The Daily Agenda for Sunday, May 19
French President Hollande Signs Marriage Bill
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Fox News Ignores Marriage Equality Wins
The Era of Civil Unions Is Coming To An End
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France's Marriage Equality Bill Clears Final Hurdle
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Featured Reports
What Are Little Boys Made Of?
In this original BTB Investigation, we unveil the tragic story of Kirk Murphy, a four-year-old boy who was treated for “cross-gender disturbance” in 1970 by a young grad student by the name of George Rekers. This story is a stark reminder that there are severe and damaging consequences when therapists try to ensure that boys will be boys.
Slouching Towards Kampala: Uganda’s Deadly Embrace of Hate
When we first reported on three American anti-gay activists traveling to Kampala for a three-day conference, we had no idea that it would be the first report of a long string of events leading to a proposal to institute the death penalty for LGBT people. But that is exactly what happened. In this report, we review our collection of more than 500 posts to tell the story of one nation’s embrace of hatred toward gay people. This report will be updated continuously as events continue to unfold. Check here for the latest updates.
David Benkof: Behind the Mask
At first glance, David Benkof appears to be a young gay man who believes that same-sex marriage will damage the institution of marriage, that there are better options for gay couples than marriage, that the community should join him in prioritizing other more pressing issues, and that the marriage discussion is harming the efforts of gay couples in red states to get recognition for their unions. He also claims that he’s a gay columnist, that he speaks for an influential collection of gay thinkers, and that he is part of the gay and lesbian community and that he shares our goals and dreams. But none of that is true.
“Repeat After Me”: The Reparative Therapy Echo Chamber
The April 2008 edition of the pay-to-publish vanity journal Psychological Reports featured a new report from NARTH. Written by NARTH president A. Dean Byrd, past president Joseph Nicolosi, and Richard W. Potts, the report carries the unwieldy but self-descriptive title, “Clients perceptions of how reorientation therapy and self-help can promote changes in sexual orientation.” While the title describes what the authors meant to show — how clients describe the benefits of reparative therapy — the report itself actually illustrates something very different: the ex-gay movement’s remarkable ability to instill an almost robot-like parroting of ex-gay rhetoric among their clients.
Testing the Premise: Is MRSA The New Gay Plague?
The Toronto Star said that a new study “discover[ed] a new strain” of a super-bug “hitting gay men.” Headlines in Britain screamed, “Flesh-eating bug strikes San Francisco’s gay community,” and anti-gay extremists across America spread the alarm that gays were introducing another plague into “the general population.” But there was a small problem with all of this: None of it is true!
Paul Cameron’s World
In 2005, the Southern Poverty Law Center wrote that “[Paul] Cameron’s ‘science’ echoes Nazi Germany.” What the SPLC didn”t know was Cameron doesn’t just “echo” Nazi Germany. He quoted extensively from one of the Final Solution’s architects. This puts his fascination with quarantines, mandatory tattoos, and extermination being a “plausible idea” in a whole new and deeply disturbing light.
From the Inside: Focus on the Family’s “Love Won Out”
On February 10, I attended an all-day “Love Won Out” ex-gay conference in Phoenix, put on by Focus on the Family and Exodus International. In this series of reports, I talk about what I learned there: the people who go to these conferences, the things that they hear, and what this all means for them, their families and for the rest of us.
Prologue: Why I Went To “Love Won Out”
Part 1: What’s Love Got To Do With It?
Part 2: Parents Struggle With “No Exceptions”
Part 3: A Whole New Dialect
Part 4: It Depends On How The Meaning of the Word "Change" Changes
Part 5: A Candid Explanation For "Change"
The Heterosexual Agenda: Exposing The Myths
At last, the truth can now be told.
Using the same research methods employed by most anti-gay political pressure groups, we examine the statistics and the case studies that dispel many of the myths about heterosexuality. Download your copy today!
And don't miss our companion report, How To Write An Anti-Gay Tract In Fifteen Easy Steps.
Testing The Premise: Are Gays A Threat To Our Children?
Anti-gay activists often charge that gay men and women pose a threat to children. In this report, we explore the supposed connection between homosexuality and child sexual abuse, the conclusions reached by the most knowledgeable professionals in the field, and how anti-gay activists continue to ignore their findings. This has tremendous consequences, not just for gay men and women, but more importantly for the safety of all our children.
Straight From The Source: What the “Dutch Study” Really Says About Gay Couples
Anti-gay activists often cite the “Dutch Study” to claim that gay unions last only about 1½ years and that the these men have an average of eight additional partners per year outside of their steady relationship. In this report, we will take you step by step into the study to see whether the claims are true.
The FRC’s Briefs Are Showing
Tony Perkins’ Family Research Council submitted an Amicus Brief to the Maryland Court of Appeals as that court prepared to consider the issue of gay marriage. We examine just one small section of that brief to reveal the junk science and fraudulent claims of the Family “Research” Council.
Review: The Gay Report
When Karla Jay and Allan Young published The Gay Report in 1979, it quickly a favorite source of statistics for many anti-gay extremists. But before you accepts these statistic at face value, you should examine the inner workings of this survey very carefully. What you learn might surprise you.
Daniel Fetty Doesn’t Count
The FBI’s annual Hate Crime Statistics aren’t as complete as they ought to be, and their report for 2004 was no exception. In fact, their most recent report has quite a few glaring holes. Holes big enough for Daniel Fetty to fall through.
Dawn/FFL
June 22nd, 2010 | LINK
It seems Adam is still searching for a group that will give him a new high. I really hope that Adam comes to realize one day soon that God has always loved him, as he was created.
Back to the video – Is he snapping his fingers?
Jim
June 22nd, 2010 | LINK
I dunno…the story sounds pretty Mike Warnke, like he made it up to impress his new friends. I mean, Mafia witches?! Please.
Timothy Kincaid
June 22nd, 2010 | LINK
“Scarfboi”
brilliant, simply brilliant
Richard Rush
June 22nd, 2010 | LINK
Morningstar House?
Justice House of Prayer (JHOP)?
I suggest that he start a new group:
International House of Phruitcakes (IHOP)
Timothy Kincaid
June 22nd, 2010 | LINK
Oh dear,
Scarfboi has another video of a “perpetual praise party” which featured some white rapper, an indie band whose guitarist wore a Burger King crown, some chick in a princess costume, and him wearing his gold lame scarf.
He does love his scarf.
John in the Bay Area
June 22nd, 2010 | LINK
I am beginning to wonder what is hidden underneath that scarf.
Candace
June 22nd, 2010 | LINK
Warnke is the biggest liar to ever hit the Christian “ex-whatever” circles. He’s too stupid to even fit his lies into the timeline they were supposed to have happened in, claiming to be 2 and 3 places at the same time. Not to mention that he doesn’t know jack about occultism.
Somebody needs to monitor scarfboi’s meds before he has another major episode of teh crazy.
Jafuf
June 23rd, 2010 | LINK
I just hope this pathetic queen really ISN’T gay, because he sure as hell gives the rest of us a bad name. But then I suspect he’s Lou Engles’ boitoi (he keeps him in ‘scarfs’). Seriously, he is just too pathetic for words, and I hope he seeks professional help some day soon.
Lou Ruiz
June 23rd, 2010 | LINK
On the Kinsey scale, this guy is 102.
Regan DuCasse
June 23rd, 2010 | LINK
I have to go back to something I mentioned a long time ago about ex gays and people who are SO public about it.
Being heterosexual doesn’t require so much reiteration, and PROPS like op sex spouses and kids. There is a quality about ex gays that screams TRYING TOO HARD!!!
I don’t even see how so many churches and organizations would want to hold up people like this as if it’s such an achievement to want to dodge social duress and threats to all that any citizen must have to be happy.
When all of those factors are at work to want to make a person hate being gay, then it’s not exactly something the ex gay came to in a blaze of enlightenment and precious love.
We’ve all pretty much seen what happens to someone’s body and face when they are obsessed with plastic surgery or whatever kind of excess of makeover.
It looks fake, it paralyzes real expressions and leaves SCARS. To say nothing of a lighter wallet and weeks of enduring pain.
The same kinds of people who have a dysphoria like that, can also have the same and endure the same in their effort to be heterosexual.
I don’t trust ex gays any more than a woman sporting silicone boobs that says ‘ their mine! I bought them!’
One can’t BUY heterosexuality. It takes NO practice to be straight, just as it takes no practice to be gay.
In between are stereotypes and caricatures of what either side thinks heteros or gay people are. And nothing authentic comes from it.
We either are or we aren’t. And heterosexual life is no guarantee you STILL won’t have serious problems with the relationship you’re trying to have for the world to see.
The ex gay industry sells out heterosexuals too. Makes us look healthy and especially expert on what sex, family and commitment is.
When, all around us, we know this isn’t true. But there are people kept from being able to more deeply analyze what’s going on behind the frozen smiles of the people of that industry.
And the hard sell of Christ, holiness and op sex relationships and marriage.
Don’t try and tell me the naugehyde you’re wearing is leather. Some of us DO know the difference. And it’s the naugehyde that eventually, and more easily, splits and gets destroyed after all.
wes
June 24th, 2010 | LINK
I feel so sorry for this man. Yes, I know he is actively working against me and the one I hold dear, yet my heart aches for this poor lost sheep. He must hate himself so much.
justsearching
June 24th, 2010 | LINK
His first video was released on June 21st. In 3 days, as of now, it has 125,000 views. People are probably sending it to their friends as a great example of what an ex-gay looks like.
Tim Stewart
August 9th, 2011 | LINK
This guy is either of three things:
1) Dishonest
2) Bisexual
3) Both
I suspect #1, but I’m leaning toward #3.
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