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Slouching Towards Kampala: Uganda’s Deadly Embrace of Hate
When we first reported on three American anti-gay activists traveling to Kampala for a three-day conference, we had no idea that it would be the first report of a long string of events leading to a proposal to institute the death penalty for LGBT people. But that is exactly what happened. In this report, we review our collection of more than two hundred posts to tell the story of one nation’s embrace of hatred toward gay people. This report will be updated continuously as events continue to unfold. Check here for the latest updates.
David Benkof: Behind the Mask
At first glance, David Benkof appears to be a young gay man who believes that same-sex marriage will damage the institution of marriage, that there are better options for gay couples than marriage, that the community should join him in prioritizing other more pressing issues, and that the marriage discussion is harming the efforts of gay couples in red states to get recognition for their unions. He also claims that he’s a gay columnist, that he speaks for an influential collection of gay thinkers, and that he is part of the gay and lesbian community and that he shares our goals and dreams. But none of that is true.
“Repeat After Me”: The Reparative Therapy Echo Chamber
The April 2008 edition of the pay-to-publish vanity journal Psychological Reports featured a new report from NARTH. Written by NARTH president A. Dean Byrd, past president Joseph Nicolosi, and Richard W. Potts, the report carries the unwieldy but self-descriptive title, “Clients perceptions of how reorientation therapy and self-help can promote changes in sexual orientation.” While the title describes what the authors meant to show — how clients describe the benefits of reparative therapy — the report itself actually illustrates something very different: the ex-gay movement’s remarkable ability to instill an almost robot-like parroting of ex-gay rhetoric among their clients.
Testing the Premise: Is MRSA The New Gay Plague?
The Toronto Star said that a new study “discover[ed] a new strain” of a super-bug “hitting gay men.” Headlines in Britain screamed, “Flesh-eating bug strikes San Francisco’s gay community,” and anti-gay extremists across America spread the alarm that gays were introducing another plague into “the general population.” But there was a small problem with all of this: None of it is true!
Paul Cameron’s World
In 2005, the Southern Poverty Law Center wrote that “[Paul] Cameron’s ‘science’ echoes Nazi Germany.” What the SPLC didn”t know was Cameron doesn’t just “echo” Nazi Germany. He quoted extensively from one of the Final Solution’s architects. This puts his fascination with quarantines, mandatory tattoos, and extermination being a “plausible idea” in a whole new and deeply disturbing light.
From the Inside: Focus on the Family’s “Love Won Out”
On February 10, I attended an all-day “Love Won Out” ex-gay conference in Phoenix, put on by Focus on the Family and Exodus International. In this series of reports, I talk about what I learned there: the people who go to these conferences, the things that they hear, and what this all means for them, their families and for the rest of us.
Prologue: Why I Went To “Love Won Out”
Part 1: What’s Love Got To Do With It?
Part 2: Parents Struggle With “No Exceptions”
Part 3: A Whole New Dialect
Part 4: It Depends On How The Meaning of the Word "Change" Changes
Part 5: A Candid Explanation For "Change"
The Heterosexual Agenda: Exposing The Myths
At last, the truth can now be told.
Using the same research methods employed by most anti-gay political pressure groups, we examine the statistics and the case studies that dispel many of the myths about heterosexuality. Download your copy today!
And don't miss our companion report, How To Write An Anti-Gay Tract In Fifteen Easy Steps.
Testing The Premise: Are Gays A Threat To Our Children?
Anti-gay activists often charge that gay men and women pose a threat to children. In this report, we explore the supposed connection between homosexuality and child sexual abuse, the conclusions reached by the most knowledgeable professionals in the field, and how anti-gay activists continue to ignore their findings. This has tremendous consequences, not just for gay men and women, but more importantly for the safety of all our children.
Straight From The Source: What the “Dutch Study” Really Says About Gay Couples
Anti-gay activists often cite the “Dutch Study” to claim that gay unions last only about 1½ years and that the these men have an average of eight additional partners per year outside of their steady relationship. In this report, we will take you step by step into the study to see whether the claims are true.
The FRC’s Briefs Are Showing
Tony Perkins’ Family Research Council submitted an Amicus Brief to the Maryland Court of Appeals as that court prepared to consider the issue of gay marriage. We examine just one small section of that brief to reveal the junk science and fraudulent claims of the Family “Research” Council.
Review: The Gay Report
When Karla Jay and Allan Young published The Gay Report in 1979, it quickly a favorite source of statistics for many anti-gay extremists. But before you accepts these statistic at face value, you should examine the inner workings of this survey very carefully. What you learn might surprise you.
Daniel Fetty Doesn’t Count
The FBI’s annual Hate Crime Statistics aren’t as complete as they ought to be, and their report for 2004 was no exception. In fact, their most recent report has quite a few glaring holes. Holes big enough for Daniel Fetty to fall through.
Scott
April 25th, 2008 | LINK
Go for her Jim, just don’t be surprised if she starts screaming “PUT YOUR PENIS IN MY A***OLE”
I’ve heard her say it before, I think she wants to say it to you.
Emily K
April 25th, 2008 | LINK
“can these homosexual men succeed at being silent for one day?”
How about on the Day of Silence?
Emily K
April 25th, 2008 | LINK
What I meant to say was, it sounds like there’s actually finally a conservative fundie christian supporter of the Day of Silence. And it’s stacy harp. Ironic!
David Malcolm
April 25th, 2008 | LINK
Well, she may be crazy, but at least she knows a good looking man when she sees him ;)
Joe Brummer
April 25th, 2008 | LINK
Yeah, it is all fun and love till she calls you and wants to tape the call. Then just watch out!
Stacy Harp
April 25th, 2008 | LINK
Yup, you’re right David, I do know a good looking man when I see ‘em and my husband Randall of 16 years takes the cake above all the good looking guys here :)
Yes, even Jim, as handsome as he is.
Stacy Harp
April 25th, 2008 | LINK
Joe, I was just showing you how to do it :)
Go ahead, pick up a phone and call a girl, see what happens…. LOL
a. mcewen
April 25th, 2008 | LINK
If I picked up a phone and called a girl, it would be to ask her about a cute guy.
Joel
April 25th, 2008 | LINK
LOL STACEY IS SO FUNNY.
I love how adamant absolute truthers(in the most biased of ways) go around spreading their witty remarks. I guess its better than to hear them ‘reason’.
PiaSharn
April 25th, 2008 | LINK
Actually, I’m pretty sure that I have seen days when there were no updates to this site. If there’s no news to report, then there will be times when neither Jim, Dan, nor Tim will post any entries.
So to respond to Stacy: Yes, the authors of this site can succeed in not posting anything for a day.
Besides, the Day of Silence is about not talking, it isn’t about not communicating. Unless you talk aloud as you type, it’s completely possible to post a blog entry and still honor the Day of Silence.
Joe Brummer
April 25th, 2008 | LINK
I am sorry Stacy but I don’t get your comment. Are you saying that if I just trying calling a girl something will happen? and would you be willing to tell me just what would happen and what girl am I suppose to call?
John
April 25th, 2008 | LINK
Joe,
After listening to Stacy’s call to you, I really wouldn’t take any advice from her about making phone calls that lead to any positive outcomes.
Now, if you wanted tips on how to harrass or otherwise annoy people via phone, Stacy is definitely your gal…
Jim Burroway
April 25th, 2008 | LINK
Sorry… I’m already spoken for ;-)
Scott
April 25th, 2008 | LINK
Stacy is a call girl? What? I missed something.
KipEsquire
April 26th, 2008 | LINK
First JB, then JH at G-A-Y and now you guys?
I’m getting jealous — why doesn’t she want to harrass me?
Guess I’m not cute enough. =/
Liberal_Avenger
April 26th, 2008 | LINK
Having just listened to the call you had with Stacy, you have to wonder about the intellectual abilities of someone who so clearly cannot tell the difference between “sex” and “sexuality”.
It really was cringe-worthy listening. The poor thing kept repeating the same statements over and over again.
You would think, as she was calling you, she would have prepared for the call with some basic research. Apparently not.
Such a sad individual, she is.
Jason D
April 26th, 2008 | LINK
Kip you’re probably lucky. You certainly don’t want her picking up the phone to call you, you’d never get a word in edgewise.
John
April 26th, 2008 | LINK
Surely Ms. Harp isn’t advocating deceiving some poor woman into thinking a gay man will fall for her if only they both just try hard enough? At least she has good taste in men. ;-)
Regan DuCasse
April 26th, 2008 | LINK
Stacy, Stacy, Stacy…no one asked you for advice or suggestions. You’re no expert on gay folks than you are on being a black person.
Would you lecture someone black on who is best for them to call or what’s the best way to behave? The legacy of straight advice givers on what kind of love to have or calls to make is ABYSMAL.
To say nothing of cheeky as all get out.
I dare ya Ms. Harp…go ahead, tell me again how I’m to blame for racism the way you blame gay folks for homophobia.
David Roberts
April 27th, 2008 | LINK
“I’m getting jealous — why doesn’t she want to harrass me?”
Probably because you don’t talk to her all the time. For Pete’s sake people, stop feeding the animals and they will stop following you home.
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