The Daily Agenda for Wednesday, May 22
House of Commons officially passes marriage equality
British Commons Approves Marriage Equality Bill
Email address of Attorney General prosecuting 18 year old Florida lesbian
Gay Man's Murder Sparks Massive Rally
The Daily Agenda for Tuesday, May 21
Connecticut Scouts simply announce that they are accepting gay scout leaders
Church of Scotland allows ministers in relationship
Featured Reports
What Are Little Boys Made Of?
In this original BTB Investigation, we unveil the tragic story of Kirk Murphy, a four-year-old boy who was treated for “cross-gender disturbance” in 1970 by a young grad student by the name of George Rekers. This story is a stark reminder that there are severe and damaging consequences when therapists try to ensure that boys will be boys.
Slouching Towards Kampala: Uganda’s Deadly Embrace of Hate
When we first reported on three American anti-gay activists traveling to Kampala for a three-day conference, we had no idea that it would be the first report of a long string of events leading to a proposal to institute the death penalty for LGBT people. But that is exactly what happened. In this report, we review our collection of more than 500 posts to tell the story of one nation’s embrace of hatred toward gay people. This report will be updated continuously as events continue to unfold. Check here for the latest updates.
David Benkof: Behind the Mask
At first glance, David Benkof appears to be a young gay man who believes that same-sex marriage will damage the institution of marriage, that there are better options for gay couples than marriage, that the community should join him in prioritizing other more pressing issues, and that the marriage discussion is harming the efforts of gay couples in red states to get recognition for their unions. He also claims that he’s a gay columnist, that he speaks for an influential collection of gay thinkers, and that he is part of the gay and lesbian community and that he shares our goals and dreams. But none of that is true.
“Repeat After Me”: The Reparative Therapy Echo Chamber
The April 2008 edition of the pay-to-publish vanity journal Psychological Reports featured a new report from NARTH. Written by NARTH president A. Dean Byrd, past president Joseph Nicolosi, and Richard W. Potts, the report carries the unwieldy but self-descriptive title, “Clients perceptions of how reorientation therapy and self-help can promote changes in sexual orientation.” While the title describes what the authors meant to show — how clients describe the benefits of reparative therapy — the report itself actually illustrates something very different: the ex-gay movement’s remarkable ability to instill an almost robot-like parroting of ex-gay rhetoric among their clients.
Testing the Premise: Is MRSA The New Gay Plague?
The Toronto Star said that a new study “discover[ed] a new strain” of a super-bug “hitting gay men.” Headlines in Britain screamed, “Flesh-eating bug strikes San Francisco’s gay community,” and anti-gay extremists across America spread the alarm that gays were introducing another plague into “the general population.” But there was a small problem with all of this: None of it is true!
Paul Cameron’s World
In 2005, the Southern Poverty Law Center wrote that “[Paul] Cameron’s ‘science’ echoes Nazi Germany.” What the SPLC didn”t know was Cameron doesn’t just “echo” Nazi Germany. He quoted extensively from one of the Final Solution’s architects. This puts his fascination with quarantines, mandatory tattoos, and extermination being a “plausible idea” in a whole new and deeply disturbing light.
From the Inside: Focus on the Family’s “Love Won Out”
On February 10, I attended an all-day “Love Won Out” ex-gay conference in Phoenix, put on by Focus on the Family and Exodus International. In this series of reports, I talk about what I learned there: the people who go to these conferences, the things that they hear, and what this all means for them, their families and for the rest of us.
Prologue: Why I Went To “Love Won Out”
Part 1: What’s Love Got To Do With It?
Part 2: Parents Struggle With “No Exceptions”
Part 3: A Whole New Dialect
Part 4: It Depends On How The Meaning of the Word "Change" Changes
Part 5: A Candid Explanation For "Change"
The Heterosexual Agenda: Exposing The Myths
At last, the truth can now be told.
Using the same research methods employed by most anti-gay political pressure groups, we examine the statistics and the case studies that dispel many of the myths about heterosexuality. Download your copy today!
And don't miss our companion report, How To Write An Anti-Gay Tract In Fifteen Easy Steps.
Testing The Premise: Are Gays A Threat To Our Children?
Anti-gay activists often charge that gay men and women pose a threat to children. In this report, we explore the supposed connection between homosexuality and child sexual abuse, the conclusions reached by the most knowledgeable professionals in the field, and how anti-gay activists continue to ignore their findings. This has tremendous consequences, not just for gay men and women, but more importantly for the safety of all our children.
Straight From The Source: What the “Dutch Study” Really Says About Gay Couples
Anti-gay activists often cite the “Dutch Study” to claim that gay unions last only about 1½ years and that the these men have an average of eight additional partners per year outside of their steady relationship. In this report, we will take you step by step into the study to see whether the claims are true.
The FRC’s Briefs Are Showing
Tony Perkins’ Family Research Council submitted an Amicus Brief to the Maryland Court of Appeals as that court prepared to consider the issue of gay marriage. We examine just one small section of that brief to reveal the junk science and fraudulent claims of the Family “Research” Council.
Review: The Gay Report
When Karla Jay and Allan Young published The Gay Report in 1979, it quickly a favorite source of statistics for many anti-gay extremists. But before you accepts these statistic at face value, you should examine the inner workings of this survey very carefully. What you learn might surprise you.
Daniel Fetty Doesn’t Count
The FBI’s annual Hate Crime Statistics aren’t as complete as they ought to be, and their report for 2004 was no exception. In fact, their most recent report has quite a few glaring holes. Holes big enough for Daniel Fetty to fall through.
TampaZeke
May 18th, 2010 | LINK
Strange how many anti-gay power players who preach the gospel that bad parenting turns kids gay later have one of their own children come out.
Phyllis Schaffley
Alan Keyes
Charles Socarides
Tim and Beverly LaHaye
and the list goes on…
John in the Bay Area
May 18th, 2010 | LINK
I remember when growing up that my mother was constantly shaking her head at the TV when someone would get up and blame some person’s behavior or predicament in life on their parents. This seemed to occur on a regular basis on TV in the 70′s and early 80′s. I could really see my mother’s point just from the kids that grew up in my neighborhood. Decent kind people with psycho kids, and total reprobates with great kids.
We went through an era where everything was blamed on parents and parenting, including homosexuality. It would appear that Exodus and NARTH are stuck in that time warp. For the rest of us, these parenting theories of homosexuality that were never supported by strong scientific evidence, are so at odds with the reality of the world around us, that no major medical or psychological organizations give any credence to them.
Quo
May 20th, 2010 | LINK
When and how did Michael Bussee become an expert on the development of homosexuality, and how exactly would he know that it’s “just not true” that bad parenting causes “gayness”?
Funny that he’d think that theory “just not true”, because it sure seems to me that my homosexuality has plenty to do with the fact that I had bad relationships with my parents.
Could it be that Bussee is denying that bad parents help to cause homosexuality simply out of political correctness? I think so. What sanctimonious tripe.
Emily K
May 20th, 2010 | LINK
Paul Cameron and the co-founders of JONAH also have gay kids. And Paul Cameron is supposed to be an “expert” on curing the gay.
I really want them to make a statement as to how they’ve failed in their parenting (resulting in a gay child). After all, if the “experts” couldn’t get it right, how the hell are “ordinary folk” going to?
Désirée
May 20th, 2010 | LINK
damn… I lost my bet. I figured Quo would be here spewing nonsense much sooner than 2 days after the initial post.
It’s been said before but hey let’s repeat it: Quo, just because something happened to you that you interpret one way doesn’t mean your experience is universal or even that you are interpreting it properly. But hey, have fun in your misery. The rest of us will be over here—> having fun and enjoying our lives.
Timothy Kincaid
May 20th, 2010 | LINK
Emily,
I think you are mistaken. I don’t believe Paul Cameron has gay kids. Perhaps you are thinking of Charles Socarides?
Many of the other anti-gay activists also have gay kids, siblings, etc.
Emily K
May 20th, 2010 | LINK
You’re probably right, Timothy. It must be Charlies and not Paul. Yes there are many anti-gays who have gay kids and such.
Like that one woman who joined up with Exodus after she was dumped by her boyfriend who came out.
Talk about bitterness. She may have no idea what it wrought.
Sam
June 7th, 2010 | LINK
I’m attracted to Michael Bussee. Is he single? He’s really hot.
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