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Ben in Oakland
June 21st, 2010 | LINK
Timothy; I’m really suprised at this. what did you expect? That they are going to tell the gransparents, “Hey, you keep the kids. Honey and I are going to tap some strange ass and have some sex with a bunch of people we don’t know, and we can’t have the kids there, can we.?”
Timothy Kincaid
June 21st, 2010 | LINK
Ben,
You have to read the LaBarbera piece to understand the satire. Click on the link
Henry
June 21st, 2010 | LINK
you’re forgetting that took place in “san fagcisco” or “sick francisco”, so porno pete can say that these poor heteros were easily let down the evil path by so called “san francisco values” that obama/pelosi/reid are trying to impose on the rest of america.
Regan DuCasse
June 21st, 2010 | LINK
Was the injury permanent? Did it cause disability like paralysis?
What about prosecution of the man who shot him?
It’s a good thing their children weren’t around and being watched by their grandparents.
Because here in CA closer to the SD area, a hetero couple was doing the same thing, and their pervert neighbor David Westerfield, who had vids of little girls being raped, kidnapped their daughter, raped and killed her.
Her body was left in the open and wasn’t found for three weeks. Decomp was to extensive to determine sexual assault or cause of death, but a blood stain in his motorhome and her DNA on clothes that he had cleaned, confirmed that she’d been around him and he tried to hide it.
That’s the thing about those parental competence and marital fidelity tests and screening processes when you apply for a marriage license.
Oh right, that’s only supposed to be the reason GAY couples can’t have a marriage license!
David C.
June 21st, 2010 | LINK
Peter LaBarbera and those that follow him or are members of AFT cannot connect the dots between their rhetoric and people like the Smileys. This satirical dig is priceless and serves to illustrate that such myopia is a characteristic of the principals and founding fathers of the anti-gay industry. Well done Timothy.
WMDKitty
June 21st, 2010 | LINK
Well played!
David
June 21st, 2010 | LINK
Those mixed gender marriages never work.
Ben in Oakland
June 21st, 2010 | LINK
I got the satire. :)
I qwas trying to be satirical myself. Oh well/
Rob San Diego
June 21st, 2010 | LINK
Regan as a San Diego local I totally forgot the situation of the parents being swingers and Westerfield.
But hey, these are all straight people. Straight people wrote the bible, straight people wrote the constitution, straight people run this planet, the military, the press (except for this website) and they can and will do anything they want, and you know what, THERE IS NOTHING WE CAN DO ABOUT IT! We live in their world.
David C.
June 21st, 2010 | LINK
@Rob SD
Well, not exactly. There are plenty of damaged and confused gay people willing to help with the repression.
We need to keep in mind that we are not all of one mind nor do the best we could at being organized and actually working together, supporting those that support us, and getting beyond our own apathy. It doesn’t all boil down to straight v. gay or vice versa. It’s time for everybody to focus on the things we have in common, being who we are wherever we are all the time, and knowing the truth about ourselves and being able to tell it courageously without hesitation.
Nugget
June 22nd, 2010 | LINK
Brilliant.
Neil D
June 22nd, 2010 | LINK
I’m really curious what the religious gays and their affirming partners in faith think about Peter LeBarbera’s observation:
“Savage promotes ‘non-monogamy’ as an alternative to marital fidelity — and admits that he and his ‘husband’ twice engaged in sexual ‘three-ways’ even after they adopted a baby boy.”
Is this acceptable to them?
Jason D
June 22nd, 2010 | LINK
Neil D,
I’m really curious what your post has to do with this thread or what Dan Savage has to do with religious gays.
Richard Rush
June 22nd, 2010 | LINK
Jason D., LaBarbera’s post that Timothy linked to at the end of his article contains a sidebar about Dan Savage.
Neil D
June 22nd, 2010 | LINK
RR – thanks, I should have made that clear. Still curious, though.
Soren456
June 22nd, 2010 | LINK
If these people expect to live the Disney version of heterosexuality, they should expect to pay the price.
And why am I the only one to notice that that broken condom was God’s direct judgement that Smiley’s weenie was in the wrong place, at the wrong time?
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