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Featured Reports
What Are Little Boys Made Of?
In this original BTB Investigation, we unveil the tragic story of Kirk Murphy, a four-year-old boy who was treated for “cross-gender disturbance” in 1970 by a young grad student by the name of George Rekers. This story is a stark reminder that there are severe and damaging consequences when therapists try to ensure that boys will be boys.
Slouching Towards Kampala: Uganda’s Deadly Embrace of Hate
When we first reported on three American anti-gay activists traveling to Kampala for a three-day conference, we had no idea that it would be the first report of a long string of events leading to a proposal to institute the death penalty for LGBT people. But that is exactly what happened. In this report, we review our collection of more than 500 posts to tell the story of one nation’s embrace of hatred toward gay people. This report will be updated continuously as events continue to unfold. Check here for the latest updates.
David Benkof: Behind the Mask
At first glance, David Benkof appears to be a young gay man who believes that same-sex marriage will damage the institution of marriage, that there are better options for gay couples than marriage, that the community should join him in prioritizing other more pressing issues, and that the marriage discussion is harming the efforts of gay couples in red states to get recognition for their unions. He also claims that he’s a gay columnist, that he speaks for an influential collection of gay thinkers, and that he is part of the gay and lesbian community and that he shares our goals and dreams. But none of that is true.
“Repeat After Me”: The Reparative Therapy Echo Chamber
The April 2008 edition of the pay-to-publish vanity journal Psychological Reports featured a new report from NARTH. Written by NARTH president A. Dean Byrd, past president Joseph Nicolosi, and Richard W. Potts, the report carries the unwieldy but self-descriptive title, “Clients perceptions of how reorientation therapy and self-help can promote changes in sexual orientation.” While the title describes what the authors meant to show — how clients describe the benefits of reparative therapy — the report itself actually illustrates something very different: the ex-gay movement’s remarkable ability to instill an almost robot-like parroting of ex-gay rhetoric among their clients.
Testing the Premise: Is MRSA The New Gay Plague?
The Toronto Star said that a new study “discover[ed] a new strain” of a super-bug “hitting gay men.” Headlines in Britain screamed, “Flesh-eating bug strikes San Francisco’s gay community,” and anti-gay extremists across America spread the alarm that gays were introducing another plague into “the general population.” But there was a small problem with all of this: None of it is true!
Paul Cameron’s World
In 2005, the Southern Poverty Law Center wrote that “[Paul] Cameron’s ‘science’ echoes Nazi Germany.” What the SPLC didn”t know was Cameron doesn’t just “echo” Nazi Germany. He quoted extensively from one of the Final Solution’s architects. This puts his fascination with quarantines, mandatory tattoos, and extermination being a “plausible idea” in a whole new and deeply disturbing light.
From the Inside: Focus on the Family’s “Love Won Out”
On February 10, I attended an all-day “Love Won Out” ex-gay conference in Phoenix, put on by Focus on the Family and Exodus International. In this series of reports, I talk about what I learned there: the people who go to these conferences, the things that they hear, and what this all means for them, their families and for the rest of us.
Prologue: Why I Went To “Love Won Out”
Part 1: What’s Love Got To Do With It?
Part 2: Parents Struggle With “No Exceptions”
Part 3: A Whole New Dialect
Part 4: It Depends On How The Meaning of the Word "Change" Changes
Part 5: A Candid Explanation For "Change"
The Heterosexual Agenda: Exposing The Myths
At last, the truth can now be told.
Using the same research methods employed by most anti-gay political pressure groups, we examine the statistics and the case studies that dispel many of the myths about heterosexuality. Download your copy today!
And don't miss our companion report, How To Write An Anti-Gay Tract In Fifteen Easy Steps.
Testing The Premise: Are Gays A Threat To Our Children?
Anti-gay activists often charge that gay men and women pose a threat to children. In this report, we explore the supposed connection between homosexuality and child sexual abuse, the conclusions reached by the most knowledgeable professionals in the field, and how anti-gay activists continue to ignore their findings. This has tremendous consequences, not just for gay men and women, but more importantly for the safety of all our children.
Straight From The Source: What the “Dutch Study” Really Says About Gay Couples
Anti-gay activists often cite the “Dutch Study” to claim that gay unions last only about 1½ years and that the these men have an average of eight additional partners per year outside of their steady relationship. In this report, we will take you step by step into the study to see whether the claims are true.
The FRC’s Briefs Are Showing
Tony Perkins’ Family Research Council submitted an Amicus Brief to the Maryland Court of Appeals as that court prepared to consider the issue of gay marriage. We examine just one small section of that brief to reveal the junk science and fraudulent claims of the Family “Research” Council.
Review: The Gay Report
When Karla Jay and Allan Young published The Gay Report in 1979, it quickly a favorite source of statistics for many anti-gay extremists. But before you accepts these statistic at face value, you should examine the inner workings of this survey very carefully. What you learn might surprise you.
Daniel Fetty Doesn’t Count
The FBI’s annual Hate Crime Statistics aren’t as complete as they ought to be, and their report for 2004 was no exception. In fact, their most recent report has quite a few glaring holes. Holes big enough for Daniel Fetty to fall through.
Rossi
July 16th, 2010 | LINK
Jim, I think this story would take on even more importance if you looked into how MUCH of the money goes to service vs. how much of it goes to the Exec Director, staff, administration, marketing, etc.
This is usually a place where the gay charities (see EQCA) tend to fall apart: The peeps at the top take home a big fat paycheck, and when you compare it to other service charities, and look at the charity ratings, they are dismal.
I don’t know if this is the case with AWSF, but I would sure love to see some examination of it.
Paul F
July 16th, 2010 | LINK
Yes, I agree with Rossi:
The bigger story seems to be how much money goes to the SF AIDS Foundation’s admin and expenses.
If I’m reading these numbers correctly, it seems only $746K went to AIDs services. Does that mean $2.8 Million (79%) went to the Foundations admin and expenses?
Nine years ago SF AIDS Foundation parted with Dan Pallotta because they thought his expense ratio in running AIDS Ride was too high. (In 2001, the last year before this break with SF AIDS Foundation, Pallotta’s company netted $69 million for charities out of $136 million in revenues from 16 charity events; 49 percent of revenues were used to pay for Pallotta’s firm’s expenses and fees.)
So with Pallotta they were seeing a 51% return. But now they’re only seeing a 21% return?
If this is correct, then this could be a big story. SF AIDS Foundation and LA AIDS Foundation parted with Pallotta 9 years ago and started doing their own rides, saying they could do better on their own.
Looks like they’re failing. Sounds like we should see their Financial Reports.
Mark F.
July 16th, 2010 | LINK
I’ve participated in this walk, and I also thought the money was going to local charities. (Nothing wrong with helping people in other countries, but people are being deceived here.) Also, I agree that the amount of money being spent on administrative expenses needs to be disclosed.
And if you you do know someone with HIV/AIDS who needs help, maybe you should just cut out the middleman and help him directly.
Mike C
July 16th, 2010 | LINK
Personally, I’m sick and tired of hearing the amount of $$ the U.S. donates to other countries, whether that be through our government or through our citizens.
Why must we be the saviors of the world when we can’t take care of our own people at home?
ADAP waiting lists, Federal Gov’t $25M grant for ADAP, it’s all money on top of money.
Damn it, I want my $$ to go directly to a serviceable group within the United States.
We fight wars for other countries in the name of democracy and it’s our servicemen coming home in caskets. We spend billions to take care of other countries and their starvation while we have people hungry here. It all HAS to stop for a change.
Organizations like the San Fran Aids Walk need to be investigated further, reported on, and the information made readily available to those making donations or volunteering their time!
jOHN
July 16th, 2010 | LINK
hum…talking to a friend about AWSF last night. I have taken part in AWSF since year 2 and would also do the Dance-A-thon that was put on by the same organization until the last year of it. The last one was done by Project Open Hand I believe. As the date got closer I had not heard from them and usually I would get a call or 2 asking for my help. When I didn’t hear from them I called and asked how come I didn’t get a call, Well i didn’t get a call because the organization that had been putting it on would not share their mailing list. How charitable is that? These contacts when made through volunteers and turned over to this organization and would not share this information with the new group that was putting on this same fund raiser. Shouldn’t this information belong to the event. Really left a bad taste in my mouth and i have decided to not donate my time for 2 years now.
Timothy (TRiG)
July 16th, 2010 | LINK
How many times has the US toppled democracies and installed dictators? I lose count after a while.
TRiG.
paul j stein
July 17th, 2010 | LINK
The AIDS funding system is a big CASH COW for the administrators and staff. I was REFUSED help for security improvements in my home after numerous thefts (10). I couldn’t get ANY utility help after paying out $800 for security doors. I get ssi and they said pay for it yourself. I removed myself from their client list and sent some e-mails but was shut out by state officials. ARC OHIO is a sham!
chicago dyke
July 18th, 2010 | LINK
just like in politics, and there’s plenty of overlap, nonprofit administration culture is fucked to the max just now, imho. i’ve had plenty of experience with nonprofits and charities over the years, and it seems to me the last 10-15 years have seen a really ugly emphasis on “attracting top talent” with high admin pay and loose monitoring of what they do with the money. as the first few posters noted, i’d agree the real story isn’t that poor brown people in Latin America get the money, but that 20% of donations go to helping the sick, and the rest to pay the staff and their “expenses.” lots and lots of major charities and nonprofits have this problem, btw.
bottom line: research your charity, thoroughly, before you give. always.
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