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What Are Little Boys Made Of?
In this original BTB Investigation, we unveil the tragic story of Kirk Murphy, a four-year-old boy who was treated for “cross-gender disturbance” in 1970 by a young grad student by the name of George Rekers. This story is a stark reminder that there are severe and damaging consequences when therapists try to ensure that boys will be boys.
Slouching Towards Kampala: Uganda’s Deadly Embrace of Hate
When we first reported on three American anti-gay activists traveling to Kampala for a three-day conference, we had no idea that it would be the first report of a long string of events leading to a proposal to institute the death penalty for LGBT people. But that is exactly what happened. In this report, we review our collection of more than 500 posts to tell the story of one nation’s embrace of hatred toward gay people. This report will be updated continuously as events continue to unfold. Check here for the latest updates.
David Benkof: Behind the Mask
At first glance, David Benkof appears to be a young gay man who believes that same-sex marriage will damage the institution of marriage, that there are better options for gay couples than marriage, that the community should join him in prioritizing other more pressing issues, and that the marriage discussion is harming the efforts of gay couples in red states to get recognition for their unions. He also claims that he’s a gay columnist, that he speaks for an influential collection of gay thinkers, and that he is part of the gay and lesbian community and that he shares our goals and dreams. But none of that is true.
“Repeat After Me”: The Reparative Therapy Echo Chamber
The April 2008 edition of the pay-to-publish vanity journal Psychological Reports featured a new report from NARTH. Written by NARTH president A. Dean Byrd, past president Joseph Nicolosi, and Richard W. Potts, the report carries the unwieldy but self-descriptive title, “Clients perceptions of how reorientation therapy and self-help can promote changes in sexual orientation.” While the title describes what the authors meant to show — how clients describe the benefits of reparative therapy — the report itself actually illustrates something very different: the ex-gay movement’s remarkable ability to instill an almost robot-like parroting of ex-gay rhetoric among their clients.
Testing the Premise: Is MRSA The New Gay Plague?
The Toronto Star said that a new study “discover[ed] a new strain” of a super-bug “hitting gay men.” Headlines in Britain screamed, “Flesh-eating bug strikes San Francisco’s gay community,” and anti-gay extremists across America spread the alarm that gays were introducing another plague into “the general population.” But there was a small problem with all of this: None of it is true!
Paul Cameron’s World
In 2005, the Southern Poverty Law Center wrote that “[Paul] Cameron’s ‘science’ echoes Nazi Germany.” What the SPLC didn”t know was Cameron doesn’t just “echo” Nazi Germany. He quoted extensively from one of the Final Solution’s architects. This puts his fascination with quarantines, mandatory tattoos, and extermination being a “plausible idea” in a whole new and deeply disturbing light.
From the Inside: Focus on the Family’s “Love Won Out”
On February 10, I attended an all-day “Love Won Out” ex-gay conference in Phoenix, put on by Focus on the Family and Exodus International. In this series of reports, I talk about what I learned there: the people who go to these conferences, the things that they hear, and what this all means for them, their families and for the rest of us.
Prologue: Why I Went To “Love Won Out”
Part 1: What’s Love Got To Do With It?
Part 2: Parents Struggle With “No Exceptions”
Part 3: A Whole New Dialect
Part 4: It Depends On How The Meaning of the Word "Change" Changes
Part 5: A Candid Explanation For "Change"
The Heterosexual Agenda: Exposing The Myths
At last, the truth can now be told.
Using the same research methods employed by most anti-gay political pressure groups, we examine the statistics and the case studies that dispel many of the myths about heterosexuality. Download your copy today!
And don't miss our companion report, How To Write An Anti-Gay Tract In Fifteen Easy Steps.
Testing The Premise: Are Gays A Threat To Our Children?
Anti-gay activists often charge that gay men and women pose a threat to children. In this report, we explore the supposed connection between homosexuality and child sexual abuse, the conclusions reached by the most knowledgeable professionals in the field, and how anti-gay activists continue to ignore their findings. This has tremendous consequences, not just for gay men and women, but more importantly for the safety of all our children.
Straight From The Source: What the “Dutch Study” Really Says About Gay Couples
Anti-gay activists often cite the “Dutch Study” to claim that gay unions last only about 1½ years and that the these men have an average of eight additional partners per year outside of their steady relationship. In this report, we will take you step by step into the study to see whether the claims are true.
The FRC’s Briefs Are Showing
Tony Perkins’ Family Research Council submitted an Amicus Brief to the Maryland Court of Appeals as that court prepared to consider the issue of gay marriage. We examine just one small section of that brief to reveal the junk science and fraudulent claims of the Family “Research” Council.
Review: The Gay Report
When Karla Jay and Allan Young published The Gay Report in 1979, it quickly a favorite source of statistics for many anti-gay extremists. But before you accepts these statistic at face value, you should examine the inner workings of this survey very carefully. What you learn might surprise you.
Daniel Fetty Doesn’t Count
The FBI’s annual Hate Crime Statistics aren’t as complete as they ought to be, and their report for 2004 was no exception. In fact, their most recent report has quite a few glaring holes. Holes big enough for Daniel Fetty to fall through.
elaygee
December 16th, 2008 | LINK
You’d think that their almighty god would protect them from such evil doers, betcha?
HappyCat
December 16th, 2008 | LINK
Blame Teh Gays. Why not? We must be one powerful group to cause wild fires, hurricanes, tornados, flash floods, you name it.
I don’t want churches burnt down, I want them taxed and a burnt down church doesn’t have much taxable value.
Jarred
December 16th, 2008 | LINK
I echo your sentiments about both the church’s efforts to rebuild and that the perpetrator(s) be brought to justice quickly.
Rick
December 16th, 2008 | LINK
Would this make the national news if it had not been Sarah Palin’s church?
David
December 16th, 2008 | LINK
“Would this make the national news if it had not been Sarah Palin’s church?”
No. Over the years, several MCC’s (a GLBTQ denomination) have been targeted by arsonists, without hardly a ripple in the press.
Timothy Kincaid
December 16th, 2008 | LINK
We do not know if this arson and attempted murder was actually perpetrated by Eugene Delgaudio himself, but it follows his countless other recent attacks.
Delgaudio is my first suspect. He’s just the type to do it. Rumor (which I’m starting right now) says that he’s an arsonist with a long history of burning down churches. And I’m suspicious that he may have recently flown to Alaska.
So I’m not saying it’s true that Delgaudio personally struck the match but this certainly seems like what he’d do. Hint hint.
REALITY CHECK
OK. Of course I don’t really think that Delgaudio did this. In fact I would be downright shocked.
But his evidence against gays is no greater than I have against him. It’s just false accusation disguized as speculation intended to demonize gay folk for the advancement of Delgaudio’s personal, religious, and political goals.
This is exactly what is forbidden by the ninth commandment: You shall not bear false witness against your neighbour.
AJD
December 16th, 2008 | LINK
First we get blamed for the white powder and burned Book of Mormon, and now we’re being blamed for this.
Even if it’s entirely possible that a disgruntled gay person is behind each of these incidents, no suspects have been arrested and no convictions have been made.
I recall from my experience in crime reporting that you should never convict someone in print. If the Becket Fund and Delgaudio were making these accusations against named individuals, they could be sued for libel.
John
December 16th, 2008 | LINK
Putting accelerant in exits may be just continuing to pour the gasoline as you are walking out the building, but it also really raises the issue of trying to kill people. It seems like a big building, but if you are going to commit a crime that could land you in jail for the rest of your life, you would probably survey the parking lot and see if anyone is there.
Where I am leading with this is that it is very suspicious for the perpetrators actually trying to hurt or kill people. For that kind of anger, I would look closer to home for a person or people with a real grudge either against the church or one of the people who was in the church when it started burning.
It doesn’t sound like the local authorities are chasing after mythical gay fire bombing terrorists, but instead following the clues wherever they lead. I hope they catch the criminal(s). All too often these sorts of crimes go unsolved.
SharonB
December 16th, 2008 | LINK
Any financial difficulties at the church? Anyone embezzling funds? Any disgruntled former members?
Why is teh gay always the first suspect to these haters?
John
December 16th, 2008 | LINK
Apparently Mr. Delgaudio has forgotten one of the Right’s biggest complaints against the Left since at least the Clarence Thomas hearings. The following quote came from some Democrat during that time, or so I’ve heard:
“The nature of the evidence is irrelevant; it’s the seriousness of the charge that matters”.
Hypocrisy, Mr. Delgaudio? Naaaaaaah of course not! /sarc
Well gee, I can think of at least two more just-as-plausible scenarios using Mr. Delgaudio’s tissue-paper thin standard of evidence:
“We do not know if this arson and attempted murder was perpetrated by angry Republicans blaming Palin for Obama winning the presidency, but the former Veep candidate has been the target of verbal attacks by the many Republicans (all dastardly liberal RINOs of course) and their apologists in the major media.”
AND…
“We do not know if this arson and attempted murder was perpetrated by Eugene Delgaudio, seeking to mislead the general public by lying and placing the blame on gays in order to generate sympathy for his own bigoted agenda.”
Jack
December 18th, 2008 | LINK
Well, we did cause the tsunami and 9-11, a little fire isn’t out of our power scope… :)
I thought we were innocent until proven guilty. Has any gays stepped up to these charges?
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