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What Are Little Boys Made Of?
In this original BTB Investigation, we unveil the tragic story of Kirk Murphy, a four-year-old boy who was treated for “cross-gender disturbance” in 1970 by a young grad student by the name of George Rekers. This story is a stark reminder that there are severe and damaging consequences when therapists try to ensure that boys will be boys.
Slouching Towards Kampala: Uganda’s Deadly Embrace of Hate
When we first reported on three American anti-gay activists traveling to Kampala for a three-day conference, we had no idea that it would be the first report of a long string of events leading to a proposal to institute the death penalty for LGBT people. But that is exactly what happened. In this report, we review our collection of more than 500 posts to tell the story of one nation’s embrace of hatred toward gay people. This report will be updated continuously as events continue to unfold. Check here for the latest updates.
David Benkof: Behind the Mask
At first glance, David Benkof appears to be a young gay man who believes that same-sex marriage will damage the institution of marriage, that there are better options for gay couples than marriage, that the community should join him in prioritizing other more pressing issues, and that the marriage discussion is harming the efforts of gay couples in red states to get recognition for their unions. He also claims that he’s a gay columnist, that he speaks for an influential collection of gay thinkers, and that he is part of the gay and lesbian community and that he shares our goals and dreams. But none of that is true.
“Repeat After Me”: The Reparative Therapy Echo Chamber
The April 2008 edition of the pay-to-publish vanity journal Psychological Reports featured a new report from NARTH. Written by NARTH president A. Dean Byrd, past president Joseph Nicolosi, and Richard W. Potts, the report carries the unwieldy but self-descriptive title, “Clients perceptions of how reorientation therapy and self-help can promote changes in sexual orientation.” While the title describes what the authors meant to show — how clients describe the benefits of reparative therapy — the report itself actually illustrates something very different: the ex-gay movement’s remarkable ability to instill an almost robot-like parroting of ex-gay rhetoric among their clients.
Testing the Premise: Is MRSA The New Gay Plague?
The Toronto Star said that a new study “discover[ed] a new strain” of a super-bug “hitting gay men.” Headlines in Britain screamed, “Flesh-eating bug strikes San Francisco’s gay community,” and anti-gay extremists across America spread the alarm that gays were introducing another plague into “the general population.” But there was a small problem with all of this: None of it is true!
Paul Cameron’s World
In 2005, the Southern Poverty Law Center wrote that “[Paul] Cameron’s ‘science’ echoes Nazi Germany.” What the SPLC didn”t know was Cameron doesn’t just “echo” Nazi Germany. He quoted extensively from one of the Final Solution’s architects. This puts his fascination with quarantines, mandatory tattoos, and extermination being a “plausible idea” in a whole new and deeply disturbing light.
From the Inside: Focus on the Family’s “Love Won Out”
On February 10, I attended an all-day “Love Won Out” ex-gay conference in Phoenix, put on by Focus on the Family and Exodus International. In this series of reports, I talk about what I learned there: the people who go to these conferences, the things that they hear, and what this all means for them, their families and for the rest of us.
Prologue: Why I Went To “Love Won Out”
Part 1: What’s Love Got To Do With It?
Part 2: Parents Struggle With “No Exceptions”
Part 3: A Whole New Dialect
Part 4: It Depends On How The Meaning of the Word "Change" Changes
Part 5: A Candid Explanation For "Change"
The Heterosexual Agenda: Exposing The Myths
At last, the truth can now be told.
Using the same research methods employed by most anti-gay political pressure groups, we examine the statistics and the case studies that dispel many of the myths about heterosexuality. Download your copy today!
And don't miss our companion report, How To Write An Anti-Gay Tract In Fifteen Easy Steps.
Testing The Premise: Are Gays A Threat To Our Children?
Anti-gay activists often charge that gay men and women pose a threat to children. In this report, we explore the supposed connection between homosexuality and child sexual abuse, the conclusions reached by the most knowledgeable professionals in the field, and how anti-gay activists continue to ignore their findings. This has tremendous consequences, not just for gay men and women, but more importantly for the safety of all our children.
Straight From The Source: What the “Dutch Study” Really Says About Gay Couples
Anti-gay activists often cite the “Dutch Study” to claim that gay unions last only about 1½ years and that the these men have an average of eight additional partners per year outside of their steady relationship. In this report, we will take you step by step into the study to see whether the claims are true.
The FRC’s Briefs Are Showing
Tony Perkins’ Family Research Council submitted an Amicus Brief to the Maryland Court of Appeals as that court prepared to consider the issue of gay marriage. We examine just one small section of that brief to reveal the junk science and fraudulent claims of the Family “Research” Council.
Review: The Gay Report
When Karla Jay and Allan Young published The Gay Report in 1979, it quickly a favorite source of statistics for many anti-gay extremists. But before you accepts these statistic at face value, you should examine the inner workings of this survey very carefully. What you learn might surprise you.
Daniel Fetty Doesn’t Count
The FBI’s annual Hate Crime Statistics aren’t as complete as they ought to be, and their report for 2004 was no exception. In fact, their most recent report has quite a few glaring holes. Holes big enough for Daniel Fetty to fall through.
a. mcewen
June 27th, 2009 | LINK
I read it and I want to sue you all for pointing it out and tapping on my inate curiousity. LOL.
Seriously though, he is getting destroyed in the comments section as he should be.
Movement Guy
June 27th, 2009 | LINK
The most offensive part to me is his complete ignorance of many straight people of color have HIV/AIDS, even in the US. I guess because white, gay men have protease inhibitors, he doesn’t need to do any research into who’s dying now.
Fiona
June 27th, 2009 | LINK
This guy is really exactly like a bad penny that keeps coming back around. Every few months or so he pops his head up, spouts a bunch of nonsense, half-truths, and outright lies, gets whiney and angry when everyone doesn’t agree with him or treat him like the genius he thinks he is, and then he stomps back to oblivion for another few months. It’s almost like clockwork. He must live a really sad and pathetic life.
GreenEyedLilo
June 27th, 2009 | LINK
I thought it was sickening enough when Seymour Pine (who is still around at 89 years old, who authorized the Stonewall raids) said last week that he still thinks he and his police officers were right. I remember when David went by another last name and I read his “Past Out” column, which discussed LGBT history. I really liked that column; I have always believed that, to paraphrase an old expression, if we stand tall, it is because we stand on the shoulders of those who came before us. And now he subverts that history for the heterosexual masses and talks about what a safety hazard those brave women and men were.
My wife and I celebrated that anniversary today. We, at least, are still grateful. To hell with David Benkof.
Zeke
June 27th, 2009 | LINK
Someone really needs to expose this clown in the comments sections of EVERY piece he gets published. People read his charlatan commentaries and swallow his claim to be “gay” hook, line and sinker, JUST as he intends. That way people will say, “see, even gay people think gay people are hateful and dangerous and selfish and pushy”.
Please Timothy, leave a comment with a link to your exposes on this hateful scumbag.
Jason D
June 27th, 2009 | LINK
wow, his crawler hasn’t found this column and sent him running to defend himself. I’m amazed, DB is exercising restraint?!
It’s really sick how he paints himself as part of our community so he sounds credible when he attacks us. No David, you left us a LONG time ago. You’re standing outside looking in, you’re not part of this, you gave that up a long time ago for your religion — and you even said that was what was best for you. Can’t have it both ways.
Emily K
June 27th, 2009 | LINK
I honestly think his religion is a front for wanting to spite gay people while simultaneously claiming he isn’t “ex-gay.” He wanted to leave the community that (in his eyes) must have done something really, really, bad to him – but rather than saying “I’m swearing off men,” he said “I’m embarking on this noble journey where I’m denying my sexuality for the sake of my G-d given path.” But his writing reveals his true motives. He can’t hide behind his special cloak of Jewish Orthodox self-righteousness. I have a feeling that many Orthodox Jews might find him insufferable.
jim
June 27th, 2009 | LINK
I just think Mr. Benkof needs to get a real job.
Richard W. Fitch
June 27th, 2009 | LINK
Emily K: I have a question that is OT and perhaps best dealt with privately. Would you please contact me:
twiga_riq@yahoo.com
Thanks. -rwf
Buffy
June 28th, 2009 | LINK
Who needs enemies when you have people like David Benkof?
Jake
June 28th, 2009 | LINK
Benkof is a living, breathing, walking “concern troll”
kevinbgoode
June 28th, 2009 | LINK
I am assuming someone has contacted the Houston Chronicle about Beckof’s history – as it is, I’m rather appalled the newspaper even published that poorly researched “opinion,” particularly during Pride month. If the newspaper editorial staff is incapable of properly vetting submissions (or if anyone can claim to be anything and the newspaper accepts it as gospel), then they need some education – and some remedial journalism training.
TJMcFisty
June 29th, 2009 | LINK
I hate it when someone’s so cute on the outside but ruins it by being so ugly on the inside. Shame.
fannie
June 29th, 2009 | LINK
Does anyone know if he’s ever admitted or denied being compensated for his writings by NOM or Maggie Gallagher? I have my suspicions and would very much like him to address this issue.
David Benkof
June 29th, 2009 | LINK
Fannie-
I’ve actually answered that question here at BTB before (the last time you asked it), but you must have missed the answer. I was paid to do some writing for marriagedebate.com in early 2004. Since then I have not received money from NOM or Maggie for anything I have written, although I would gladly take their money should it become available.
Anything else, just ask.
fannie
June 29th, 2009 | LINK
Thanks David. Since you didn’t respond to my question right away the first time and I didn’t come back to check on it a few days later, I missed it.
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