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Featured Reports
What Are Little Boys Made Of?
In this original BTB Investigation, we unveil the tragic story of Kirk Murphy, a four-year-old boy who was treated for “cross-gender disturbance” in 1970 by a young grad student by the name of George Rekers. This story is a stark reminder that there are severe and damaging consequences when therapists try to ensure that boys will be boys.
Slouching Towards Kampala: Uganda’s Deadly Embrace of Hate
When we first reported on three American anti-gay activists traveling to Kampala for a three-day conference, we had no idea that it would be the first report of a long string of events leading to a proposal to institute the death penalty for LGBT people. But that is exactly what happened. In this report, we review our collection of more than 500 posts to tell the story of one nation’s embrace of hatred toward gay people. This report will be updated continuously as events continue to unfold. Check here for the latest updates.
David Benkof: Behind the Mask
At first glance, David Benkof appears to be a young gay man who believes that same-sex marriage will damage the institution of marriage, that there are better options for gay couples than marriage, that the community should join him in prioritizing other more pressing issues, and that the marriage discussion is harming the efforts of gay couples in red states to get recognition for their unions. He also claims that he’s a gay columnist, that he speaks for an influential collection of gay thinkers, and that he is part of the gay and lesbian community and that he shares our goals and dreams. But none of that is true.
“Repeat After Me”: The Reparative Therapy Echo Chamber
The April 2008 edition of the pay-to-publish vanity journal Psychological Reports featured a new report from NARTH. Written by NARTH president A. Dean Byrd, past president Joseph Nicolosi, and Richard W. Potts, the report carries the unwieldy but self-descriptive title, “Clients perceptions of how reorientation therapy and self-help can promote changes in sexual orientation.” While the title describes what the authors meant to show — how clients describe the benefits of reparative therapy — the report itself actually illustrates something very different: the ex-gay movement’s remarkable ability to instill an almost robot-like parroting of ex-gay rhetoric among their clients.
Testing the Premise: Is MRSA The New Gay Plague?
The Toronto Star said that a new study “discover[ed] a new strain” of a super-bug “hitting gay men.” Headlines in Britain screamed, “Flesh-eating bug strikes San Francisco’s gay community,” and anti-gay extremists across America spread the alarm that gays were introducing another plague into “the general population.” But there was a small problem with all of this: None of it is true!
Paul Cameron’s World
In 2005, the Southern Poverty Law Center wrote that “[Paul] Cameron’s ‘science’ echoes Nazi Germany.” What the SPLC didn”t know was Cameron doesn’t just “echo” Nazi Germany. He quoted extensively from one of the Final Solution’s architects. This puts his fascination with quarantines, mandatory tattoos, and extermination being a “plausible idea” in a whole new and deeply disturbing light.
From the Inside: Focus on the Family’s “Love Won Out”
On February 10, I attended an all-day “Love Won Out” ex-gay conference in Phoenix, put on by Focus on the Family and Exodus International. In this series of reports, I talk about what I learned there: the people who go to these conferences, the things that they hear, and what this all means for them, their families and for the rest of us.
Prologue: Why I Went To “Love Won Out”
Part 1: What’s Love Got To Do With It?
Part 2: Parents Struggle With “No Exceptions”
Part 3: A Whole New Dialect
Part 4: It Depends On How The Meaning of the Word "Change" Changes
Part 5: A Candid Explanation For "Change"
The Heterosexual Agenda: Exposing The Myths
At last, the truth can now be told.
Using the same research methods employed by most anti-gay political pressure groups, we examine the statistics and the case studies that dispel many of the myths about heterosexuality. Download your copy today!
And don't miss our companion report, How To Write An Anti-Gay Tract In Fifteen Easy Steps.
Testing The Premise: Are Gays A Threat To Our Children?
Anti-gay activists often charge that gay men and women pose a threat to children. In this report, we explore the supposed connection between homosexuality and child sexual abuse, the conclusions reached by the most knowledgeable professionals in the field, and how anti-gay activists continue to ignore their findings. This has tremendous consequences, not just for gay men and women, but more importantly for the safety of all our children.
Straight From The Source: What the “Dutch Study” Really Says About Gay Couples
Anti-gay activists often cite the “Dutch Study” to claim that gay unions last only about 1½ years and that the these men have an average of eight additional partners per year outside of their steady relationship. In this report, we will take you step by step into the study to see whether the claims are true.
The FRC’s Briefs Are Showing
Tony Perkins’ Family Research Council submitted an Amicus Brief to the Maryland Court of Appeals as that court prepared to consider the issue of gay marriage. We examine just one small section of that brief to reveal the junk science and fraudulent claims of the Family “Research” Council.
Review: The Gay Report
When Karla Jay and Allan Young published The Gay Report in 1979, it quickly a favorite source of statistics for many anti-gay extremists. But before you accepts these statistic at face value, you should examine the inner workings of this survey very carefully. What you learn might surprise you.
Daniel Fetty Doesn’t Count
The FBI’s annual Hate Crime Statistics aren’t as complete as they ought to be, and their report for 2004 was no exception. In fact, their most recent report has quite a few glaring holes. Holes big enough for Daniel Fetty to fall through.
Everett
October 10th, 2010 | LINK
You mean to tell me that strange man, who is not offended by beastiality images ending up in his email inbox, has the nerve to call gay folks perverts????? God I hope he loses that election….
justsearching
October 10th, 2010 | LINK
So it looks like some Tea Party candidates are making their true colors known.
Back on September 20th “A statewide telephone survey of Likely Voters finds Cuomo with 54% support versus 38% for Paladino, the winner of last Tuesday’s state GOP Primary. Two percent (2%) prefer some other candidate, and six percent (6%) are undecided.” I hope that Paladino’s numbers will drop after such over-the-top rhetoric.
Thomas
October 11th, 2010 | LINK
Just typical Republican anti gay hate speech…
Ryan
October 11th, 2010 | LINK
GO Proud will now be offering him about twenty grand to come to their convention and give that speech to their faces. They’ll probably even give him a trophy.
grantdale
October 11th, 2010 | LINK
So confusing.
It’s difficult to know if this is the BTB story on the New York’s governorship and where it could lead, or the BTB story on the Bronx “Wolf Pack” Attackers and their background.
justsearching
October 11th, 2010 | LINK
@Everett- More important is what he voluntarily forwarded on to others.
Here’s a rather graphic record of some of the e-mails he sent on. It’s somewhat censored. http://wnymedia.net/paladino/
This man has no right to be calling anyone else a perv.
Rob San Diego
October 11th, 2010 | LINK
Don’t let the tea bag movement fool you into thinking that they are only worried about fiscal issues.
I hope this so called “gay” person has quit his campaign.
Or maybe this so called “gay” person is really straight, and they just bully and tease him and call him gay cause he’s not as macho as they are.
Regan DuCasse
October 11th, 2010 | LINK
I really, REALLY hate it when someone like this spews this nastiness…then says they have a gay relative.
He has a gay nephew, who is a teenager.
Right.
He’d like to restrict his nephew’s options for freedom and protection and support laws that do it.
You just told your nephew and the world what you think of him.
Way to go uncle Carl, you adulterous piece of dirt.
Yes, he absolutely cannot win. Amazing how people like him, with so much betrayal of those closest to him, would dare point a finger at the entire of gay people as wrongful and deserving of not influencing children.
As opposed to people who have done what HE has doing it?
Timothy Kincaid
October 11th, 2010 | LINK
No, Thomas that is not “just typical Republican anti gay hate speech.” New York Republicans tend not to be so hateful.
marcus
October 11th, 2010 | LINK
Frankly, the man is correct that there is no reason to be proud of being a dysfunctional homosexual. I happen to be a proud, FUNCTIONAL homosexual, and I don’t think that Paladino’s speechifying helps pull folks from the “dysfunctional” column to the “functional” one. Let’s be about the business of helping homosexuals be out, proud, and functional!
Ryan
October 11th, 2010 | LINK
The dissembling is off the charts with this guy. He’s now saying gay people aren’t equal to straights because of the horrible prejudices they face, and that’s why he wants to protect kids from that “choice”. The fact that he’s perpetuating that prejudice doesn’t seem to enter his mind. It’s like the guy who kills his parents and lend asks the judge for leniency because he’s an orphan.
Soren456
October 11th, 2010 | LINK
When you purport to know what you’re talking about, as a public figure, you have an obligation actually to know it.
There’s nothing I can say that will snap Paladino into shape; two zillion commentators have tried it for decades.
But if he wants a course of study, especially about dysfunction and homosexuality, I’d suggest he start with Evelyn Hooker in 1957, and move forward.
Carl! They have COLOR MOVIES now!
Neil
October 11th, 2010 | LINK
Mr Paladino employs someone whom he believes to be dysfunctional and a pervert. He sounds very open minded.
David
October 11th, 2010 | LINK
His campaign employs a gay man? Hopefully not anymore, if that gay man has even a small sliver of dignity.
Seraphiel
October 11th, 2010 | LINK
These teabagger candidates are a gift that keeps on giving. The lunatic fringe of the Republican Party dredges up the most virulent, poisonous pustules they can find and shoves them onto the ticket. In doing so, there’s a good chance they’ve ended up giving the Democrats an easy win. Delaware, too. Possibly even Alaska(!) depending on how Murkowski’s write-in campaign goes.
At least, I hope there are enough good people left in New York to vote down this sort of especially toxic twit. Otherwise all the rational people left in government will have their time wasted in trying to keep this goofball from destroying the state.
Soren456
October 11th, 2010 | LINK
@Seraphiel:
These people are on the ballot because, in this election cycle, their supporters are the ones who have done the grunt work and turned out to vote.
Grotesque as they are, in no sense have they handed Democrats “an easy win.” No serious poll, at this date, suggests so.
It’s voter turnout that matters. Recall that in Delaware, just a fraction of voters turned out, and they handed O’Donnell a slim victory.
Only if progressives and Democrats bother to go vote (a good question) will these people be defeated, because THEIR supporters surely will turn out.
Paladino and O’Donnell are long shots, but Angle, Rubio, Miller and a myriad others are certainly not; polling shows them ahead or in dead heats. Some of these people – maybe many of them – are going to be elected.
It is seriously grim.
cowboy
October 11th, 2010 | LINK
So…we have a Catholic using the same terms a Mormon used a week before and with cheers from a crowd of Jews.
Do they all have a red phones connected to each other so that they can compare notes and recite the same rhetoric?
Ben in Oakland
October 12th, 2010 | LINK
Sewraphiel– I wish you were right, but the spinelessness of the democratic party has infected their campaigns.
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