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What Are Little Boys Made Of?
In this original BTB Investigation, we unveil the tragic story of Kirk Murphy, a four-year-old boy who was treated for “cross-gender disturbance” in 1970 by a young grad student by the name of George Rekers. This story is a stark reminder that there are severe and damaging consequences when therapists try to ensure that boys will be boys.
Slouching Towards Kampala: Uganda’s Deadly Embrace of Hate
When we first reported on three American anti-gay activists traveling to Kampala for a three-day conference, we had no idea that it would be the first report of a long string of events leading to a proposal to institute the death penalty for LGBT people. But that is exactly what happened. In this report, we review our collection of more than 500 posts to tell the story of one nation’s embrace of hatred toward gay people. This report will be updated continuously as events continue to unfold. Check here for the latest updates.
David Benkof: Behind the Mask
At first glance, David Benkof appears to be a young gay man who believes that same-sex marriage will damage the institution of marriage, that there are better options for gay couples than marriage, that the community should join him in prioritizing other more pressing issues, and that the marriage discussion is harming the efforts of gay couples in red states to get recognition for their unions. He also claims that he’s a gay columnist, that he speaks for an influential collection of gay thinkers, and that he is part of the gay and lesbian community and that he shares our goals and dreams. But none of that is true.
“Repeat After Me”: The Reparative Therapy Echo Chamber
The April 2008 edition of the pay-to-publish vanity journal Psychological Reports featured a new report from NARTH. Written by NARTH president A. Dean Byrd, past president Joseph Nicolosi, and Richard W. Potts, the report carries the unwieldy but self-descriptive title, “Clients perceptions of how reorientation therapy and self-help can promote changes in sexual orientation.” While the title describes what the authors meant to show — how clients describe the benefits of reparative therapy — the report itself actually illustrates something very different: the ex-gay movement’s remarkable ability to instill an almost robot-like parroting of ex-gay rhetoric among their clients.
Testing the Premise: Is MRSA The New Gay Plague?
The Toronto Star said that a new study “discover[ed] a new strain” of a super-bug “hitting gay men.” Headlines in Britain screamed, “Flesh-eating bug strikes San Francisco’s gay community,” and anti-gay extremists across America spread the alarm that gays were introducing another plague into “the general population.” But there was a small problem with all of this: None of it is true!
Paul Cameron’s World
In 2005, the Southern Poverty Law Center wrote that “[Paul] Cameron’s ‘science’ echoes Nazi Germany.” What the SPLC didn”t know was Cameron doesn’t just “echo” Nazi Germany. He quoted extensively from one of the Final Solution’s architects. This puts his fascination with quarantines, mandatory tattoos, and extermination being a “plausible idea” in a whole new and deeply disturbing light.
From the Inside: Focus on the Family’s “Love Won Out”
On February 10, I attended an all-day “Love Won Out” ex-gay conference in Phoenix, put on by Focus on the Family and Exodus International. In this series of reports, I talk about what I learned there: the people who go to these conferences, the things that they hear, and what this all means for them, their families and for the rest of us.
Prologue: Why I Went To “Love Won Out”
Part 1: What’s Love Got To Do With It?
Part 2: Parents Struggle With “No Exceptions”
Part 3: A Whole New Dialect
Part 4: It Depends On How The Meaning of the Word "Change" Changes
Part 5: A Candid Explanation For "Change"
The Heterosexual Agenda: Exposing The Myths
At last, the truth can now be told.
Using the same research methods employed by most anti-gay political pressure groups, we examine the statistics and the case studies that dispel many of the myths about heterosexuality. Download your copy today!
And don't miss our companion report, How To Write An Anti-Gay Tract In Fifteen Easy Steps.
Testing The Premise: Are Gays A Threat To Our Children?
Anti-gay activists often charge that gay men and women pose a threat to children. In this report, we explore the supposed connection between homosexuality and child sexual abuse, the conclusions reached by the most knowledgeable professionals in the field, and how anti-gay activists continue to ignore their findings. This has tremendous consequences, not just for gay men and women, but more importantly for the safety of all our children.
Straight From The Source: What the “Dutch Study” Really Says About Gay Couples
Anti-gay activists often cite the “Dutch Study” to claim that gay unions last only about 1½ years and that the these men have an average of eight additional partners per year outside of their steady relationship. In this report, we will take you step by step into the study to see whether the claims are true.
The FRC’s Briefs Are Showing
Tony Perkins’ Family Research Council submitted an Amicus Brief to the Maryland Court of Appeals as that court prepared to consider the issue of gay marriage. We examine just one small section of that brief to reveal the junk science and fraudulent claims of the Family “Research” Council.
Review: The Gay Report
When Karla Jay and Allan Young published The Gay Report in 1979, it quickly a favorite source of statistics for many anti-gay extremists. But before you accepts these statistic at face value, you should examine the inner workings of this survey very carefully. What you learn might surprise you.
Daniel Fetty Doesn’t Count
The FBI’s annual Hate Crime Statistics aren’t as complete as they ought to be, and their report for 2004 was no exception. In fact, their most recent report has quite a few glaring holes. Holes big enough for Daniel Fetty to fall through.
MattNYC
August 23rd, 2012 | LINK
“Great” minds think alike, eh? Wonder if there’s a daily fax from Hate Central that they can use for language like the RNC/Faux News.
David in Houston
August 23rd, 2012 | LINK
I have no problem with any of those so-called consequences.
1. Young children ((might)) be taught that same-sex marriage is legal in their state. If that child happens to grow up to be gay, that information (that they have the same opportunity to get married, regardless of their sexual orientation) would be a very positive thing to hear. If the child is straight, it won’t impact their life at all.
2. If that religious non-profit organization is taking taxpayer money they cannot discriminate against gay citizens… who ALSO pay taxes, which in effect supports those organizations.
3. The majority of Americans who support the historic understanding of “same-race” marriage (that existed 45 years ago) ARE currently treated as bigots and racists. But they are NOT condemned for their bigotry under the law. That makes Brian Brown a liar. Shocking, I know.
Michael C
August 23rd, 2012 | LINK
Whether or not gay couples are allowed to marry, children WILL be taught that some people are gay and there is nothing wrong with that.
Whether or not gay couples are allowed to marry, organizations and businesses WILL Not be allowed to discriminate against gay people.
Whether or not gay couples are allowed to marry, Americans who do not respect gay people WILL continue to be allowed their personal opinions.
Timothy Kincaid
August 23rd, 2012 | LINK
September 20, 1977
That was the day that an episode of Happy Days ran in which Fonzie jumped over a shark. On water skis. Wearing a swimsuit and leather jacket.
I wonder just what day will be noted as the day that NOM jumped the shark.
Soren456
August 23rd, 2012 | LINK
As Gore Vidal noted, the squalor never ends among persons to whom truth is no criterion.
Eugene has always presented himself in a hyperbolic panic. As things tighten up moneywise for NOM, I guess they see the advantage in Eugene’s approach.
MattNYC says it: Great minds think alike.
james
August 23rd, 2012 | LINK
If you’ve got $50, $100, or as much as you can give right now to sustain the fight, send it to the American Foundation for Equal Rights (working on the Prop 8 case in the federal courts) or the groups in Washington, Minnesota, Maine, or Maryland working on marriage equality ballot items in this year’s election. We really need a ballot box victory on this question soon. And if SCOTUS takes the Prop 8 case, we’ll need to win there, too.
cowboy
August 23rd, 2012 | LINK
Mr. Kincaid,
I think the date is September 22, 2011.
It’s when Ms. Gallagher left the sinking ship.
http://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/2011/09/22/37304
Since then, it’s been one bad episode after another.
Gregory Peterson
August 23rd, 2012 | LINK
“We don’t consider ourselves hate-mongers and racists and bigots.”
Robert Patterson, a founder and the Mississippi Executive Secretary of the (white) Citizens’ Councils.
From the book: The Deep South Says Never
by John Bartlow Martin. Ballantine Books, New York. 1957. page 3.
Neil
August 24th, 2012 | LINK
Brian likes to complain about the word marriage being redefined. It seems he has no problem redefining the word bully.
A bully is “a blustering, quarrelsome, overbearing person who habitually badgers and intimidates smaller or weaker people.”
Brown’s definition completely inverts the meaning. LGBT activism lobbies to overcome the legacy of bullying from an inherited inequality dating back to a time of criminalisation. This is the context of fighting back.
When Brown calls “to fight back and fight harder” he’s actually calling to double down on the beating before the victim gets away. He wants to change the definition of the word bully to mean the person who wont take their beating and stay down.
DN
August 24th, 2012 | LINK
*sigh*
Catholic Charities was *not* forced out of business in Massachusetts.
First of all, they had already been adopting kids to gay couples before gay marriage:
http://articles.latimes.com/2008/nov/02/opinion/ed-prop8-2
Second, Catholic Charities voluntarily shuttered itself rather than comply with the law.
Third, “complying with the law” meant that if they wanted to follow their anti-gay doctrine (which I fully support their right to do), they could – they just had no recourse to state funds. Other religious adoption agencies (Mormons spring to mind) continue to run adoption agencies in the state.
I’m *so* tired of this paper-thin lie.
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