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Featured Reports
What Are Little Boys Made Of?
In this original BTB Investigation, we unveil the tragic story of Kirk Murphy, a four-year-old boy who was treated for “cross-gender disturbance” in 1970 by a young grad student by the name of George Rekers. This story is a stark reminder that there are severe and damaging consequences when therapists try to ensure that boys will be boys.
Slouching Towards Kampala: Uganda’s Deadly Embrace of Hate
When we first reported on three American anti-gay activists traveling to Kampala for a three-day conference, we had no idea that it would be the first report of a long string of events leading to a proposal to institute the death penalty for LGBT people. But that is exactly what happened. In this report, we review our collection of more than 500 posts to tell the story of one nation’s embrace of hatred toward gay people. This report will be updated continuously as events continue to unfold. Check here for the latest updates.
David Benkof: Behind the Mask
At first glance, David Benkof appears to be a young gay man who believes that same-sex marriage will damage the institution of marriage, that there are better options for gay couples than marriage, that the community should join him in prioritizing other more pressing issues, and that the marriage discussion is harming the efforts of gay couples in red states to get recognition for their unions. He also claims that he’s a gay columnist, that he speaks for an influential collection of gay thinkers, and that he is part of the gay and lesbian community and that he shares our goals and dreams. But none of that is true.
“Repeat After Me”: The Reparative Therapy Echo Chamber
The April 2008 edition of the pay-to-publish vanity journal Psychological Reports featured a new report from NARTH. Written by NARTH president A. Dean Byrd, past president Joseph Nicolosi, and Richard W. Potts, the report carries the unwieldy but self-descriptive title, “Clients perceptions of how reorientation therapy and self-help can promote changes in sexual orientation.” While the title describes what the authors meant to show — how clients describe the benefits of reparative therapy — the report itself actually illustrates something very different: the ex-gay movement’s remarkable ability to instill an almost robot-like parroting of ex-gay rhetoric among their clients.
Testing the Premise: Is MRSA The New Gay Plague?
The Toronto Star said that a new study “discover[ed] a new strain” of a super-bug “hitting gay men.” Headlines in Britain screamed, “Flesh-eating bug strikes San Francisco’s gay community,” and anti-gay extremists across America spread the alarm that gays were introducing another plague into “the general population.” But there was a small problem with all of this: None of it is true!
Paul Cameron’s World
In 2005, the Southern Poverty Law Center wrote that “[Paul] Cameron’s ‘science’ echoes Nazi Germany.” What the SPLC didn”t know was Cameron doesn’t just “echo” Nazi Germany. He quoted extensively from one of the Final Solution’s architects. This puts his fascination with quarantines, mandatory tattoos, and extermination being a “plausible idea” in a whole new and deeply disturbing light.
From the Inside: Focus on the Family’s “Love Won Out”
On February 10, I attended an all-day “Love Won Out” ex-gay conference in Phoenix, put on by Focus on the Family and Exodus International. In this series of reports, I talk about what I learned there: the people who go to these conferences, the things that they hear, and what this all means for them, their families and for the rest of us.
Prologue: Why I Went To “Love Won Out”
Part 1: What’s Love Got To Do With It?
Part 2: Parents Struggle With “No Exceptions”
Part 3: A Whole New Dialect
Part 4: It Depends On How The Meaning of the Word "Change" Changes
Part 5: A Candid Explanation For "Change"
The Heterosexual Agenda: Exposing The Myths
At last, the truth can now be told.
Using the same research methods employed by most anti-gay political pressure groups, we examine the statistics and the case studies that dispel many of the myths about heterosexuality. Download your copy today!
And don't miss our companion report, How To Write An Anti-Gay Tract In Fifteen Easy Steps.
Testing The Premise: Are Gays A Threat To Our Children?
Anti-gay activists often charge that gay men and women pose a threat to children. In this report, we explore the supposed connection between homosexuality and child sexual abuse, the conclusions reached by the most knowledgeable professionals in the field, and how anti-gay activists continue to ignore their findings. This has tremendous consequences, not just for gay men and women, but more importantly for the safety of all our children.
Straight From The Source: What the “Dutch Study” Really Says About Gay Couples
Anti-gay activists often cite the “Dutch Study” to claim that gay unions last only about 1½ years and that the these men have an average of eight additional partners per year outside of their steady relationship. In this report, we will take you step by step into the study to see whether the claims are true.
The FRC’s Briefs Are Showing
Tony Perkins’ Family Research Council submitted an Amicus Brief to the Maryland Court of Appeals as that court prepared to consider the issue of gay marriage. We examine just one small section of that brief to reveal the junk science and fraudulent claims of the Family “Research” Council.
Review: The Gay Report
When Karla Jay and Allan Young published The Gay Report in 1979, it quickly a favorite source of statistics for many anti-gay extremists. But before you accepts these statistic at face value, you should examine the inner workings of this survey very carefully. What you learn might surprise you.
Daniel Fetty Doesn’t Count
The FBI’s annual Hate Crime Statistics aren’t as complete as they ought to be, and their report for 2004 was no exception. In fact, their most recent report has quite a few glaring holes. Holes big enough for Daniel Fetty to fall through.
Lynn David
February 22nd, 2009 | LINK
So most or all of the Utah state legislators are just as bigotted and homophobic as Buttars. But they’re too cowardly to say anything about it.
I think we have their ticket now.
Lynn David
February 22nd, 2009 | LINK
Utah state REPUBLICN legislators that is.
Lynn David
February 22nd, 2009 | LINK
dang now I can’t even spell REPUBLICAN…
Just shoot me…..
K
February 22nd, 2009 | LINK
Of course they’re all homophobic Neanderthals — who was delusional enough to believe otherwise?
The point is, they had to apologize for Buttars’ revealing to the world who and what they are. Utah, and the LDS hierarchy, learned from the Prop. 8 backlash that, because most of America just plain dislikes Mormans, they have to be more politic about what they do and say in public.
In short: No, Utah won’t be any less hostile that it’s been before. But they’ll be less obvious about it. And, perhaps, that’s a small victory for all side.
Lindoro
February 22nd, 2009 | LINK
The agreement included a prohibition on speaking to the Common Ground bills.
So the agreement was that he killed the measure but not brag about it.
Swampfox
February 22nd, 2009 | LINK
Is anyone surprised?
Timothy (TRiG)
February 23rd, 2009 | LINK
Glory? Glory?
Okay ….
Maybe these people live in some kind of parallel universe.
Scary.
TRiG.
Pender
February 23rd, 2009 | LINK
Yes, all true — but still, it’s a heartening change that the Utah legislature finds this kind of bile embarrassing.
Stefano A
February 23rd, 2009 | LINK
Pender, that’s the thing… they were not embarrassed by the bile. They were pissed off because they’re hatred was brashly and pointedly expressed. Not the same thing as being embarrassed by the bile. The bile they still say they agree with.
cowboy
February 23rd, 2009 | LINK
[their] hatred… is baldfaced bigotry.
The moderate Governor of Utah wants to “move on” with business at the Legislature. The Buttars affair is over.
There needs to be more condemnation of this kind of bigotry and it should come from outside the State of Utah…and it should come until more than just a ‘hand slap’ is meted as punishment for such bigotry.
Stefano A
February 23rd, 2009 | LINK
Cowboy:
LOL Thanks for correcting “they’re”-[their].
I hate making stupid mistakes like that.
And yes, I would like to have seen more condemnation of Buttars remarks and criticism of how it was handled coming out of the Republican National Convetion and Log Cabin Republicans.
David C.
February 23rd, 2009 | LINK
I would hesitate to call that much of a victory. I’d prefer the bigotry of others to be as visible as possible so it has a better chance of being questioned, exposed for what it as, and seen in how it ultimately manifests. That’s a major part of this flap.
When Buttars let it all hang out was when the true character of the Utah senate Republicans became blindingly evident. As long as all that stayed behind the scenes, it was hard for more moderate leaders and Democrats to get a political handle on. All of that has changed, and even though the slap on the wrists received by Buttars was scant punishment, the blow to the socially ultra-conservative Republican caucus in the Utah senate will likely reverberate for some time.
Right, of course. Utah, like a lot of other states is wrestling with the current economic downturn. Gov. Huntsman has already gone on record as favoring more recognition and protection for gay couples and gay people in general. There is, at least at this time for the Governor, little to be gained by trying to make political hay out of the Buttars affair.
cowboy
February 23rd, 2009 | LINK
I just like to be called: poofreader.
(note the double entendre)
Richard Rush
February 23rd, 2009 | LINK
Cowboy wrote (emphasis mine):
I’m guessing it will have to come from outside of Utah. The more I learn about Utah, the more it looks like a de facto theocracy.
Scott P.
February 23rd, 2009 | LINK
Richard, that’s one of the reasons I had to get out of there. The people, on the whole, are nice (sometimes phonier than many I’ve met in Hollywood) but the government is in the hands of the LDS hierarchy, make no mistakes about that.
cowboy
February 23rd, 2009 | LINK
This is how Utah’s theocracy works: The local media (TV, radio and newspapers) know about the big Gorilla in their midst. They don’t want to make the Gorilla angry. They don’t want to make people angry who think the Gorilla can do no bad things…the Gorilla is perfect in everything it does. In fact, too much negative press about the Gorilla will alienate the majority of the populace. If that populace gets angry with the media, then the media will have to deal with potential loss of advertising revenue.
See…a cozy little symbiotic relationship a big Gorilla has in its jungle.
So, it will take an “outside” news reporter to get answers to the really difficult questions. Like: “What particular statements Mr. C. Buttars said about gays did you agree with?” [An “outside” news reporter would not accept a non-answer answer.] “Why is the methodology of his statement more important than the sentiment?” [The “outside” reporter can tell if the interviewee is trying to pretend he didn’t hear the question.] “Will Reed Cowan get his documentary aired on some TV Channel in Salt Lake City?” [The “outside” report could ask: “Did you just mumble: “When it snows in Hades?”]
E
February 24th, 2009 | LINK
Doesn’t anyone think that stereotyping ALL Mormons is just another form of unacceptable bigotry? There were many, many Mormons who support the gay community,opposed the repeal of Prop 8, reject Buttars’ idiocy,and are calling for his removal from the senate. Indeed, check out the outraged reaction among the Mormon community to Buttars, not because they are embarrassed, but because they believe he violates basic ideals of kindness, decency, and justice. We have to avoid the same evil we are accusing others of, or else we have no moral authority on this issue.
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