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From the Inside: Focus on the Family’s “Love Won Out”
On February 10, I attended an all-day “Love Won Out” ex-gay conference in Phoenix, put on by Focus on the Family and Exodus International. In this series of reports, I talk about what I learned there: the people who go to these conferences, the things that they hear, and what this all means for them, their families and for the rest of us.
Prologue: Why I Went To “Love Won Out”
Part 1: What’s Love Got To Do With It?
Part 2: Parents Struggle With “No Exceptions”
Part 3: A Whole New Dialect
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Part 5: A Candid Explanation For "Change"
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occono
February 18th, 2013 | LINK
Was going to correct you but I realize what the title means now.
So, there needs to be three more cases before it’s law throughout the land? I mean, as in you can get a license anywhere in Mexico, instead of just Mexico City and so on.
Ben in Oakland
February 18th, 2013 | LINK
But….but….but…
I thought we all had the same right to marry someone of the opposite sex, no matter how meaningless to us personally, no matter how demeaning to marriage it might be for someone to get married who actually have no interest in this sacred bond.
Statements like this are enough to make you Maggie and Bobbie’s arguments aren’t worth the reliquary they arrived in.
MattNYC
February 18th, 2013 | LINK
I’m sure Maggie would be quite pissed if her time machine placed her in 1966 and she was told that she was perfectly free to marry the Caucasian of her choice and no right to marry her (Indian) hubby.
Hunter
February 19th, 2013 | LINK
Ben in Oakland: that argument, more than any other I can think of, shows what a sham the “defense of marriage” pose really is. Anyone who advances that argument is displaying contempt for the institution.
StraightGrandmother
February 19th, 2013 | LINK
But isn’t SCOTUS, The Supreme Court Of The UNITED STATES? Mexico ruled not the USA. Maybe I just didn’t get a subtly here.
Timothy Kincaid
February 19th, 2013 | LINK
SG,
That’s the irony. Mexico’s court based their ruling on the logic in Loving v Virginia and Lawrence v Texas. Looking at those cases (and seeing the inherent universality of their wisdom) it was clear to Mexico that marriage could not be denied to gay people. (They also looked at a case in Chile).
But our courts have not yet done as Mexico has done and heeded its own wisdom.
Ben in Oakland
February 19th, 2013 | LINK
My point exactly, hunter. It makes a sham of the meaning of marriage.
Richard Rush
February 19th, 2013 | LINK
Ben said, “I thought we all had the same right to marry someone of the opposite sex . . .”
That’s my very favorite argument from our opponents. While all arguments against same-sex marriage are dumb*, some are dumber* than others, and I view this as the dumbest* one of all.
I’ve always wanted to ask someone citing this argument how they would feel about their son/daughter marrying an opposite-sex homosexual person. And then, after they stumble over an answer, I’d ask them: Wouldn’t the institution of marriage benefit by the full acceptance/equality of gay people in society so that substantial numbers of them no longer felt they had to deceive an opposite-sex person into marrying them as a means of surviving in a hostile world? Wouldn’t society benefit if they married each other instead of your straight son or daughter? These are not trick-questions; it is the story of what I’ve seen repeatedly during my lifetime.
*or possibly smart/smarter/smartest from the standpoint of the argument’s perpetrators realizing that it will be persuasive among their gullible followers.
Timothy Kincaid
February 19th, 2013 | LINK
I agree that it’s among the dumbest – mostly because not only is it not true in realistic terms, it’s not true in technical terms.
The question I want to ask our opponents who make this claim is this:
“If I were to marry a foreign national woman just so she could get a green card, would that be fraud?”
And the follow up:
“In what way would marrying a foreign national woman differ from the marriage you say that I can have?”
Steve Kindle
February 19th, 2013 | LINK
There is a misquote that materially affects the argument in your report. Your statement left out the NOT. Here is how it should read.
“In connection with this analogy, it can be said that the normative power of marriage is worth little if it does not grant the possibility to marry the person one chooses.”
It’s amazing how many online sources repeated the quote without the “not.”
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