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What Are Little Boys Made Of?
In this original BTB Investigation, we unveil the tragic story of Kirk Murphy, a four-year-old boy who was treated for “cross-gender disturbance” in 1970 by a young grad student by the name of George Rekers. This story is a stark reminder that there are severe and damaging consequences when therapists try to ensure that boys will be boys.
Slouching Towards Kampala: Uganda’s Deadly Embrace of Hate
When we first reported on three American anti-gay activists traveling to Kampala for a three-day conference, we had no idea that it would be the first report of a long string of events leading to a proposal to institute the death penalty for LGBT people. But that is exactly what happened. In this report, we review our collection of more than 500 posts to tell the story of one nation’s embrace of hatred toward gay people. This report will be updated continuously as events continue to unfold. Check here for the latest updates.
David Benkof: Behind the Mask
At first glance, David Benkof appears to be a young gay man who believes that same-sex marriage will damage the institution of marriage, that there are better options for gay couples than marriage, that the community should join him in prioritizing other more pressing issues, and that the marriage discussion is harming the efforts of gay couples in red states to get recognition for their unions. He also claims that he’s a gay columnist, that he speaks for an influential collection of gay thinkers, and that he is part of the gay and lesbian community and that he shares our goals and dreams. But none of that is true.
“Repeat After Me”: The Reparative Therapy Echo Chamber
The April 2008 edition of the pay-to-publish vanity journal Psychological Reports featured a new report from NARTH. Written by NARTH president A. Dean Byrd, past president Joseph Nicolosi, and Richard W. Potts, the report carries the unwieldy but self-descriptive title, “Clients perceptions of how reorientation therapy and self-help can promote changes in sexual orientation.” While the title describes what the authors meant to show — how clients describe the benefits of reparative therapy — the report itself actually illustrates something very different: the ex-gay movement’s remarkable ability to instill an almost robot-like parroting of ex-gay rhetoric among their clients.
Testing the Premise: Is MRSA The New Gay Plague?
The Toronto Star said that a new study “discover[ed] a new strain” of a super-bug “hitting gay men.” Headlines in Britain screamed, “Flesh-eating bug strikes San Francisco’s gay community,” and anti-gay extremists across America spread the alarm that gays were introducing another plague into “the general population.” But there was a small problem with all of this: None of it is true!
Paul Cameron’s World
In 2005, the Southern Poverty Law Center wrote that “[Paul] Cameron’s ‘science’ echoes Nazi Germany.” What the SPLC didn”t know was Cameron doesn’t just “echo” Nazi Germany. He quoted extensively from one of the Final Solution’s architects. This puts his fascination with quarantines, mandatory tattoos, and extermination being a “plausible idea” in a whole new and deeply disturbing light.
From the Inside: Focus on the Family’s “Love Won Out”
On February 10, I attended an all-day “Love Won Out” ex-gay conference in Phoenix, put on by Focus on the Family and Exodus International. In this series of reports, I talk about what I learned there: the people who go to these conferences, the things that they hear, and what this all means for them, their families and for the rest of us.
Prologue: Why I Went To “Love Won Out”
Part 1: What’s Love Got To Do With It?
Part 2: Parents Struggle With “No Exceptions”
Part 3: A Whole New Dialect
Part 4: It Depends On How The Meaning of the Word "Change" Changes
Part 5: A Candid Explanation For "Change"
The Heterosexual Agenda: Exposing The Myths
At last, the truth can now be told.
Using the same research methods employed by most anti-gay political pressure groups, we examine the statistics and the case studies that dispel many of the myths about heterosexuality. Download your copy today!
And don't miss our companion report, How To Write An Anti-Gay Tract In Fifteen Easy Steps.
Testing The Premise: Are Gays A Threat To Our Children?
Anti-gay activists often charge that gay men and women pose a threat to children. In this report, we explore the supposed connection between homosexuality and child sexual abuse, the conclusions reached by the most knowledgeable professionals in the field, and how anti-gay activists continue to ignore their findings. This has tremendous consequences, not just for gay men and women, but more importantly for the safety of all our children.
Straight From The Source: What the “Dutch Study” Really Says About Gay Couples
Anti-gay activists often cite the “Dutch Study” to claim that gay unions last only about 1½ years and that the these men have an average of eight additional partners per year outside of their steady relationship. In this report, we will take you step by step into the study to see whether the claims are true.
The FRC’s Briefs Are Showing
Tony Perkins’ Family Research Council submitted an Amicus Brief to the Maryland Court of Appeals as that court prepared to consider the issue of gay marriage. We examine just one small section of that brief to reveal the junk science and fraudulent claims of the Family “Research” Council.
Review: The Gay Report
When Karla Jay and Allan Young published The Gay Report in 1979, it quickly a favorite source of statistics for many anti-gay extremists. But before you accepts these statistic at face value, you should examine the inner workings of this survey very carefully. What you learn might surprise you.
Daniel Fetty Doesn’t Count
The FBI’s annual Hate Crime Statistics aren’t as complete as they ought to be, and their report for 2004 was no exception. In fact, their most recent report has quite a few glaring holes. Holes big enough for Daniel Fetty to fall through.
Ryan K.
June 16th, 2011 | LINK
Always a class act, that Dr. Nick.
Allen
June 16th, 2011 | LINK
I give Nicolosi one thing: when he says, “The real issue is, does Dr. Rekers’ research stand up? Do his theories make sense?” it’s a valid point. That is the real issue.
Based on the evidence, though, it’s obvious that Dr. Rekers’ “research” does not stand up. It can’t even be called “research” because Rekers didn’t accurately report what happened to “Kraig”. And I hope Nicolosi would agree that, whenever conclusions turn out to be based on false information, they should be thrown out. To me that’s the bigger scandal where Dr. Rekers is concerned.
But Nicolosi isn’t willing to give up using Rekers’ research, because it says what he wants to hear, and the facts don’t matter.
Jay Jonson
June 16th, 2011 | LINK
These people are disgraceful. They need to be sued for the harm they do.
Paul Mc
June 16th, 2011 | LINK
I must say, Nicolosi has some nerve.
Rekers will no longer be cited by anyone credible. Maybe out of hatred for gay people, hence Nicolosi will not disavow the Kraig/Kirk data despite it being patently not worth the value of a few plastic poker chips.
He didn’t answer (at least in quoted text) whether therapy aimed at making feminine boys more masculine was the object of Rekers study. OF COURSE it
was. Making boys more ‘masculine’ is at the heart of NARTH ideas.
“and this reactivates old, negative memories of unhealthy entanglement with their mothers”
And that makes you gay? My god, get this stuff into court on video and have the world laugh at this guy WAY more than the Prop8 trial.
lurker
June 16th, 2011 | LINK
“Rekers will no longer be cited by anyone credible.”
Well, no. But it will still be cited by political groups for years to come to raise money to pass laws against us.
Fortunately the tide is turning and these groups will be more and more marginalized in the future.
Ezam
June 16th, 2011 | LINK
I think he unintentionally admitted such therapy can’t change “homosexually oriented people”.
Brant
June 16th, 2011 | LINK
I agree that someone should sue these people for malpractice? Has anyone been in therapy with Nicolosi or someone linked to him that has had harm done due to treatment? I’m sure someone would pick up their case.
Maris Ehlers
June 16th, 2011 | LINK
I am seething.
Ivan
June 16th, 2011 | LINK
It always strikes me that these guys are unintentionally describing themselves.
Timothy Kincaid
June 16th, 2011 | LINK
Someone’s been watching too much Will and Grace. While on acid.
Darina
June 16th, 2011 | LINK
So I’m narcissistic. Well, one learns something new every day. :P
jimb
June 16th, 2011 | LINK
“Of course, if we threw out the work of every gay-activist researcher accused of being involved in a personal scandal, there would be no literature on their side of the issue, would there?”
I couldn’t have said it better myself!
Timothy Kincaid
June 16th, 2011 | LINK
jimb…
I’m trying to recall the personal scandals of the “gay-activist researchers’.
I don’t recall any personal scandals for Quzi Rahman, Gary Gates, Scott Hershberger, William Byne, Simon LeVay, Dean Hamer, or really anyone at all.
So perhaps you’d like to clarify exactly what “gay-activist researcher accused of being involved in a personal scandal” that you and Dr. Nicolosi are thinking of.
luiz
June 16th, 2011 | LINK
That gay people have higher rates of psychological disturbance, doesn’t mean this differential cannot be traced to external events, that is, to events unrelated to sexual orientation. In Murphy’s case, the physical abuse he suffered by the hands of his father – and the fact that, in the words of his siblings, he was made to feel different from everyone else due to that therapy – seems a much more relevant fact to take into account when explaining his depression, than his sexual attraction to men. People who are ostracized and isolated are more likely to suffer from psychological disorders – and we know gay people are more likely to be slighted, ostracized, and bullied than heterosexual persons. Nicolosi’s answer shows the base reasoning abilities behind his anti-gay activism.
ken
June 16th, 2011 | LINK
this article was little more than a fluff piece for Nicolosi to spew more of his nonsense to someone who wouldn’t challenge anything he said. I think the most telling part is this:
He claims treating a child whose parents want Nicolosi to “fix” would do no good and yet he took the Kendalls’ money for far more than “a session or two.” And rather than ask the obvious follow-up question, the interviewer instead suggests it was Anderson Cooper who lacked objectivity.
ken
June 16th, 2011 | LINK
jimb
June 16th, 2011 | LINK
““Of course, if we threw out the work of every gay-activist researcher accused of being involved in a personal scandal, there would be no literature on their side of the issue, would there?”
I couldn’t have said it better myself!”
Reker’s work wasn’t thrown out because of a personal scandal. It was thrown out because it was shown to be wrong and that Reker’s distorted what really happened. The personal scandal was merely a clue as to why Reker’s may have been driven to distort the facts.
Bernie
June 17th, 2011 | LINK
Question remains, how does that man face himself in the mirror each morning?
Ben In Oakland
June 17th, 2011 | LINK
I believe he meant to say anti-gay acitvist researcher.
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