A Whole New Dialect
Part 4: It Depends On How The Meaning of the Word "Change" Changes
Part 5: A Candid Explanation For "Change"
The Heterosexual Agenda: Exposing The Myths
At last, the truth can now be told.
Using the same research methods employed by most anti-gay political pressure groups, we examine the statistics and the case studies that dispel many of the myths about heterosexuality. Download your copy today!
And don't miss our companion report, How To Write An Anti-Gay Tract In Fifteen Easy Steps.
Testing The Premise: Are Gays A Threat To Our Children?
Anti-gay activists often charge that gay men and women pose a threat to children. In this report, we explore the supposed connection between homosexuality and child sexual abuse, the conclusions reached by the most knowledgeable professionals in the field, and how anti-gay activists continue to ignore their findings. This has tremendous consequences, not just for gay men and women, but more importantly for the safety of all our children.
Straight From The Source: What the “Dutch Study” Really Says About Gay Couples
Anti-gay activists often cite the “Dutch Study” to claim that gay unions last only about 1½ years and that the these men have an average of eight additional partners per year outside of their steady relationship. In this report, we will take you step by step into the study to see whether the claims are true.
The FRC’s Briefs Are Showing
Tony Perkins’ Family Research Council submitted an Amicus Brief to the Maryland Court of Appeals as that court prepared to consider the issue of gay marriage. We examine just one small section of that brief to reveal the junk science and fraudulent claims of the Family “Research” Council.
Review: The Gay Report
When Karla Jay and Allan Young published The Gay Report in 1979, it quickly a favorite source of statistics for many anti-gay extremists. But before you accepts these statistic at face value, you should examine the inner workings of this survey very carefully. What you learn might surprise you.
Daniel Fetty Doesn’t Count
The FBI’s annual Hate Crime Statistics aren’t as complete as they ought to be, and their report for 2004 was no exception. In fact, their most recent report has quite a few glaring holes. Holes big enough for Daniel Fetty to fall through.
Blake
September 26th, 2012 | LINK
Brilliant! Now if we could just figure out how to say all that in 15 seconds or on a billboard we might win an election…
Sandhorse
September 26th, 2012 | LINK
Ok, I’m really starting to get bugged by this.
Phrases such as the following do not help our cause:
“…will decide whether same-sex couples will be allowed to marry…”
First of all it dilutes the facts at best and boarders on hyperbole at worst.
Regardless of what happens in any of these states, same-sex couples will not be jailed or otherwise prevented from having private ceremonies. Should the worst happen, any given state just won’t recognize it. (which I agree is STILL wrong)
Don’t misunderstand me. I am 100% in the marriage equality camp. Why a tax paying same-sex couple should have to pay hundreds if not thousands for something that marginally resembles what a mixed-sex couple gets for 50 bucks is reprehensible. But overstating the facts makes us sound like ill-informed harpies.
More importantly, it’s a false statement that is not only easily refuted by our opponents, but is also distracts from the real harm caused by the anti-equality stance. That harm namely being the lack of protections for couples and their children.
This is where the battle must be met and with unflinching clarity. Clouding the issue with artificial images of same-sex couples being forcibly separated and jailed only plays into our opponents hands.
Sandhorse
September 26th, 2012 | LINK
So as not to be simply a ‘complainer’, I would suggest the proper statement should be,
‘…will decide whether same-sex couples unions will receive proper legal protections by being recognized by the state…’.
Agreeably it isn’t as catchy or ‘jaw dropping’ as the original phrase, but it ties in well with the 14th and gets the conversation started off in the right place.
Lucrece
September 26th, 2012 | LINK
You are failing to grasp the multiple meanings of marriage. You confuse the social ceremony with the legal action. In the law, getting married means going through with the contract and paperwork. Not the ceremony.
It is, in fact, not a hyperbole to say same sex couples are not allowed to be married, because in the legal application of the word they are not.
emcee_cubed
September 26th, 2012 | LINK
Sorry, Sandhorse, but your interpretation of Jim’s statement is more than a stretch. His statement, as you even quoted, was “will decide whether same-sex couples will be allowed to marry.” Nowhere in that statement does it even so much as imply that people will be jailed. There are plenty of things people “aren’t allowed” to do that won’t get them thrown in jail. Heck, there are plenty of things that are not legal that won’t actually get you thrown in jail, such as having a commitment ceremony. Having a commitment ceremony has no legal recognition, and therefore is not legal. But no, no one is going to jail for it, it just has no legal force. Just because you want to use an extremely narrow definition of “not allowed” to mean “illegal under penalty of jail”, doesn’t mean that is correct or even how the average person would read that statement.
Ben in Oakland
September 27th, 2012 | LINK
It’s interesting reading these comments, because I am more or less a one- issue voter.
But not in the sense your might think.
My belief is this: if you can’t understand that gay related issues are, for the mOst part, about prejudice, hate, fear, and ignorance, not about morals god’s will, tradition, or any of the rest of the lamer talking points, then I question your intelligence and your ability to apply critical thinking, appreciate facts, look at your experience.
And if you can’t manage these things on an issue that flat out doesn’t affect you, then what am I to think about your ability to deal with actually important issues?
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