The Daily Agenda for Thursday, May 23
It's Not the Principle, It's the Prejudice
Congratulations Mitch!
Gay Couples Excluded from Immigration Bill Markup
How To Spot A Swivel-Eyed Loon
The Daily Agenda for Wednesday, May 22
House of Commons officially passes marriage equality
British Commons Approves Marriage Equality Bill
Featured Reports
What Are Little Boys Made Of?
In this original BTB Investigation, we unveil the tragic story of Kirk Murphy, a four-year-old boy who was treated for “cross-gender disturbance” in 1970 by a young grad student by the name of George Rekers. This story is a stark reminder that there are severe and damaging consequences when therapists try to ensure that boys will be boys.
Slouching Towards Kampala: Uganda’s Deadly Embrace of Hate
When we first reported on three American anti-gay activists traveling to Kampala for a three-day conference, we had no idea that it would be the first report of a long string of events leading to a proposal to institute the death penalty for LGBT people. But that is exactly what happened. In this report, we review our collection of more than 500 posts to tell the story of one nation’s embrace of hatred toward gay people. This report will be updated continuously as events continue to unfold. Check here for the latest updates.
David Benkof: Behind the Mask
At first glance, David Benkof appears to be a young gay man who believes that same-sex marriage will damage the institution of marriage, that there are better options for gay couples than marriage, that the community should join him in prioritizing other more pressing issues, and that the marriage discussion is harming the efforts of gay couples in red states to get recognition for their unions. He also claims that he’s a gay columnist, that he speaks for an influential collection of gay thinkers, and that he is part of the gay and lesbian community and that he shares our goals and dreams. But none of that is true.
“Repeat After Me”: The Reparative Therapy Echo Chamber
The April 2008 edition of the pay-to-publish vanity journal Psychological Reports featured a new report from NARTH. Written by NARTH president A. Dean Byrd, past president Joseph Nicolosi, and Richard W. Potts, the report carries the unwieldy but self-descriptive title, “Clients perceptions of how reorientation therapy and self-help can promote changes in sexual orientation.” While the title describes what the authors meant to show — how clients describe the benefits of reparative therapy — the report itself actually illustrates something very different: the ex-gay movement’s remarkable ability to instill an almost robot-like parroting of ex-gay rhetoric among their clients.
Testing the Premise: Is MRSA The New Gay Plague?
The Toronto Star said that a new study “discover[ed] a new strain” of a super-bug “hitting gay men.” Headlines in Britain screamed, “Flesh-eating bug strikes San Francisco’s gay community,” and anti-gay extremists across America spread the alarm that gays were introducing another plague into “the general population.” But there was a small problem with all of this: None of it is true!
Paul Cameron’s World
In 2005, the Southern Poverty Law Center wrote that “[Paul] Cameron’s ‘science’ echoes Nazi Germany.” What the SPLC didn”t know was Cameron doesn’t just “echo” Nazi Germany. He quoted extensively from one of the Final Solution’s architects. This puts his fascination with quarantines, mandatory tattoos, and extermination being a “plausible idea” in a whole new and deeply disturbing light.
From the Inside: Focus on the Family’s “Love Won Out”
On February 10, I attended an all-day “Love Won Out” ex-gay conference in Phoenix, put on by Focus on the Family and Exodus International. In this series of reports, I talk about what I learned there: the people who go to these conferences, the things that they hear, and what this all means for them, their families and for the rest of us.
Prologue: Why I Went To “Love Won Out”
Part 1: What’s Love Got To Do With It?
Part 2: Parents Struggle With “No Exceptions”
Part 3: A Whole New Dialect
Part 4: It Depends On How The Meaning of the Word "Change" Changes
Part 5: A Candid Explanation For "Change"
The Heterosexual Agenda: Exposing The Myths
At last, the truth can now be told.
Using the same research methods employed by most anti-gay political pressure groups, we examine the statistics and the case studies that dispel many of the myths about heterosexuality. Download your copy today!
And don't miss our companion report, How To Write An Anti-Gay Tract In Fifteen Easy Steps.
Testing The Premise: Are Gays A Threat To Our Children?
Anti-gay activists often charge that gay men and women pose a threat to children. In this report, we explore the supposed connection between homosexuality and child sexual abuse, the conclusions reached by the most knowledgeable professionals in the field, and how anti-gay activists continue to ignore their findings. This has tremendous consequences, not just for gay men and women, but more importantly for the safety of all our children.
Straight From The Source: What the “Dutch Study” Really Says About Gay Couples
Anti-gay activists often cite the “Dutch Study” to claim that gay unions last only about 1½ years and that the these men have an average of eight additional partners per year outside of their steady relationship. In this report, we will take you step by step into the study to see whether the claims are true.
The FRC’s Briefs Are Showing
Tony Perkins’ Family Research Council submitted an Amicus Brief to the Maryland Court of Appeals as that court prepared to consider the issue of gay marriage. We examine just one small section of that brief to reveal the junk science and fraudulent claims of the Family “Research” Council.
Review: The Gay Report
When Karla Jay and Allan Young published The Gay Report in 1979, it quickly a favorite source of statistics for many anti-gay extremists. But before you accepts these statistic at face value, you should examine the inner workings of this survey very carefully. What you learn might surprise you.
Daniel Fetty Doesn’t Count
The FBI’s annual Hate Crime Statistics aren’t as complete as they ought to be, and their report for 2004 was no exception. In fact, their most recent report has quite a few glaring holes. Holes big enough for Daniel Fetty to fall through.
Edwin
March 24th, 2010 | LINK
His parents must never had any love for him. If they did they would let him stay home.. But as it is they are just like all the anti gay a$$holes who are out there.
Burr
March 24th, 2010 | LINK
The second link is the same as the first?
Eddie89
March 24th, 2010 | LINK
Congratulations to Derrick!
I hope Derrick and his boyfriend have an excellent time at the prom and that all goes well!
As for his parents, they should be ashamed of themselves.
The article mentioned that Derrick is an honor student who tutors at-risk elementary and middle school students after school. WOW! How awesome is that!
If Derrick was my son, I would be 100% PROUD of him!
Some parents just suck!
I’m sorry that Derrick has such idiots as parents.
Even more props to him that he’s such an awesome young man!
Jim Burroway
March 24th, 2010 | LINK
Burr,
Sorry. The second link is fixed now.
John
March 24th, 2010 | LINK
I can’t imagine that his parents didn’t know he was gay before this happened. The article linked to says that his parents kicked him out due to “media attention”, which I have no reason to disbelieve, and I don’t think is completely unreasonable as long as it isn’t permanent and they made sure he had a place to stay before kicking him out.
I’m not saying that his parents did the right thing, I’m just saying we shouldn’t jump to conclusions about the boy’s parents…
Lucrece
March 24th, 2010 | LINK
The school had refused him at first– the town wasn’t “ready”– only to backtrack three month later after seeing nothing in their code supported them, and being aware that they could be sued just like that Mississippi girl was doing.
Also, Towleroad has a local news report. The school said their decision “does not endorse any lifestyles or practices, just merely reflects how the school system works today”.
Adding to that homophobic jewel, a web poll was shown at the end. Only 35% of the people voted Yes for the question of whether same-sex couples should be allowed to prom, while 65% voted No.
He received support from FACEBOOK and people from other states. I’m pretty sure locally, he’ll be crucified. My heart aches for him, because all the nice words of a social networking site and gestures from a stranger will not remove the fact that he’ll be a pariah in his town and have no home.
CB
March 25th, 2010 | LINK
Bleckley County School Superintendant Charlotte Pipkin:
“This statement is not an endorsement of any particular practice or lifestyle, but rather recognition of the legal environment in which the public schools operate today.”
You have to love the statement by the superintendant and how she worded it, explaining why she permitted Derrick and his boyfriend to the prom; not supportive, but slyly drafted to deflect and distance herself from any criticism. Gay in rural Georgia, scary!
Just too bad his parents can’t be supportive of him! :(
gordo
March 25th, 2010 | LINK
Derrick is the kind of Hero HRC should be celebrating. If they honor him at their next fundraiser I’ll pay the fee, get out my tux, and go.
WMDKitty
March 25th, 2010 | LINK
I’m totally Team Derrick.
His “parents” need to grow the hell up, pull their heads out of their asses, and realize that, if they continue to push him away, they WILL lose him. Forever. Through their own asshattery. I hope Derrick picks their nursing home. ^_^
Priya Lynn
March 25th, 2010 | LINK
WMDKitty, I think his parents want to lose him forever.
paul j stein
March 25th, 2010 | LINK
Well he is 18yo and has some attention now. Maybe a job from a gay benefactor could help him get his life started in a more supportive home situation.
Timothy (TRiG)
March 27th, 2010 | LINK
Don’t you just love it?
TRiG.
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